Do guys often fuck around with other guy's girls?

Budman17r · 2013-03-03T23:29:31+00:00

Personally, I've been cheated on multiple times now. Yea a lot of people don't have this honor code.

I'm with you brother, if someone is with someone they're off limits, if anything I talk them back into the rship.

Willem20 · 2013-03-04T00:01:11+00:00

I see alot of 'very manly' guys here, whining about how you shouldn't care if she has a boyfriend etc. I think that if she does have a BF just move on. 1. There are more girls 2. If you really want to improve yourself, why would you drop your morals and [?]-close her?

ben0wn4g3 · 2013-03-04T00:13:23+00:00

Getting with a friends girl is a no... and if she's fucking bringing that shit you need to tell him too.

oc974 · 2013-03-04T05:03:08+00:00

I've never dealt with such an issue but one thing's for certain: If the guy owns a gun, she's off limits.

psycho-logical · 2013-03-04T08:29:53+00:00

A friend's girlfriend? That's a no.

A girl in a relationship? Less likely to pursue, but not gonna turn down advances generally.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-03-03T23:27:04+00:00

Every girl used to be some other guy's girlfriend

lilhurt38 · 2013-03-04T01:59:30+00:00

There are so many hot single girls that are out there that you don't need to go after a girl that's taken. I could have gotten a girl to cheat on her boyfriend with me, but I decided to cut contact with her instead. I casually dated her before and she ended up in a relationship with the guy basically because I was taking too long to commit to her. She wanted a serious relationship, so she got into one. I could have possibly justified hooking up with her by saying I was getting back what was mine anyways. Still, it wouldn't have been worth it. There are tons of hot girls here, I don't need to hook up with that particular girl. I had to cut contact with her cause we were going to hook up if I didn't. It was pretty clear that the girl wasn't about to stop me if I escalated things.

2013-03-04T11:21:01+00:00

I would say that if they have a bf then they have made a promise to be monogamous unless stated otherwise. Say what you want about it not being my fault or problem, it would make me really dissapointed in myself that i would have to stoop to that level where i have to hit on a girl that is taken. Fuck that.

2013-03-03T23:58:52+00:00

Na, i do my best to just go for the single girls only. It's nice to carry a morale code with you when it comes to seduction, having no control over yourself can lead to some nasty situations.

LICK_ME_WHERE_I_SEE · 2013-03-04T01:00:12+00:00

Never. I've been the person cheated on twice now and know how terrible it feels when someone you love betrays you. I never want to take part in causing someone else that pain.

Methaxetamine · 2013-03-04T04:46:19+00:00

Well, if we take the word "often" to mean the opposite of "not-often" or "rarely", then the answer to this question can be determined by imagining how many straight single women have probably engaged in infidelity.

Chances are high that they cheated with a guy, and low that there are just one or two guys running around schtupping committed women--many men are having sex with committed women, therefore.

That's the best and most direct answer to this question I can imagine.

RandianHero · 2013-03-04T00:29:32+00:00

It happens. We don't choose who we're attracted to, and you can't blame people for wanting to trade up or gain new experiences. I've been the other guy on several occasions, and though I generally prefer to avoid it if possible, sometimes shit just happens.

JamesFarthington · 2013-03-04T05:42:52+00:00

Never, I don't think its right.

Methaxetamine · 2013-03-04T06:12:54+00:00

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Methaxetamine · 2013-03-04T07:14:55+00:00

Personally i try not to go after girls with boyfriends. Say what you want about it (Bullshit morals, not my problem if they have a bf,etc) but i just wouldn't feel good about myself afterwards and there are enough single girls out there than for me to homewreck it up.

limeshathrow88 · 2013-03-04T19:54:35+00:00

polyamory has ALWAYS been around, it's just becoming more and more acceptable. I was numbering this hb8 who said she had a bf, I was stunned and said whats it like to have your life controlled by someone else? I got the number. my two cents is that this is usually a shit test, you can flip it to your advantage.

2013-03-04T20:04:29+00:00

I go to a small rural secondary school(about 500), since the start of the school year, only heard of 2 incidences. Oddly enough, the girl was more the initiator than the lad. Plus, the second occurrence, the lad didn't know she was taken.

nittutt · 2013-03-04T20:22:40+00:00

I rarely ask if a girl is single. I assume that she is and do my shit. If she comes home with me and we fuck, well, my mission is complete.

If a girl say she has a boyfriend, then i respect it and i move to another girl. (I rarely get the "i have a boyfriend shit-test" due to it being natural for me to talk to many people).

If a friend of mine fucks a girl that another friend of mine has hooked up with or whatever, he is in violation of our "code" and will not be included in our "group". Zero tolerance. It's not because we care, but it's still a rule and a rule that we follow.

TL;DR: Get better friends if yours try to steal girls from behind your back.

nottraceable · 2013-03-04T21:59:48+00:00

It's quite sad to see how people are justifying the encouragement of cheating. It's probably one of the darker sides of seddit.

forbinsdecline · 2013-03-04T22:39:20+00:00

Never with a friend's girlfriend and I'm not going to pursue a girl who's in a relationship because it's messy and can have bad consequences. However, I don't have a problem with a one night stand with a girl dating some guy I don't know.

readonlyuser · 2013-03-05T18:41:04+00:00

Here's your answer: there is no definitive answer. Everybody has a different moral code, so do you, let others do them, and don't try to compare or push an agenda.

IceCream_Social · 2013-03-04T18:21:34+00:00

My theory has always been if the girl is happy and content with her relationship she won't cheat, and if she will cheat she shouldn't be in a relationship anyways. Same applies to dudes.

This is the 21st century, everything is a competition. You need to know that. You are constantly competing with every guy around you for every girl available. If her boyfriend isn't keeping her satisfied why should it be unacceptable for you to swoop in and add excitement to her life?

If she wasn't Facebook official with this dude would you care at all? Nope, it wouldn't even cross your mind that you are stealing the girl he came to the club with. But all of a sudden that magic word "boyfriend" will stop you from going up and opening her? Bullshit.

Guys, if you have a girlfriend don't think the competition is over. You can't go back to being complacent about attracting her. You still have to compete for this girl and keep her happy and attracted to you, otherwise some other guy is going to come along and do it for you.

2013-03-04T02:30:47+00:00

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onemessageyo · 2013-03-04T02:41:47+00:00

I find it easier to get with women that are in relationships already. I draw the line at married or with someone that I consider a friend (not an acquaintance). I've stolen 4 girlfriends and I have a method that I can easily describe step by step.

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2013-03-04T14:40:57+00:00

Girls who cheat are bad people. I don't like bad people. Hence I don't hook up with girls who cheat.

2013-03-03T23:32:17+00:00

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Title	Do guys often fuck around with other guy's girls?
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Date	March 3, 2013 11:23 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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