Why do I think that talking to women is giving them attention?(Disclaimer what I will say might be offensive)

fathergoose77 · 2023-11-03T18:16:18+00:00

Humans are social creatures. We tend to like pleasant interactions with other humans, especially those we can relate too like our classmates, peers, coworkers. They’re in our environment so we tend to like to know them a bit. Like when I have a new co-worker at work (or met someone new in my school programs), it’s always “where are you from? What do you like to do on the weekends? What part of the field do you like?”.

Now if you’re depressed, socially anxious, or very insecure, you might want to avoid these social interactions all together or think people are being “fake”. They’re not.

Now because you already have a warped, RP view of women (not seeing them as full humans outside of what they can do for you sexually), you think its for attention when in reality, most humans just like interacting with other humans. This is a social behavior both men and women exhibit, it is not about getting romantic attention. We like to laugh, and smile, and feel a kinship with the people in our environment. But because your mind is HYPER focused on the potential of it being a romantic interaction and your depression is blinding you to experiencing positive emotions, you don’t see if for the basic thing it is: human social interaction. Do you get pissed off when guys are just socializing and laughing with each other as well?

So the answer to “why” is because of your misogynistic views of women as not inherently full humans who enjoy socializing with their peers, and the state of your mental health. You’re going to stay angry until you get to the root of these things. You’re seeing the world and women in the most negative lens possible.

One thing to note too: if you’re not social yourself and tend to be more of a loner, it might just be envy you are feeling. Do you also wish you were smiling and laughing and talking with your peers but you’re not so you’re automatic Redpill reaction is to blame women for “wanting attention”? You might just be envious, but you don’t know how to also engage socially, so you want to make women seem bad rather than working on socializing.

-Huzzah--- · 2023-11-03T20:18:38+00:00

Misogyny isn’t synonymous with depression. You think this way because you see women as objects. Trying to signal that you have depression is an attempt to justify your views.

creamerfam5 · 2023-11-03T18:02:10+00:00

Ew.

so basically you believe that women are worthless to you if they ain't suckin' no dick? Why would you not want to be friends with women?

You seem to be a fine example of the notion that hetero men don't actually like women.

Narbonar · 2023-11-03T18:11:14+00:00

Attention isn’t bad, you need some level of attention to form connections with people. Idk if your exaggerating or not, but it sounds like you gone pretty far down the redpill rabbit hole. What kind of stuff have you been watching/reading that is making you believe this?

smallbonesofcourage · 2023-11-03T19:46:32+00:00

They see you as s human being worthy to talk to and include in social activities. Not all is about sex and relationships and seeing people as resources, that's why they talk with you. They see beyond that.

-ctrl-shift-z- · 2023-11-03T17:58:55+00:00

Damn you need help

princess_giant · 2023-11-03T23:12:06+00:00

not depression, just misogyny

AcrobaticRhubarb2147 · 2023-11-03T21:52:50+00:00

I mean this sincerely, but I feel you need to see a male therapist. I say male therapist because when women speak it pisses you off and also because you see women as sex objects and not humans and please step away from the porn.

Top_Radio_9436 · 2023-11-03T19:10:14+00:00

You need to ask yourself some questions. Do you feel this kind of suspicion when men try to make friends with you or just when women are trying to make friends with you?

See this as a opportunity for practicing your social skills with women. Heterosexual guys who are homosocial and can't make friends with women (or won't unless sex is involved) are at a disadvantage and with how widespread this RP crap is, it might even a red flag. When they start talking to you, talk to them.

xvszero · 2023-11-03T23:37:34+00:00

Yeah sorry this is pretty sociopathic thought man. Sometimes people just talk, especially at work or school.

Huge-Revolution9177 · 2023-11-04T01:54:19+00:00

Not even saying this to be rude, I say this as someone who works in mental health, you honestly need to talk to someone in a professional capacity. These thoughts can become very dangerous if left to their own devices.

jxxxx203 · 2023-11-04T12:05:19+00:00

Then be alone

DangerStarfish · 2023-11-04T13:45:49+00:00

Nobody owes you a blowjob, my guy. You wild for dat. 😂

Pro tip: you're more likely to get laid if you don't expect to get laid. Especially with hetero sexual relations.

SweelFor- · 2023-11-04T00:32:04+00:00

How do you feel about talking with men?

Tostitos153 · 2023-11-04T17:31:35+00:00

You need therapy.

BlissfulBlueBell · 2023-11-04T02:43:04+00:00

because you're a lame ass misogynist

strangest_thing1675 · 2023-11-04T08:49:02+00:00

So, you weren’t sure what you said is offensive? So you said “might”? I know I’m going to be offensive so suck it up, sunshine and listen….exactly what do you think sucking your dick is? Could that be….oh I don’t know, you monumental idiot… could that be attention? You think you have to give no one attention ever, yet every women should be sucking yo’ dick? To test this, I suggest you start being completely honest. Tell everyone that’s what you think. And any women who dares to talk to you, tell them that their mouth is good for one thing and it ain’t talking. And have that chat with your parents. Tell them this is what you have been taught by them. And then report back and let us know how it’s going. If you are a fully formed adult male, then you have skipped some very important lessons of life on the way. And you need to learn them.

Title	Why do I think that talking to women is giving them attention?(Disclaimer what I will say might be offensive)
Author	DefiantLiterature144
Upvotes	0
Comments	156
Date	November 3, 2023 5:18 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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