I’ve been dating this guy for 6 months. I opened up to him like I never did with another man, he really learned how to treat a woman. He listens to a lot of red pill Tate style podcast so I kinda know what he thinks.

He was pretty chill at he beginning, always had boundaries but all good, nothing too weird. However, now he’s asking more and more. Deleted Instagram, clean social media, the other day I forgot to unfollow these two dating coaches on tiktok and he archived a picture of us on his profile. He said he feels disrespected and he can’t have a woman that is not committed 100% on his social media.

I cook for him everyday, even though I work full time too, do his laundry and also pay for all the food. We don’t live together but he eats at my place everyday.

His job is super chill, just have a few sales calls a week and that’s it. So he has a lot of time. He makes a lot more money than me too.

He talks about how men should provide etc but he doesn’t help me with anything at all. I mentioned it and he said I thought your dad was giving you a lot of money and you didn’t need help, all because I refused to let him pay me for a few things that I paid for. Because I was using his card to use Uber everyday.

Things got even worse when his bank account got blocked and I started paying more things for him. I started to resent him, even though I do understand it’s a special situation.

Anyway, the other day when I mentioned that I was feeling overwhelmed he said me paying for things was a way of him to feel special. Because I’ve dated too many guys in the past and I should at least spend money on him.

Even my family noticed this and my dad mentioned that a good man should naturally want to provide and would never raise his tone like he does with me in front of other people.

I don’t see him changing anytime soon, his ego is too big and he considers himself a trophy boyfriend.