We care about personality! It's just your bio bro!!

wtknight · 2025-01-21T16:28:06+00:00

Removed. No low effort, woe-is-me rants.

Fair-Bus-4017 · 2025-01-21T15:55:46+00:00

Women who say that they look at people's bio do so. That doesn't mean that they all do it.

It's really not that hard to understand. Just because one girl rejects so many dudes so quickly doesn't mean every woman does this.

That being said obviously your pictures are gonna do most of the work. It's fucking Tinder. An app mainly used for casual hookups.

Why would someone care much about someones personality if they only want to fuck?

Oli_love90 · 2025-01-21T15:55:00+00:00

Okay so now we’re using a handful of people to fully represent all women? This doesn’t really negate that other women actually read bios and you still should have a good dating app profile anyway.

Doesthisevenmatter7 · 2025-01-21T15:53:24+00:00

My bio had always been the lil Uzi quote “it’s only my third day out here IDK” for years and I never had any problems. Anyone saying bios matter is 🧢.

MrTTripz · 2025-01-21T16:01:40+00:00

I'm not a woman, but yeah that makes sense. It's not just your bio.

If you are attractive, then the bio needs to pass muster. Not the other way around.

I did exactly the same on the apps. Scroll for pretty girl, read bio, reject bio's that talk about their kids, not looking for ONS or that generally seem dumb to me.

Of course, that's just me. How do you know that this women in the video doesn't vet the bio after the pic? We've only seen her review the pics.

Toadipher · 2025-01-21T15:58:24+00:00

I'm not reading your bio on a dating app sorry. And I'm male.

MongoBobalossus · 2025-01-21T15:51:14+00:00

You needed “proof” to figure out what most people already found out in middle school?

Zabadoodude · 2025-01-21T16:07:09+00:00

It's not just the top 10% of guys that get matches, but yes, those guys get way more. A bio can make a difference, but not as much as the pics, and there's only so well you can photograph a turd.

Hot guys do better with women. Fucking obviously.

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2025-01-21T16:10:53+00:00

If someone isn't attractive or photogenic, their bio is going to have to carry them.

If you aren't pretty, be interesting and entertaining.

SliceNDice432 · 2025-01-21T16:11:51+00:00

You know, a normal person you see this as an opportunity to work on themselves and take better pics. Mirror selfies and holding a fish aren't going to cut it.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-01-21T15:51:42+00:00

And yet, over half of couples meet online

Math certainly is hard

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SituacijaJeSledeca · 2025-01-21T16:02:51+00:00

One of my guy friends barely found a girlfriend recently. He had perfect bio and good pictures.

The other posted 3 photos where his face was visible and got 100 matches in an hour, with no bio.

Now tell me what matters to women more, face or bio. I dont care if there are women who truly want bio over face (lmao), what matters is how many opportunities women give to a good face vs good bio.

FairwayBliss · 2025-01-21T16:17:27+00:00

I valued a bio, but that was only important AFTER I saw pictures I liked. And I used to swipe like that, a picture sometimes tells more than a thousand words.

In the end I married a guy, who would not be my first pick in looks. But since I could see our hobbies matched and that we had the same dreams and goals: I gave this man another shot. If he would not have that bio and the nice pictures: I don’t think that I would have ever given him a chance. While now I can not imagine being with another man ever in my life.

Title	We care about personality! It's just your bio bro!!
Author	BrightAutumn12
Upvotes	5
Comments	26
Date	January 21, 2025 3:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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