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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-06T16:29:34+00:00

By being a fun person, who can cause all people in the group to laugh and have a good time before you even focus on one girl, then once you are welcome to stay as a member of the group you can try to get to know one girl of the group.

it requires you to be super extroverted, outgoing, humorous, funny, and have lots of shit to talk about.

If you don’t match this requirements then i’d suggest you go somewhere else and approach people that are alone or with two people max at best.

Because approaching girls in big groups is advanced game, beginners just can’t do it

FakeSafeWord · 2022-08-06T17:18:35+00:00

Don't go trying to jump into social groups with no idea how they formed in the first place and also with the sole intent of trying to pick up the girls.

Approach, ask how they all know each other. "Is it some sort meetup group?" If it is a social meetup/school club, they almost always will go out of their way to collect more members... just ask how you can join and you're in because they and you now have the same reason to be there and no one has any more or less right to be present in that group because they're not managing membership on social rules... it's governed by the meetup group or social club/uni.

If it's just random friends hanging out, introduce yourself "Hey I'm Forcefulway72! I go to university. Anyone in (name of club/program/academic focus)" and then just start asking people what they're majors are and whatever college kids talk about.

Hang for a few minutes and get to know a few people, whether they're men or women, and then tell them you have to go and ask they meet up often, and get some contact info from someone. You've got to be genuine here. You have to come off as though you're a good fit for their group as an equal or better, not that you just want them to accept you so you can be a leach.

Don't try to ingratiate yourself to them by asking them to be your friend or bringing toys like a frisbee or something. This can work, but also make you come off as needy/leach.

KisapadajaDoma · 2022-08-06T17:12:21+00:00

Personally I won't approach a group that has guys in it. You will just get cock blocked.

If the girl is alone or she is just in a group with all girls, I would approach.

Something simple like: "Hey, maybe a little forward but you are (cute, sexy, beautiful, interesting...) so I had to say hello." Then you just continute to have conversation with her or with a group. Good luck and don't forget to ask for a date at the end.

Live-Ad-6309 · 2022-08-06T18:33:11+00:00

For most day game, the best way I've found is to use a prop.

Example. Maybe she's reading a book. Start the conversation by asking about that book.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-08-06T17:43:43+00:00

Dont "cold approach" forget all that p.u.a. garbage, Be a normal adult and introduce yourself and have normal conversation. It is unreal how far u can get with a woman with normal banter.

69pastagirl · 2022-08-06T20:30:35+00:00

sounds like ur my ex HAHAHA

2022-08-07T14:27:41+00:00

Lol creeper.

Edit: this post highlights exactly what is wrong with “pick-up” culture.

1: geography, the people in a park are not in the park to find love. They are there to do whatever young people do at the park and the women will not be in a mind set to “be picked up”. It’s like if you were swimming at a pool or beach and someone walked up to you and asked you to play video games - “no, I’m here to swim”

2: the odds of you successfully entering a random social group at the park is super low. Especially if you show up alone

3: “suck the value”? What does that even mean??? You’re going to come off as weird and will be excluded. Not because of “sucking value” but because your approach brings none

2022-08-06T17:49:08+00:00

Just leave people alone

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-08-07T04:14:32+00:00

Well if u dont wanna extract value and fail, then go ahead and offer/give value to them.

Approach and say “Srry i’m late. What i’ve missed?” Or “Srry I made u wait a while.. and so what you’re reding there?” First impression will be fine if you do it normally. U got attraction (curiosity) then go from there, build some comfort by being curious about her, and then add some flirt (inside jokes, tease, push pull bla bla) and either instant date or mobile #

Nothing hard when u make it authentic

cormacru999 · 2022-08-07T01:04:38+00:00

Women hate this. Please stop trying it. Just be a normal human, make friendships, participate in groups, work at a job, meet women, get to know them. Women do not exist in the world waiting for some random dude that feels attracted to them will interrupt their day to demand their attention & hope to hook up.

2022-08-06T17:11:13+00:00

You walk slow with a demure smile on your face with open body language you look after girls that smile at you and (you) say "HI"....

starfire_xed · 2022-08-06T18:46:18+00:00

When they have dogs, try puppy love

Warm-Yogurtcloset-96 · 2022-08-06T23:58:55+00:00

Why is this worded like you're a 40+ y/o man who wants to hit on 19/20 y/o's?

ilovefootball49 · 2022-08-07T03:39:41+00:00

Just pretend like you saw them in one of your classes and ask them their major. Center the conversation around them and it will lower their guard. Then you can weasel your way in.

burncushlikewood · 2022-08-07T05:31:48+00:00

https://youtu.be/WCfwj_p7Oa8

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-07T14:56:06+00:00

I would talk to the whole group so that their is a chance one or two will be genuinely interested. Also, give other people a chance as well. You never know what people have the best characteristics of a great person or life partner.

If you want an icebreaker, use a dog (preferably a smaller dog: French bulldogs and Boston terriers are very good choices) and some will stop to pet the dog and be a good conversation starter. You're welcome. 😉

Some people already have commented on it, but again, you may have to be a little more extroverted if you are going to approach the whole group, but you still have to be yourself. Don't fake it. The odds seem to be in your favor in that environment if you do it right. It will be a lot of trial-and-error, but find the right approach and you will find one or two.

Again, already said, but try other places as well if you aren't doing it already. Broaden your scope. If they say no, be respectful and polite with the rejection, and keep it moving. Your life won't go up in flames if they say no.

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