Just want yall to know that some of us see you.

LowLifeExperience · 2024-04-05T12:55:26+00:00

I would like to simply be considered more than just what I can provide to people.

hottake_toothache · 2024-04-05T15:22:32+00:00

When I see women bashing men publicly, I used to wonder, why is it that other women don't argue back? Why don't women stand up for us, like men do all the time for women?

Since tuning in to these issues more than a decade ago, I wondered this for years before settling in to my conclusion: women will never stand up for men.

Every day, women, as a group, have a chance to prove me wrong, but they never do. Yes, there are exceptions (perhaps a few dozen I've encountered in the last decade), but they are a drop in the ocean.

@OohSooMoist, why, in your opinion are women so hateful towards us?

Current_Finding_4066 · 2024-04-05T12:13:09+00:00

They do not pretend we are different. It is more like women are equal or bettter, cause men are vile sex driven brutes at best.

Clapping_Noise · 2024-04-05T12:03:50+00:00

Good to see some still have their own opinions, hope you have a nice day!

Final-Attempt95 · 2024-04-05T15:06:00+00:00

I wonder how long will this narrative last, it wont be the first time in history that a section of the society was vilified/marginalized to justify exploitation and unfair treatment.

IdiotGiraffe0 · 2024-04-05T16:07:17+00:00

Thank you. There are some people here who pretend to care like once I saw a person say they believed in men’s rights them immediately turn around and say that a man should have no jurisdiction in the decision to abort or not abort a child and it should be entirely the women’s right to decide. I’m glad a lot of people here though do really care about change

Informal_Divide9741 · 2024-04-05T13:08:22+00:00

Thank you for expressing it.

dankmemezrus · 2024-04-05T12:22:05+00:00

Thank you x

AmuseDeath · 2024-04-05T19:38:05+00:00

Well it's just that the feminists speak the loudest and try to speak on behalf of all women which is just insane. Feminists have manipulated society to the point where people think being anti-feminist means you are anti-woman when it is not true. There needs to be pushback against feminism for being such an illogical and inconsistent movement that says they are about women's choice, but only if women choose to be feminist. You have women like Gal Gadot or Maisie Williams who say if you aren't a feminist, you are a sexist. Zero brain cells seriously. You have these lunatics trying to speak on behalf of you without actually asking all women if they agree to it.

BagelSupremacist · 2024-04-05T13:25:46+00:00

God Bless you, thank you for bringing a few dudes a smile today knowing not everyone is against us. You are appreciated ❤️

DescriptionGeneral25 · 2024-04-05T19:28:33+00:00

Do you think women were oppressed by men in the past?

pirate694 · 2024-04-05T18:24:52+00:00

I think yall did me a favor actually. Life is far more peaceful alone.

pikapalooza · 2024-04-05T21:11:11+00:00

It's the same vein as judging a whole group of people by an trait they can't change (race, weight, skin color) somehow, as a man, I'm responsible for the actions of others even though I've never actually done anything? C'mon now.

Lonewolf_087 · 2024-04-06T00:22:04+00:00

Thanks. Yea it is people being curel that is the problem. And for whatever reason probably 60% of the time in public men are nicer to me than women. Yesterday I tried to help a woman out who dropped a pizza box, I said oh you dropped this. She said oh, thank you. I tried to hand her the box she just sat there didn’t even move just watched me. So I tried to set it down and I said “there’s a lot of food here just trying to find a place for it” and she just said “wow”. Can you believe that? You know how cold and thoughtless that was when I was trying to help her? I feel like a weirdo every time I try and be social or friendly I’m the weirdo every time. And why because I have red hair and I’m overweight and a little awkward? It’s ridiculous. Men are profiled 1000% more by women I swear. And you know what unless you happen to be attractive conventionally they will always treat you this way. It’s not a lie men are not making this up.

But you know what? Ugly people who are good go to heaven. The last shall be first and the first shall be last our time will come. And it doesn’t matter what anyone here says no person ever will tell the truth only his word is truth. We are in the days of Cesar’s Rome we are being hung from crosses and ridiculed.

Tiny_Professional358 · 2024-04-05T16:25:15+00:00

I’d like to be looked at as more than just a potential ATM or being able to hang out in a public area without people judging me because of my gender.

edward-regularhands · 2024-04-05T14:53:12+00:00

Thanks mate xx

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2024-04-05T15:11:05+00:00

Thank you sincerely for your support, it means a lot.

Sintar07 · 2024-04-05T16:26:40+00:00

Thanks. I know you're not the only one; my sisters and my wife also see men's problems. But it is nice to hear from people outside the circle.

Stunning_Memory8347 · 2024-04-05T19:58:55+00:00

Absolutely no one is pretending that there is "no difference" between the sexes. People are pretending women are superior.

2024-04-05T20:55:52+00:00

FUCK YES

imadfg · 2024-04-06T05:07:33+00:00

I'd like to thank you so much that literally made me smile, most women and men are wonderful, period.

DaUnionBaws · 2024-04-06T14:36:31+00:00

I think what hurts me the most are the friends and people who say they care about me who will actively shit on men and talk down on ALL of them right in front of me.

My ex’s mom and my friend from the dog park are examples. They can be right in front of me and they’ll just make the most absurd statements about how all men are dogs, or are stupid, or don’t know anything about women, or how typical some action that one man did is for all men and it just chips away at me every time.

I would never do that to them. I would never group them up into a category because I know they’re an individual but yet here they go belittling me because they think it’s acceptable to have a god complex on genders. It’s very strange.

Vaudeville_Clown · 2024-04-08T16:30:55+00:00

Going off on a tangent here but: 'Lets dick on men because some men treated women poorly before I existed'.

You just summarized the present state of the "high brow" litfic genre. :D It's just female authors nowadays (they've bullied most men out already) and since they can't credibly write stories about oppressed present day women, there's suddenly a lot more self congratulatory misandric novels about historical women instead. And you know, most of the time, the writing's shit but they get prestigeous awards anyway.

There's a larger point I'm making though. Bringing up historical grievances overall, it's something which has increased over the years. The more level the playing field becomes (equality), the more you have to keep people's eyes in the past, in order to keep siphoning goodies out of that sweet sweet victimhood status.

TheSoundOfAnarchy · 2024-04-05T12:48:00+00:00

I actually use what they say as entertainment, really.

A wise lady once told me, just ignore them they just say things.

It just equates to them being furious towards things they will never ever be able to change. They are trying to fight forces they don’t even know about and that are way too powerful.

There is the saying/slogan they need to understand for the sake of their sanity.

It’s goes as such:

“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference”

flinxsl · 2024-04-05T14:50:50+00:00

I like to imagine this is view is what most reasonable people who you will encounter in your day have. People in groups anywhere will form a consensus that benefits their own group above others. This is very general behavior that every human has done since we were cavemen. A lot of things online don't really translate into real life.

People being shitty in real life does happen, but it is rare and nobody should live their life paranoid of every person they encounter.

itsakon · 2024-04-05T16:15:52+00:00

There is not that much of a difference between the sexes. Sometimes more than others. People are different. It’s more about people wanting to codify it and force everyone to behave. Feminists are just another group who does that.

Men are villianized specifically because women tend to do that.

Federal_Eagle_8695 · 2024-04-05T15:34:02+00:00

Needed to hear this. AlI see online is STILL just female influencers talking about how trash men are. It’s just annoying as shit. Listen, I’m as emotionless as the next man, but it has been said that naturally men have a singular soft spot, and that spot only is to women likely for survival of the species. But to watch females abuse that soft spot, well it’ll make only stone cold men who have no emotion anywhere at all. Jesus

Foxtrot_niv · 2024-04-05T21:22:19+00:00

Thanks. I'll keep that in mind next time I'm wrongfully convicted of SA. I'm sure it will cheer me up.

Maverick-_1 · 2024-04-05T17:47:14+00:00

Thank you!

monsimons · 2024-04-06T10:35:54+00:00

Men and women can live in harmony with each other. Being different helps that because it allows us to bring together both our strengths and weaknesses in a complimentary manner. Accepting and honoring our differences mutually is the road to that not denying them.

MrkPrchzzIII · 2024-04-06T12:48:17+00:00

Just so you know, we see women like you too and we love and care about you.

Arealgeneral23 · 2024-04-06T13:55:40+00:00

god bless

i'm dying

queenAlexislexis · 2024-04-06T20:36:52+00:00

Wee need more women like you 😭 god bless

kubaoko008 · 2024-04-07T16:35:13+00:00

you see me right now?

NameIs-Already-Taken · 2024-04-05T15:18:27+00:00

Thank you. I am mixing with lots of feminists and... <sigh>

ElegantAd2607 · 2024-04-05T22:01:56+00:00

Not sure why men are villianized specifically

Really? Cause there's a ton of reasons.

aerial_coitus · 2024-04-05T12:57:14+00:00

I am disgusted by posts like these.

Title	Just want yall to know that some of us see you.
Author	OohSooMoist
Upvotes	739
Comments	90
Date	April 5, 2024 11:58 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1bwg6j5/just_want_yall_to_know_that_some_of_us_see_you/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/just-want-yall-to-know-that-some-of-us-see-you.1513823 https://theredarchive.com/post/1513823

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