I see a lot of posts on this sub saying, ‘I’m going to make a goal of talking to x number of women” or “I made x number of approaches”.

The mindset of talking to women as a homework assignment or goal is counterproductive and seeks validation when it is end goal oriented, like focusing on getting a number after the interaction.

Most women will be able to sniff this out, that you are being disingenuous and are seeking validation, or simply trying to get their number, instead of having an interesting conversation and letting things unfold naturally.

Being successful in seduction is just fine-tuning general people skills and Charisma . Rather than focusing your energy on just talking to attractive women, talk to all strangers. Try being genuinely interested in how they are doing, and making them feel good about themselves without an end goal in mind, or if they reciprocate your gestures.

When the time comes to talk to an attractive woman, you aren’t treating them as a means to an end or a homework assignment. They aren’t on a pedestal, it’s just part of your routine of being friendly, interesting, and conversational.