Was supposed to have a 3rd date on Wednesday night, but the girl had to reschedule due to exams.

Felt lonely and bored, so I took a look at what events were happening on campus. Saw a play happening that evening that looked intriguing, so grabbed some tickets and went alone.

First Contact

Because it was preview and not opening night, the theater was pretty vacant. I took my seat near the rear next to a cute girl who was wearing professional attire. I hesitated for a minute due to nervousness, but manned up and opened with “Hey, how’s it going?”

There were all manner of glitches during the performance that required stopping and troubleshooting, so there was a lot of downtime for us to chat. I was expressing myself authentically, being vulnerable, and getting to know her genuinely. She was laughing at my attempts to flirt, and her body language was positive (getting close to me).

I could tell she was interested in me, and so once the play finished I took her number and said we should grab a drink. Gave her a hug goodbye.

I was planning to return on Friday to the theater to finish viewing the play since they weren’t able to complete it today.

Text

Text game was super flirtatious and full of witty banter, maybe 10% actually serious conversation. I confirmed logistics that I wanted to grab a drink with her after the show finished on Friday. Again, she was initiating and instigating a lot of flirting, so I felt confident in my gauge of her interest in me.

Day Two

Met her in the theater and sat next to her. We didn’t talk too much besides at the beginning, but during the play when there were jokes she would look at me, and she didn’t shy away from our arms touching on the armrest.

After the play finished, our next plan was drinks. Solved the logistical problem of us having separate cars by suggesting we both drive separately to her hotel, and then I would drive us together from the hotel to the bar.

Got to the bar and I ordered us each a glass of wine. First time escalating deliberate kino by touching her arms and holding her hand, which she reciprocated by gripping my hand strongly. I did a lot of engaging storytelling, and at an emotional spike when faces were close and it felt right, I pulled her in for a kiss. After that, I could tell she was getting horny because she started to escalating kino on me by running her nails along my arms, grabbing me, and putting her head on my chest.

I wanted to continue the playful and romantic adventure, so instead of pulling directly, I told her we should go to the grocery store which was closing in 10 minutes to pick up a drink we had talked about earlier. She also casually mentioned that she didn’t have snacks in her hotel room and that we should pick up some as well. We were running to the car and sprinting through the grocery store to make time, and it felt like I was a kid again.

I drove us back to her hotel, went up together to her room and we chilled on the couch listening to music and having a drink. Nothing aggressive, the whole vibe was super chill. Once we started kissing and it got heated, I lifted her up and brought her to the bed.

Stayed up late cuddling and pillow talking, woke up and went for round two before she had to check out of the hotel. Took her to grab lunch before her drive back home (she lives in another town), and had a sentimental moment saying goodbye to each other.

My first hookup experience, and I could not have asked for anything better. Felt like I had a genuine connection with a girl who was truly attracted to my authentic self. It was so validating and just an all around fun adventure. And I’ve made a friend who I can now visit (and fuck) in the future.