Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just Sex

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-05-30T22:40:26+00:00

This is true.. you need a hook. Years ago.. it was my dog, then weed, then my weed and hot tub, then weed hot tub really good wine. at one point I got a 70 inch HDTV and that was a reason...a lady needs pretense or she feels like a whore...somwhow its slightly lesz whorish to come over to watch a movie and get boned on the couch than to just come over for sex.

TheOffice_Account · 2021-05-30T20:02:41+00:00

a sophisticated collection of wine, books and music.

Guys, buy this shit. It will get you laid. A few bottles of wine, 100 hardcovers from a used book store, and 20 CDs in an expensive tower 🙃

I have a male friend who slept with a cute bank teller at his bank.

Any chance she knew how much he had in his bank account? 😂😂

Gouda_Gouda_gumdrops · 2021-05-30T20:11:33+00:00

And to add onto your accurate assessment, we women need foreplay. And that includes everything before the clothes start to come off. The whole night is foreplay.

sexidea · 2021-05-30T19:40:56+00:00

You are right, the content counts a lot and knowing what you like you can offer and listening to your sita to know if the interest can be mutual, even if the relationship is monthly, it is always important to keep in mind that it is something of two and that everyone should feel sadiszips and comfortable

MisterShogunate · 2021-05-30T22:04:14+00:00

Makes sense, doesn't work. Women will come over if they like you. The moment you try to "convince" them to come over using logic is when you lose.

I agree that guys should make the experience better just out of principle, but don't look at it as a way to convince her, but enhancing your own experience and getting better as a person.

Honestly, this is the type of shit lame dudes that don't get laid spend their time and effort on.

vizipokcsodapok · 2021-05-30T20:48:40+00:00

I talk about my pet rock and how it’s the best rock on earth

iluvsexyfun · 2021-05-30T20:16:41+00:00

The storyline is simple. Men want better sex. Women want better men.

Tyler_Durden_Says · 2021-05-30T21:55:36+00:00

Jesus what happened. This is the absolute basics of human interaction

Prime_Caesar · 2021-05-30T20:37:15+00:00

If all you want is sex, all this fanfare might give the illusion that you want more and complicate things even further

AJAY_SS · 2021-05-30T22:32:21+00:00

Just be fun. Have more to offer by creating a life you want to live. If you are really putting effort into your own life, someone probably wants to participate because of how amazing it is.

Lucky_ducky8793 · 2021-05-30T23:36:16+00:00

Shampoo AND Conditioner!!!!

Aquix · 2021-05-31T02:10:22+00:00

Are you a woman? Sounds like the kind of advice a woman who didn't understand basic facts about seduction would give.

dick itself is plentiful

As is pussy, so this point is moot.

if he puts some effort into it and makes it an enjoyable experience for her

This goes both ways. I typically find the situation is the other way around - that the guys are trying way too hard to make the experience enjoyable for her. They don't value themselves and don't see themselves as "the prize" or even equals, because that's how society has conditioned men.

not just "come over" when your place is dirty, unkempt & all there is to eat is Spaghettios

This skips the point on so many levels. It's not the guy's job to feed the girl, unless his intent is to fill the "provider role" for her (besides, there are ways to show this without actually doing any of that shit). I keep a clean space - but that's for me. I can match your anecdote with hundreds of others where men with dirty spaces get laid all the time. It's because the girl isn't there to live, she's there to get fucked and have fun. Would it be nicer if the space were clean? Sure, I guess, but most times it isn't a dealbreaker and dilutes the main principles. If a girl comes over and you "play it right", most times you'll get laid, regardless of how shitty your place is.

I'm a proponent for clean spaces and for learning useful life skills like cooking (which might help with the ladies indirectly, through your "energy"), but I wouldn't go so far to say that this will help someone get laid more. Why? Because a girl doesn't know what your place looks like till she's already there - and if she's already there, she likely already wants your D.

speaklastthinkfirst · 2021-05-31T02:22:05+00:00

Yeah I expect the woman to show up with food and wine and something to talk about when coming over to bang me.

GracieFairmont86 · 2021-05-31T02:52:30+00:00

Or ... go the simple route and just be really good looking. It certainly dont hurt to have a nice place and wine and dine the girl, but if she finds you physically appealing you can get away with almost anything. Even if you suck at conversation and all you got is canned ravioli, the girl will still chase you and keep you talking and engaged if you are physically her type, no strategems, gambits, flimflams, or bamboozles required.

sabanMiles11 · 2021-05-30T18:18:02+00:00

I think this is arbitrary and more to do with social circle than actual game. Doing things like this can work, but a lot of times it makes you low value because you’re changing your day for this person and putting her above you

SamuraiRetainer · 2021-05-30T22:58:54+00:00

Lol i stopped reading at 5 mins unfulfilled sex.

2021-05-30T19:53:56+00:00

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Boomslangalang · 2021-05-30T23:56:23+00:00

It saddens me this even needs to be said.

2021-05-31T01:26:39+00:00

While this is good advice, it won’t be suitable for all. I’ve always found it real phoney, though it does boost the chances of her actually coming over because you appeal to her innate desire for connection as opposed to the general desire for sex. The way I see it, Females get fucked by males and that’s how it is. I’ve never been one to imply we engagement in less than sexual activities (cooking or going hiking) unless I was looking for a relationship. If you just want to fuck then act like it. Surprisingly, females do actually gain respect if you wear your libido on your sleeve. They may not agree with it, but will definitely respect it.

What I’ve come to realise is post modern seduction is all about being sly and manipulating the subconscious of females to get them to have sex with you. And I’m not saying it doesn’t work, because it does. But if you’re dominant and masculine enough you don’t even have to worry about these tactics, you appeal to he feminist enough already that directness will work which is better for the mental health of males.

macadamia128 · 2021-05-31T01:37:58+00:00

I had about a 90% success rate with this in college.

Some comments saying this doesn't work - you aren't going to lure a lady over with these activities. But having these cards to play makes everything much smoother, and gives her an idea of the evening plan instead of her coming over with no idea on what to expect.

Much easier to go into your room and watch a movie when you've been enjoying dinner and some wine.

Dry-Confidence-888 · 2021-05-31T01:39:45+00:00

Wait..I was having this problem just today what are the odds? Thank you FBI agent

LolaBijou · 2021-05-31T01:42:00+00:00

This dude pulls tail.

Tyrthesemiwise · 2021-05-31T02:34:08+00:00

Offer her that sweet, sexy snow globe collection

UnlawfulCrouton2 · 2021-05-31T09:10:53+00:00

Post was removed by virgin mods lmao

Title	Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just Sex
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Date	May 30, 2021 5:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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