FR: He thought I was cute!

Seddit101 · 2011-01-07T18:32:18+00:00

This right here folks is why women can not give advice on pick up. Nine instances of the word 'cute' and that's about it.

opiumden · 2011-01-08T01:58:45+00:00

Man the battlestations. Troll-dar detects incoming BS from everything the OP is saying.

jamba_juice · 2011-01-07T18:10:31+00:00

i think for the benefit of all readers you should detail more what you did to dhv and tease.

You will supply many with an arsenal of how to better read a womans signals if you do.

deSud · 2011-01-07T18:57:10+00:00

I was going to ask if there were any female sedditers.

I wouldn't be so giddy about the whole thing to his face. I'm not saying don't celebrate. But it may be a turn off and he might think you're crazy and just ignore you. No offense.

What do you do now? Well shit, you're a chick. Don't do anything. Wait for his call. Go out with him. Play hard to get. If he doesn't call you, ignore him the next time you see him; talk to other guys. Make sure he sees this. Or you can just go out and meet new guys to drool over. Just don't get stuck on this guy. That's where some of us have problems.

But if you're not trying to pick up any game and need relationship advice, this wouldn't be the best sub-reddit. If you are trying to work on your game then stay around, read other posts, read up on the PUA masters, and post more FR's. You'll get some good feedback and tips on how to improve yourself, not just your game. Good luck.

advicemcadvice · 2011-01-07T20:05:24+00:00

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false_profit · 2011-01-08T00:38:50+00:00

I wish I could use rage faces here

RedErin · 2011-01-07T18:23:28+00:00

Was this your first time out sarging? Good job either way. Your enthusiasm is delightful. :)

cheddarchexmix · 2011-01-07T20:08:32+00:00

Kinda general advice, but when you give your number to a guy, you should get his, probably by telling him to text/call you on the spot.

If he doesn't ask you out in a day or two, there is nothing wrong with taking the initiative and proactively asking him out. Even though it's usually the guy who does it, I don't mind at all if a girl asks me out. Just don't act too needy and overtext him. I'd recommend the single "hey come out and meet me at [bar] tomorrow at [8]!" text.

Delightful_White · 2011-01-07T20:20:10+00:00

Congrats on the number close.

Now here's where I'm going to verbally berate you. No, I wont do that. But your FR kind of sucks, in terms of content. Tell us how you went in there and owned the bar like a boss. Or tell us how you just sat there looking all hot and all these AFC's kept creeping up on you and WHY you weren't attracted to them, or why you were. How did the bouncer approach you, what did he say, what did you say? These are all important in Field Reports, it's going to help you as well, so you can realize where your game was solid so you can do it over and over again and perfect it.

Thanks for contributing and lets hear more. But we need some serious details. I think it would be FASCINATING to see what it's like getting gamed on, or running game, as a female.

Edit:

Also: Seddit: WHAT DO I DO NOW? He is sooo cute and i like him! I'm terrified. HELP!

read the sidebar!

Listro · 2011-01-07T20:50:44+00:00

You're adorable

yokhai · 2011-01-07T19:22:57+00:00

I only count 8. That's 7 too many.

advicemcadvice · 2011-01-08T01:38:44+00:00

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advicemcadvice · 2011-01-07T18:21:40+00:00

"Dating, relationships and seduction from a male perspective."

/r/relationshipadvice is that way. -->

Title	FR: He thought I was cute!
Author	advicemcadvice
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	January 7, 2011 6:06 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ey0kf/fr_he_thought_i_was_cute/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/fr-he-thought-i-was-cute.1314290 https://theredarchive.com/post/1314290

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