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[β]shootethmyshot 144 points145 points146 points 6 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Geting rejected is still a win because you actually had the balls to take a shot and you can now learn something which is leaps and bounds beyond what most other guys will ever do.
[β]So_Forlorn 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Unless you're so stupid that you keep making the same mistakes and never learn from them. That can and does happen.
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
Cold approaching is a learning experience UNTIL it no longer is.
[β]PharaohPeter 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What's cold approaching?
[β]purplehunter 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Talking to a girl during winter
[+]Jabaggs -10 points-9 points-8 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I suggest lurking more before posting.
[β]sYesh 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I suggest you broaden your perspective and humble yourself before posting so you don't miss an obvious joke and make yourself look stupid
[β]Sammyjskj 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree
[β]WhiteBoobs 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gottem
[β]croe3 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Walking up to a girl you havent met or been introduced to and starting a conversation.
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It can also reverse motivation but the point is valid.
[β]RaffNFreddy 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Agree on the first part - though can it really be suggested that most guys will not take a shot? How then have we perpetuated as a species for so long?
[β]shootethmyshot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good point, this is a very complicated thing to discuss on reddit but essentially what it comes down to is that there is a pyramid hierarchy with the most driven action takers at the top, the upper half of that hierarchy are the ones who get to mate whilst the lower half donβt and because the hierarchy is a pyramid the upper half is always smaller than the lower half. The guys at the top of this hierarchy are having sex with almost all the women. This sub is meant to move you up into the upper half through learning the qualities these men display. Watch Jordan Peterson if you want to learn more about this stuff.
[β]cacknibbler 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I second this, nutted up and had a hour and a half long conversation with a cute girl that was working at my job for a week, got her snap....and then she mentioned she had a boyfriend, sure somewhat of a Letdown but I felt proud of myself for trying
[β][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
[β]shootethmyshot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hate that saying, if you donβt take a shot, you donβt play the game, you donβt even get to miss, you get nothing. Missing is for people who actually take action.
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's wayne gretzky, the goat goal scorer. you should listen to him. the saying means "you gotta take the shot to score" but the way he said it sounds better than that.
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[β]CarilPT 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see you're a man of culture as well
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Valid point.
You can regret making an approach.
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[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've regret many approaches because of how bad they were.
[β]Boogiyg2003 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One time a chick called me pathetic for not being able to get hard lol
[β][deleted] 68 points69 points70 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Eventually, when you get older, it stops feeling like this
[β]Keone_ShyGuy 39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd like to emphasize experience over time here.
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Both valid points.
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
When she says: 'I'm very flattered but I have a boyfriend'.
[β]RaffNFreddy 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao they love the βflatteredβ line
[β]its_whot_it_is 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like that line translates to 2 things. "Youre coming off too strong" or "youre coming off too needy" theres shouldnt be a reason for her to say that. I admit Im on the receiving end of it many times and after processing the situation those are the 2 conclusions I come to. More often than not... Every situation is unique and there are instances when the boyfriend line is warranted for sure.
[β]Krackhead21 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This was me up until I became dead inside π
[β]Dapanji206 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude same.
[β]Krackhead21 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
F
[β]PsychologicalRoof2 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hundreds of rejections is a bee's sting.
[β]Dapanji206 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it becomes pretty standard.
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This can apply to regret.
[β]miyagikai91 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Itβs okay to be hurt by it. Itβs also okay to let it go and move forward.
[β]yassssssssss1 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The females can smell desperation . If your having negative thoughts before youβve even approached her itβs never happening . Have you ever been with a girl or even just talking to a girl and shortly after that youβve got a spring in your step or smile on your face ? Then not long after that you pass another girl in town or something and she smiles at you and your like wtf π They know man they know !!!
[β]infinity1567 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
πππthatβs the mood man
[β]Dwaynedibley24601 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
how is this helpful?
[β]erect_sean 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Itβs not its a random ass post
[β]Dwaynedibley24601 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is not what this sub is for
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imagine trying to be in a relationship lolπ
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Take it like this .. she's not rejecting you as a person, she's rejecting your approach.
[β]RcmdMeABook 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She's also rejecting you as a person.
As a person, you are ugly to her. As an approach, you are a person.
[β]RcmdMeABook 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly
[β]relentless_pma 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only works if you get rejected just after approaching her. If you get rejected later this does not work.
[β]RaffNFreddy 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh, sheβs sort of rejecting you as a person lol
[β]ImPlayingTheSims 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its safe, and comforting to assume there could be many reasons she said no. Who knows. She could be lesbian or going through a lot.
[β]So_Forlorn 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds about right until you realize its just a perpetual pattern of rejections from girls and that other guys are getting the same girls left and right with ease.
[β]hazelxnutz 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always ππππ
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
better a No than a What if
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
If you ever feel that way, THINK that you were going to get rejected anyway, although this does not apply with IOI's.
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
nope, so many wonderings turned into something further
also, so many rejections are a shit-test
[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't overthink. If she were interested when you couldn't approach, it'd show.
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What
[β]Moikepdx 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He's trying to say, "Here's some [very bad] advice: Only approach people that are virtually begging you to approach. If your failure to approach doesn't result in her tripping over herself to get your attention then forget about it."
This advice is a fantastic way to become frustrated and bitter.
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
you somehow took his braindead comment and turned it into a proper sentences, congrats
retarded advice, like, 80% of girls I fucked showed no interest in me whatsoever before the sex
even the girls who came to my house strictly to fuck, they all start with bullshitting how they donβt do this and talk about relationships, 10 minutes later weβre fucking after I cut her in the middle of sentences
sheβs not a give you landing lights to her pussy, assume attraction and make a move
[β]cumsmack 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You do the hokey pokey, and you turn yourself around.
[β]Dominus-Prime- 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It happens. The real question is why would you care?
[β]DajuanKev 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some rejections can stick with you if you trip over your words. Worst rejections, bruh.
[β]Illusion911 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As someone who never had a girlfriend, rejected is what I expect the standard answer to be. Perhaps one day, after all the planets align, I'll get a yes.
What I mean is, if all you expect is rejection, and you go there and she rejects you, nothing really changed right?
Honestly my regret for not making a move is far worse than thinking about all my past rejections.
[β]misterandosan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah, maybe for someone who hasn't spent any time improving themselves. External validation is a bitch, till you learn to get over it and start to do things that YOU validate.
[β]LadiesMan497 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ive asked out a couple of girls one was a for sure rejection the other one was one of those confusing msgs girls send so im not going to rule that out fully yet
But im glad that shot my shot and went for it
[β]sYesh 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It only hurts if you need validation to feel confident
[β]evilcris 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why you go head first in the beginning so that you don't catch feelings
[β]are_u_serious4574 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post and responses are very entertaining . I love the smartass comments and responses. Guys need to suck it up when it comes to rejection. It happens to us chicks too. Dont overanalyze it. It happened. Try again or go home and just spend the rest of your days trying to figure out why. Good on you for trying though. JMO. This chicks thoughts.
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[β]kilo_ofkushV2[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can I reupload if I add more text?
[β][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't know. I like them. Feeling like a badass anyway
Keep the energy!
[β]hazelxnutz -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah this was me in hs, now I just say "okay". π
[β]So_Forlorn -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me yesterday
[β]njugiste -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rejection = regrets.
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