I woke up like this….

AirSailer · 2023-07-22T14:07:20+00:00

She's realizing that the grass isn't greener on the other side. My ex did the same thing, and now she can't even afford gas. Sorry, not sorry.

Diablo_Canyon2 · 2023-07-22T14:27:34+00:00

emotional manipulation. Don't fall for it.

captainchippsixx · 2023-07-22T14:32:15+00:00

Dig the moat. Raise the bridge. Crossbows above the portcullis. And a sign with the word Ex. With a line through it.

silmarp · 2023-07-22T17:08:50+00:00

I've seen this tale many times.

Suppose you let her come back.

Best possibility: A dude take a cheater back, he will never get comfortable as before because she made him plan b. She can't understand why he's grumpy because if he accepted her back then she did nothing wrong. She is gonna snap at him and make derogatory remarks because women are programmed to punish such men. Years later she leaves for another dude and luckily stays there.

Usually what happens: A dude takes his wife back, only to discover that she never stopped communications with her affair partner. Because he accepted her back she understands she can do it again with new partners. It takes one, two, maybe even five years so the dude finally reaches his breaking point and finally complete what he should have done in the first day. The divorce.

Worst possibility: A dude accepts his wife is this way, she is gonna eat her cake and eat it too, he's dominated and isolated by her. She is gonna abandon him to die at some hospital when she has the chance and bring another man to eat his money.

CrazySanta7 · 2023-07-22T15:32:58+00:00

"Please only send communication concerning the kids, i will not respond to anything else"

If you don't have kids together, full block. You are plan D. Plan A, B, C are not working out. Don't be anyones plan D.

BurnDownTheMission68 · 2023-07-22T14:32:22+00:00

The branch she monkeyed to appears to have broken.

But if she is thin and pretty chances are you will take her back.

🤷‍♂️

fewdo · 2023-07-22T15:22:37+00:00

It's a big decision and she's wavering. She'll go back and forth several times during the process. Her reasons for breaking up will still be there though. You can do your best, change everything about yourself and she'll still go back to the breakup. It's not about you. It's about her wanting to roll the dice again.

sixtysixpixistix · 2023-07-22T16:30:36+00:00

Just say no. Better yet, say nothing at all.

Also, it sounds like she just found out she's pregnant. Call it a hunch, but I've heard this story too many times to ignore it.

EnvironmentalAd3558 · 2023-07-22T17:36:59+00:00

This is about you now. Do you even want her back now? If this happened while you were engaged would you have gone forward with the marriage? Such conduct shows you that she is not wife material where you take a risk on assets you acquire and right to enjoy and control your future income.

Divorce her now and get financially unhooked from her. If you still love her you can still date her. Marriage in itself is risky and now even more risky with her.

trigunner3 · 2023-07-22T18:50:06+00:00

I just told my stbxw who left for ap

I threw away all the wedding stuff. Burned the photos..scrubbed every possible social media of you and your existence.

Then I blocked her.

hpsportsfanatic · 2023-07-22T23:30:23+00:00

Hit ‘em with the “well I don’t”

Vulgrim6835 · 2023-07-23T05:08:29+00:00

Tell her to talk to your attorney. Let her share your frustration and anger. Believe me, there’s not much that women hate more than being ignored.

marcsmith73 · 2023-07-23T16:24:01+00:00

Why would you even reply to this text. This woman is a child.

Title	I woke up like this….
Author	Meltingintx
Upvotes	31
Comments	26
Date	July 22, 2023 1:58 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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