I finally understand woman. Click here for the truth.

pilarsen · 2012-01-14T13:47:38+00:00

Please! If you genuinely want to meet someone, why don't you just meet someone else instead of heading out to "fix the poor girl, who was hurt?" That kind of hero-routine is exactly what you need to unlearn to play the game. Here's 3 tips for you.. On the house ;) * 1. Instead of focusing on being a problem solver for her, just show her a good time. * 2. Stop seeing her as "damaged". That just makes her a victim in your eyes, and that's pretty demeaning, you know ;) * 3. Get over yourself. This whole "I just want to show them, that true love exist" thing, you got going.... Leave it to Hollywood!

And one last thing.... Have a nice day, sir :)

katyngate · 2012-01-14T14:56:53+00:00

I UNDERSTANT WOMAN

WOMAN SPEAK TO ME NOW

texture · 2012-01-14T15:03:13+00:00

You're experiencing premature enlightenment. Get your head out of your ass.

ge99 · 2012-01-14T14:18:31+00:00

All generalizations are false.

All I heard here was slut shaming. Not cool.

DazBlintze · 2012-01-14T12:32:24+00:00

Damn it. He's on to us.

xmod2 · 2012-01-14T12:58:23+00:00

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feedthekitty · 2012-01-14T16:12:27+00:00

The ones who don't believe nice guys when they're just trying to talk. The ones who sleep around with jerks.

Does this actually happen? It sounds like something an unattractive guy would say to make himself feel better... like crying sour grapes.

And all you players who just fuck 'em and dump 'em: You're ruining it for the rest of us, those of us who genuinely want to meet someone.

SPOILER: Women like casual sex too. You probably haven't noticed, since they probably keep quiet about it around guys like you to avoid getting slut shamed.

anon10500 · 2012-01-14T17:11:12+00:00

this is retarded

demonshalo · 2012-01-14T14:07:14+00:00

Start having hot casual sex and you'll change your mind in matter of weeks. Stop waiting for the good shit and enjoy your life ffs. You can get hit by a bus tomorrow and die. Life is too short to complain about crazy bitches and getting hurt. If you got hurt that's because you trusted someone you shouldn't have trusted --> error in judgement --> you deserve what happened to you!

I'm outta here!

JonnGotti · 2012-01-14T17:42:54+00:00

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effinawesome · 2012-01-14T16:05:36+00:00

I don't get the con artist part at the end. You shouldn't be conning anyone, you should learn to be happy being yourself while striving to actually be a better version of you. Don't just pretend to be better, get better.

georgeguy101 · 2012-01-14T16:31:08+00:00

aeoz · 2012-01-14T15:16:50+00:00

If you think you've understood, then you have not.

OptimGuy · 2012-01-14T12:41:46+00:00

Being a good person is working way too slow. Sorry I am going to be the seduction person.

LakesideHerbology · 2012-01-14T13:07:32+00:00

I read something recently. Women constantly complain about jerks that fuck 'em and dump 'em because THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE DRAWN TO.

2012-01-14T16:31:42+00:00

in other news, water is wet and the sky is blue....

reddit4getit · 2012-01-14T18:17:33+00:00

To fuck and dump is part of the game. Hell, I know women who do this.

meltmyface · 2012-01-14T19:04:38+00:00

Wait, at first you say they are hurt by guys who are jerks and then you conclude by implying that PUAs are "con artists." If you are conning females into enjoying your company then you are doing it for the wrong reasons (read: narcissism, the desire for admiration from others), which makes you a jerk. You should be doing it to enjoy yourself and to share that enjoyment with others, which doesn't require any conniving, because that would be disingenuous.

A1e · 2012-01-14T16:39:19+00:00

Bitch, please.

Mo3 · 2012-01-14T13:22:16+00:00

If you're going to play the game, at least play it right.

Well said.

captshady · 2012-01-14T17:50:51+00:00

Way WAY off. It's in the nature of the whole of the animal kingdom, to propagate the species, so that it will evolve into a higher, stronger form. In 2 legged mammal world, that means there is an inherent desire to have sex with the alpha male.

The most alpha among chimps, is the pack leader. He can get any female he wants. There's no law of civility, when the pack leader is horny, he TAKES the pussy. The reason why he doesn't tear up the female, is that because she gets wet, by his sheer alphaness. Turned on by his every action. When he's done tearin' that shit up, he goes about his business. Often aloof of the chimp he's just tagged. This is NATURE, among chimps. The female gets wet by him, because nature's creatures are design to mate with the best she can find, to evolve the species.

Non alphas among chimps, DO sometimes get laid. By approaching the female chimps that the other alphas don't want. They bring that chimps bananas, food, they groom them, all in an attempt to get laid. SOME times that works .. after LOTS of effort on the part of the beta chimp. But the alphas get laid LOADS upon LOADS more than the weaker, pleasing betas.

In OUR more evolved world, the asshole, is aloof, and creates competition by creating attraction from other females. He comes across as the alpha, and stirs up feelings even the female doesn't understand. Quite often, he's an asshole, a jerk, what have you.

There's a difference between being a "nice guy", a jerk, and a not-nice guy. Being the not-nice guy is what you want to aim for. A girl comes home, complains that her back aches. The jerk will say, "yeah, that's nice, get me sandwich, and my dick ain't gonna suck itself". The nice guy is going to say, "well, sugar-poo love muffin, would you like me to give you a massage? Would you like me to run you a hot bath? ". The not-nice guy is going to tell her, "Lay down, and take off your shirt, I'll give you a massage". He runs her a bath, and says, "I ran a hot bath, get in." Whether she does or not, you've taken the lead. If she doesn't want a massage, or bath, who gives a shit? Let's say she doesn't (whine "I don't want a back rub") Then you tease her like a kid sister. "Oh poor widdle baby wants to whine about her back hurting, but doesn't want it fixed. Go get your blankey, and watch Steel Magnolias." And be done with it. She'll laugh, and tell you you're an ass, and then later that night she'll be making an attempt to put cock AND balls in her mouth.

And sure, sure, the girls in here will tell me how SOOO WRONG I am, or sarcastically say "oooh, you've got it aaaalllll figured out!" Because what a woman SAYS, and what she DOES, are two different things. That's WHY they say they want a nice guy, then go with the assholes. Attraction isn't a choice, it's a reaction.

This is not the attitude of JUST someone that looks for a pump and dump. That's what people like you don't understand. "Boo hoo hoo, I want a meaningful relationship". You CAN be alpha, and be in a relationship. It's a must, if you want the relationship to be successful. You have to maintain the roll of relationship leader.

It's in the nature of women to constantly seek out the alpha. That's why you hear so many stories of men raising someone else's kid, that they were told were theirs. Women WILL cheat on you, if you're pure beta, and come across an alpha. The way to counteract that, it so be mostly alpha, and slightly beta, in a relationship. If she's sitting on the couch and says, "go get my cell phone for me, babe", you tell her, her legs aren't broken, get her own damned cell phone. You're NOT her bitch to be commanded. If she has her hands full -bags of groceries, doing her hair, has a curling iron in one hand, and something in a spray form in the other, "will you please get my cell phone for me, I left it on the dresser" ... go get her cell phone. Perhaps, "yes suh, bose! I sho' git dat cell phone" as you go get it. If you can't see the difference here, then you need to become famous, rich, or both, because you'll either wind up with someone retardedly ugly, or alone.

2012-01-14T19:53:50+00:00

hey sorry being a nice guy doesn't work for you!

dakru · 2012-01-14T20:30:27+00:00

And all you players who just fuck 'em and dump 'em: You're ruining it for the rest of us, those of us who genuinely want to meet someone.

What exactly is the problem with one night stands? As long as you're not telling them that you're up for something more just to have sex, I don't really see the problem.

I'm not that interested in one night stands myself really at all, but a lot of men and women are.

flaxeater · 2012-01-15T02:42:51+00:00

If it's just sport, then remember, catch and release right?

Murmaider · 2012-01-15T03:53:31+00:00

Watch out guys! this guy understands women.

Anonymous44_44 · 2021-10-31T16:12:28+00:00

You don't understand all women. You understand a couple of women, and have generalized every other woman.

Title	I finally understand woman. Click here for the truth.
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Comments	57
Date	January 14, 2012 11:38 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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