Wanting a partner who is simply not overweight or ugly is not entitlement, yet most men are told that it is

If a man himself is not overweight and above average looking, he should by all means be more than capable of securing a partner of the same standard. Yet when he is not, and finds this bizarre and aggravating he is told that “women don’t owe him anything” and that he is “not entitled to women’s bodies.” This makes no sense, and is gaslighting bullshit.