Ok everybody's going to disagree with me here and say "nah those women have dating problems too" well no. Yes they have problems with who they get with and those usually aren't good people but they are unbelievably swarmed with attention. For one every guy sees them as more attainable, second men today have trouble relating to women so ones that are "not like other girls" are like catnip to dam near every man. They usually have interests and personalities because of either neurodivergence or trauma whereas normal women don't have these quirks quite like men do and are less forgiving of them. These women are not only attractive to outcasts but even your everyday normal well adjusted dude likes a woman whos a little eccentric. That is seen as generally a cute quality. A big example I have is I signed up on the duoliciois 4chan dating app and the gender ratio was like 3k women to about 14k men on there. This was a site that was not meant for regular people. Same with the autism dating apps. If you have a girl with visible mental issues guys are going to see relatability. (maybe I'm projecting)

The point I'm getting to is that non normie men are kind of fucked because of this. If your a guy with the exact same problems you have to literally compete with all the "I want a crazy gf" dudes. Men see those women as delicacies. This is not the case with men who aren't normal. So I guess go by the whole opposites attract thing and go right for extroverted cheerleader college girl types? Men are less likely to approach women that are seen as high quality I think that's more likely to work than going for a down to earth cuddly autistic woman because the line for that is way more crowded.