I found out about game 3 years ago. Since than i watched dozens of hours of video, read 5 books. Couldn't find the balls to cold approach though.

I had some dates, from social circle. Applying seduction principles had an amazing effect. I did work on myself, found out what problems i have to work out, get a lot of introspection and self discovery.

I still struggled with action though. I cold approached maybe 3 times in all those years, but it was without results and shaking from nerves. I went back to watching videos and consuming theory.

Two weeks ago i finally got frustrated and angry. I said wtf, why don't I just try this and see what happens. What's stopping me?

I started going out with intention to cold approach. I was going out almost every day. There was a lot of approach anxiety, but I managed to say a complement a couple of times to some girls and it felt awesome. Didn't make a proper approach yet.

A week after that I noticed a cute girl at the bus stop. I hesitated for like 2 minutes, but managed to do it in the end. I said she was pretty and I wanted to say hi. I was nervous, i mumbled words from the nerves but she gave me her number. The same week i went out on a date with her and had a great time.

Mind blown!

This week I approached another girl, my personal 9/10. She was very pretty. I was textbook confident, and after some convo i said i find her attractive and proposed a date. She was blushing and smiling, and she agreed.

We said goodbye and i just stood there shocked. Like, was it THAT easy the entire time? I can meet my personal 8s and 9s just like that and make them blush and smile?

It's mind-blowing to me, that actually my entire problem and reason why was single so long was in my head.

If you struggle like I struggled guys i tell you this - no matter how much theory you think you need or how you should look or anything else - go out and see. If you stop rejecting yourself and just think "let's see what would actually happen if i say hi?" I guarantee you will be surprised by the results :)

December is going to be lit!