This is a question to women, lets say you meet a guy or you match with him on tinder, the guy is attractive, and he was very direct from the get go about wanting to hook up, so you meet and there's that sexual tension and you two hookup and/or have a fwb situation.

if this guy decides to pursue an LTR with you, would you consider it?

The reason I'm asking this is because I've been in a weird situation, I'm 29 and I've been told that I'm attractive, I do get a lot of ONS's on OLD very easily, I'm talking 3-4 hook ups per week with different women. BUT these women usually do not want a relationship, and the minute I suggest it they ghost!

now I do get as many women that do want a relationship a lot too, but those tend to never sleep with me on the first date, or the second, and always try and make me wait for sex, which is a huge red flag for me and a big turn off, so I usually just move on.

what I ultimately want is an LTR, but with a woman that doesnt make stupid rules and make me wait for sex, it seems like its an all or nothing type of situation for most women, its either a ONS or an LTR where they make me wait for sex.

I'd love to hear your insights