Ok guys, I just want to share this new "evolution" that seems to be happening in my game, and, with it, tell about this new "routine" I'm using.

For a long time since I've started in this I've been applying the "asshole game", being kind of a jerk, cocky and blahblah. But then I got tired of it.

Yeah, I think the asshole/cocky/kind-of-a-jerk game is great and can work if well played...

BUT, sometimes I also think that maybe this all thing of being an asshole can be a way of putting a mask in your insecurities and real intentions. So, if you approach a girl being an asshole, using a lot of negs and things like this, and she rejects you, you just be like "Oh, ok, I was just having fun, messing with her haha". And you might think to yourself "Yeah, I was super confident, blahblah"... But.. were you?

Don't get me wrong, like I said, asshole game can work and yes, you can have fun with it. What I'm trying to say is: Next time, before making a move like this, ask yourself if you're really just wanting to have fun or if it is just a way for you to feel better(or less worse) in case you were rejected.

What I've realized is that it might be more difficult to go to a girl and be super-romantic than going to a girl and being a jerk. But, if you apply the super-romantic game with the right tone, confidence and playfulness, It can work really well.

So, how I use this super-romantic game:

I approach a girl and just say something like: "I'm going to marry you, really, I just had this vision, both of us, married, 2 daughters, beautiful family."

If you say this, the girl will problably laugh and ask your name. If so, you're in.

You can say anything super-romantic. I ask the girl how will be our children's names. How she wants the marriage, introduce her girl to my friends as the love of my life. Say to her friends(girls or even guys) that we are going to marry. Anything like that.

And you can still have fun with it and tease her. For instance, if she says something stupid, say you want the divorce.

The idea with this super-romantic game is not about being her puppy or being a super nice guy. When you approach a girl this way, you are acctually being very alpha. You're not affraid to show her or anyone that you desire her.

It is very powerfull if applied with the right subcommunication. And it's kind of surprising, after all, it's not a common approach.

Last night there was this girl, one of the hottest in the club. A man was hitting on her, I walk to them, shake the guy's hand and she asked me if I knew him, I told her that no and got closer to her and said something beetween the lines of:

"I will marry you, you're the one. When this guy stops hitting on you we're gonna talk."

And walked away. Our group of friends were really close so after about 3 minutes the guy left and the girl called me, asked my name and everything, she was going interview mode with me. I was amazed. I kept going with some spikes of super-romantic game, having fun, and after sometime we were making out.

Try it out! Be the Romeo for one night.

edit: Guys, when I go to a girl and say these romantic things, it's just a way to surprise and play with her. It's a way of approaching without being common, and get her attention. It's a way of showing to her that I have no shame in wanting her.

I just think that going to a girl and saying "Hi, I think you're good looking and I want to know you better." would be boring and too ordinary. That's the reason of the super-romantic things. Express your intentions in a fun and surprising way.

If a girl can't recognize I'm just playing when I say that I want to marry her before I even know her name, then she is not the type of girl for me anyway.

edit 2: "Opening a girl with a variant of "I want to marry you" is not lying because you're clearly not serious--it's joking and playful, like a form of role-playing. It's a colourful way of communicating your feelings ("I'm attracted to you") through hyperbolic exaggeration." /u/Doomsday_

Ps: Sorry if any mistakes, english isn't my native language.