How's your love life atm?

Calidore_X · 2017-10-20T11:07:39+00:00

Nonexistent. But that's why I'm here

ilike2makemoney · 2017-10-20T16:24:35+00:00

My gf does this cute thing were she doesn’t exist.

fr4gi · 2017-10-20T12:24:03+00:00

Had a fwb for 5 month until i got needy af and stopped it. Now not meeting anyone at all and getting more and more demotivated. Need to rewire, right now success / happiness = success with women and thats unhealthy af

TheBetML · 2017-10-20T09:09:09+00:00

Im not so good. Broke up with GF. Almost for 9 months. I haven't been with a girl.

gargaggler · 2017-10-20T13:32:51+00:00

35 years old, no relationship for 5 years, stopped having sex 2 years ago because i only hook up with extremley obese unwashed dirtbags and hate myself after. Live with my cat. Life ain't that bad!

Jtdho · 2017-10-20T15:24:12+00:00

24M. Got out of a terrible one-year relationship and spent the next year and a half working on myself (fitness, career, socializing, figuring out the purpose of life).

When I eventually put myself in a happy place on my own, I started seeing one girl in a different city, and then the next week another girl in the same city. I regularly see both of them now. I am open with them and keep no secrets, sparing unnecessary/rude details. Thought I'd go for more, but I've found that the level of communication required for two girls is more than enough work. And also unbelievably rewarding as it teaches me how to communicate very effectively and carefully. And learning a lot about human relationships. Have been keeping it up for 3-4 months now.

Gotta be honest, can't complain. This sub has helped here and there for pointers on general know-how. I'd say my biggest takeaway from this sub though is to focus on being happy with yourself before you can even hope to be happy with someone else, or elses :D

jshrlzwrld02 · 2017-10-20T12:17:23+00:00

Talking to multiple girls on Tinder at any given time. Inevitably none ever want to meet up for drinks. Get bummed. Give to on dating.

Recently ran into this girl in my gym at my apartment building and debating the consequences of trying to date someone who lives in my building before I make a solid move.

-BabeWithThePower- · 2017-10-20T14:37:56+00:00

Single and enjoying it

Movinfast1114 · 2017-10-20T09:33:01+00:00

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The_Reddit_Jester · 2017-10-20T14:26:14+00:00

It's okay.

I met a girl I that I really like and went on 3 dates with but she's not as texty as I'm used to after 3 dates from someone who claims to have fun with me and like me, so I'm not sure what's going on there.

Aside from that, I have a FWB who I haven't seen in about 2 weeks because I'm busy, am talking to a few girls online, and I just realized I'm able to cold approach when out without really caring about results as much.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-10-21T14:18:52+00:00

steady GF for years now, can't date multiple chicks, one woman is a handful as it is for me.

its not hard to find a GF you just have to get out of your head, kick the monkey off your back and not be afraid to expose your personality to others.

DirtyProjector · 2017-10-20T12:18:45+00:00

Terrible. I can’t meet anyone. Anyone I meet in person either isn’t interesting, or people I am interested in are in relationships. I’ve been trying online dating but there’s so much garbage on there, and when I do match with people i write them and they don’t respond, or they respond once and never again.

Soooo yeah.

xhovani · 2017-10-20T13:52:30+00:00

Girls seem to enjoy my company. I havent made moves on any of them, but Im kind of trying to stockpile girls

SocietalEngineering · 2017-10-20T14:08:09+00:00

Open LTR, a couple plates, hitting up the bars Friday/Saturday night for hookups

exophrine · 2017-10-20T14:18:12+00:00

Haven't been concentrating too much in this area lately. I just got a new job, so I'm settling in and getting situated before I get back "out there"

Canass3242 · 2017-10-20T14:20:17+00:00

Got some girls that I bring on date/hookup/stuff

Not really into tryharding for retarded girls, i have a diploma to get first.

SyrusDrake · 2017-10-20T14:36:47+00:00

Visual representation.

It has been 9919 days since my last date, assuming reincarnation is a thing and that my previous self chocked to death during a horrific dinner date incident or something.

generalid1234 · 2017-10-20T15:24:03+00:00

After a loong time like 5.5 years I might go on a proper date. No bar/club women BS, proper date man.

I changed some tinder pictures, and was visiting my home town when we matched on tinder.

Commented on her pics, talked a bit then when I got nothing to say I gave her my number and told her to text if she wanted to meet.

She texted, so I have her number but she has not yet confirmed the date.

Pray for me fellas. Send positive energy. Whatever. Cowabunga!

Clyde_Frag · 2017-10-20T15:42:11+00:00

I've been seeing a Swedish college girl and another girl closer to my age. Not sure if either are going anywhere or if I want them to, but I've mostly been concerned with doing better at my job and having a good time with friends lately.

PRSouthern · 2017-10-20T16:35:56+00:00

The only advice I can offer is find someone who lets you be you. It is very liberating. It took me 27 years to finally look in a restaurant drive-through window after a harsh rejection to accept that I am a prize. It's not arrogance. Hell, maybe it is. No one should have to pine after somebody else. Fuck that. Life is too short for that bullshit. Ask yourself one question... are you a good person who goes out with good intentions? If you can answer yes to that, fuck that hot bitch.

Realizing this truth removes all the power from the one you pine after. You are just as much of a prize as the next.

Edit: forget what I said. Worst person to be giving advice. I'll let myself out.

ethical_pa · 2017-10-20T18:23:41+00:00

35M. Doing day game now for self improvement. Got 1 number out of it that probably isn't going anywhere. Another number from night game; same. Another from Tinder; dead.

I really want to work on day game in the hopes that I can get into a state of self amusement and have things flow more naturally and genuinely.

thelastpua · 2017-10-20T18:44:45+00:00

Seeing a girl right now and things are going really well atm, i can see her becoming my GF and she’s the 3rd girl with whom i’ve had sex in the last 3 months, so things are pretty good overall!

seduction3234 · 2017-10-20T18:57:40+00:00

Poor, I guess I have something tonight but I am not sure what the fuck it is and if it will go well, my school is way worse than I thought it would be.

In general life is good I am going out and having a lot of fun. Socially is a crap shoot I am making friends but in terms of circles while I have been out with a few there not really my people.

This whole thing makes me realize I am naturally shit social with practically everyone but can thank my parents for having enough experience to act normal/charming if I try. Depending on my mood (aka depression) i only have so much effort to put in.

Weight loss is slower than it should be my style is sliipping.

Probably should approach more girls I am meeting more naturally from just the whole Hey I saw you at X you know Y but its starting to get boring.

I have realized the boredum not rejection is the true enemy for me.

Really would like to see some results I guess to show the effort is worth it more than just my general low rate of random shit happening.

DJSkrillex · 2017-10-20T20:51:08+00:00

Single, trying to get a girl's attention. Got a date for tomorrow, but not sure if she likes me.

Dernuld_Trumpet · 2017-10-20T23:52:33+00:00

really hot girl at work, putting the flirt in a little, I can tell shes got a big social circle and possible selection of erections so Im not entirely sure how to proceed ,shes way above my league but fuck it game on

S3xb3ard · 2017-10-21T00:59:14+00:00

Love life’s pretty good. Having a great time with my fiancée. Our sex life has been getting more killer over the past few months. My last hookup was 2 weeks ago, haven’t gone out to hunt since. We’re working on a girl together, which has been slow-going, but seems to have a lot of potential to bear fruit. Will try to pick up a random for a 3some together while dressed as drag queens next weekend.

Have some cool ideas for events, but nothing on the immediate horizon. Been much busier working on my career and finally starting to get serious about cutting, now that I’ve (finally!) achieved my ideal level of muscularity after 5 years of lifting seriously. Missing my friends a lot these days.

Life’s not perfect, but it’s still pretty damn sweet.

Moug-10 · 2017-10-21T22:23:48+00:00

Nothing. My reason crushes my passion when it comes to love. It keeps me from having romance.

I found an attractive co-worker in my workplace. We only work on Saturdays.

Lichcrow · 2017-10-20T09:36:55+00:00

Met a girl at a college party, been texting non stop for the past week, she seems amazing! Going for the long run with her!

myUsernom · 2017-10-20T15:53:31+00:00

Non-existent. I've recently started to dress better (mandated by new job) and I am getting a lot of attention/looks/smiles.

Unfortunately I have no real earthly idea how to convert this to anything more. I can approach girls easily, but they quickly lose interest. Clearly I have no idea what I'm doing.

Beeastaw · 2017-10-25T22:42:58+00:00

Just got rejected by a friend that I work with which hurt pretty bad... But I learned that I need to state my intentions from the beginning and escalate early on.

Title	How's your love life atm?
Author	Confusion99
Upvotes	22
Comments	44
Date	October 20, 2017 7:35 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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