How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10.

Terny · 2012-05-22T04:46:41+00:00

Seddit did not make you land a 10. Seddit made you a 10 ;)

makelikepaper · 2012-05-22T01:01:07+00:00

Round of applause for not taking advantage of a woman when she was drunk.

Icouldshitallday · 2012-05-22T05:45:19+00:00

My curiosity wanted to see if this girl is in fact a perfect 10. Attraction can intensify over time and create an even better image of someone that what actually exists. Then, I thought, fuck it. If she's a perfect 10 to you, that's the only rating scale that matters.

Congrats.

god_bless_atheists · 2012-05-22T04:45:08+00:00

Not enough men say things like this: "We went back to my place that night, and I'll leave it at that."

Congratulations on how things are going, and being able to keep some things for yourself.

Manhack · 2012-05-22T03:29:56+00:00

I'll throw my compliment into the pile: very well done. Glad you made the journey, glad you didn't give in to temptation (given, most of us may not have felt right about it either) and glad you landed the girl. It's an amazing feeling to be confident enough to enjoy intimacy with someone and being able to let them go on with their life without getting all needy.

Congrats dude.

TheMoldyPudding · 2012-05-22T00:49:51+00:00

slow clap

Congratulations!

mfreud · 2012-05-22T09:40:52+00:00

The plural of "woman" is "women".

Oh... and congratulations ;)

Timlikesturtles · 2012-05-22T03:05:13+00:00

"Knowing that sometimes all you need to do is let the pieces of the puzzle fall into place really helps

This for sure. It feels great to work on different aspects of your life, just to see it all come together. You seem like a good guy, and yeah props for not hooking up with her when she was in that state--that takes some self-discipline but it definitely paid off.

dantaeos · 2012-05-22T06:00:33+00:00

Well done. But...I don;t advise placing all your happiness on her. No girl is the "one girl" and if you have that frame you're gonna become needy and she's gonna be turned off.

A large part of this game is keeping abundance, even if you have a girlfriend. So be wary of that. She will keep getting validation from other dues, while you're oneitis may hurt you.

2012-05-22T01:39:28+00:00

Well done, OP. Well done.

RonnieTheDJ · 2012-05-22T11:32:32+00:00

"...my time with her is ecstasy" - can't wait to say that one day. That's why I'm here.

2012-05-23T19:14:40+00:00

Good for you but this reeks of oneitis.

AegisSC · 2012-05-22T06:42:39+00:00

Gym people are the best, hands down.

sixxis · 2012-05-22T04:03:45+00:00

LOL @ oneitis haha jk, good for you bro

Poisonpkr · 2012-05-22T10:35:05+00:00

Upvoted for 'letting the pieces fall into place'. on some occasions thats all it takes.

2012-05-22T11:23:14+00:00

Keep that pussy tamed. Be in control.

zach84 · 2012-05-29T03:16:08+00:00

I imagine this woman looking like Natalie Portman. Idk why :P. Great job man. I'm happy for you!

iAMtheBelvedere · 2012-05-22T03:55:24+00:00

OP you the man! Honestly, I think you may have struck a chord inside me. I've been dealing with a lot of the shit you have. The image thing, trying to convince myself to workout, confidence in talking to women, you touched on it all (to me). So I just wanted to take the time to thank you!

anthony0123lol · 2012-05-22T04:09:37+00:00

high five !

8innergates8s · 2012-05-22T13:34:55+00:00

WOW, you honestly just blew my mind. I have a similar situation as to the confidence and girl of my dreams dilemma. All I can think about right now is how awesome that must have felt. Congrats man, and just know I am totally jealous! ;D

lightpua · 2012-05-22T13:49:44+00:00

I had something similar to this (but on a shorter timescale, someone I've known for 9 months) and congratulations/best of luck to you/life is awesome/I've been there damn its awesome.

Besides everything everyone else says here, this reminds me of a Vonnegut quote I read recently: "I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, 'If this isn't nice, I don't know what is.'"

Quantum_Finger · 2012-05-22T14:23:29+00:00

That's awesome. It's a great feeling. Even if you can't make something more serious work out with this dream girl of yours, remember that maybe she is just a dream girl, not the dream girl and another one could be around the corner...

agentdynamo · 2012-05-22T15:42:39+00:00

Can I ask how exactly you utilized r/fitness and seddit(?which I've deduced is seduction reddit, sorry a little new to both subreddits) did you just kind of read other stories and go off that?

pohatu · 2012-05-22T18:03:02+00:00

I creeped your post history to see if you had any progress pics on /r/fitness, to see how big a factor that was and to give you mad props in that department, and I came across the most hilarious sequence of posts:

Need Some good bank heist movies.

followed immediately by:

Came across some money, need some excellent Xbox 360 games that are worth approx. 20 dollars. Any ideas?

Which leads me to believe you robbed a bank and only got 20 bucks, but it seemed to be all you needed, so that's pretty bad-ass in my book.

Sorry for creeping your post history. Great post by the way. Thanks for sharing.

bubblybooble · 2012-05-22T13:34:36+00:00

Sounds like she's a slut who'll sleep with anyone and you just put yourself in her path often enough.

You'll have to do better than one girl every three years.

But it's a start.

feelthefear · 2012-05-22T10:42:38+00:00

wheres the pics?

ol_greggory · 2012-05-22T02:35:29+00:00

Worth the read. If all is true, round of a fuckin applause for you sir. Well done.

chocobaby · 2012-05-22T06:03:39+00:00

Good man.

naithemilkman · 2012-05-22T12:15:08+00:00

3 years is a long time! Good on you mate :)

fradz · 2012-05-22T12:45:55+00:00

Great job man! Be happy with her and always be yourself. And don't forget to have faith in yourself :)

acconrad · 2012-05-22T13:56:13+00:00

I don't think I've ever read one of these front to back - until now.

http://imgur.com/ul5KG

Do us all a favor and don't forget everything you've learned and become a sap once you've kept her around.

ThatGuyYouKnow · 2012-05-22T15:58:19+00:00

This, sir, is what keeps me going.

2012-05-22T16:10:43+00:00

Cheers man! I love hearing stories like this.

2012-05-22T16:17:04+00:00

Happy for you! However... it does seem like she date a lot of guys.. a lot.

martijn_nl · 2012-05-22T10:22:09+00:00

Why don't you go for it man? Are you kidding me?

This seems to be the girl of your dreams and she wants you aswell. You just gonna let it go because she lives in another state? Man the fuck up bro.

Poisonpkr · 2012-05-22T06:18:16+00:00

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Title	How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10.
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Date	May 21, 2012 11:48 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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