Would you support your parents having the same views on romance and sex as you, and also to act on those views?

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2025-02-05T18:22:46+00:00

No. My parents had sex twice cause I have 2 siblings

Zabadoodude · 2025-02-05T17:10:44+00:00

I think you misinterpret the redpill. I'm in a long term relationship and I don't cheat on my girl. I would hope my dad doesn't cheat on my mom either. I know my dad dated casually a fair bit before meeting my mom in his mid 20's. He was good looking and took advantage of it. He played the field and didn't get too invested until he found a good woman that treated him well. I am happy to say I don't know the details of their sex life, but from how they are around each other, I would guess there was instant attraction too.

leosandlattes · 2025-02-05T16:46:31+00:00

The actual core red pill belief is simply about male/female attraction and sexual selection.

That men are naturally polygynous and crave sexual variety, AND also have a drive to settle down with a woman he views "high value" enough to protect and provide for. And that women are naturally hypergamously serially monogamous, meaning she will want to date one man at a time until her hypergamous urges are met, and settle down with that man who is best available to her.

r/RedPillWomen does not view relationships as transactional. I wrote a post for the subreddit detailing differences between RPW and Pink Pill, but the gist of it is that RPW views relationships as reciprocal, not transactional - meaning it is a woman's responsibility to also keep that relationship healthy and functional by bringing value to her boyfriend/husband (like he does for her). We put much less emphasis on a man being a "HVM" because this is not an accurate reflection of how women should be vetting men, which we believe is best done by shared goals, values, and lifestyle. Women are not a prize; both of you should be prizes, and this is how relationships best function.

To answer your question, yes I wouldn't have a problem if my parents held these beliefs. I mean, my parents would believe the things that red pill says men find attractive in women, and that women find attractive in men anyway. No problems there.

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Schleudergang1400 · 2025-02-10T20:36:48+00:00

I would feel glad and close to my parents, if they had the same views as i and even acted on those views

James_M_Croft · 2025-02-05T16:30:46+00:00

Yes, I would love if my parents were more red pill (we are asian, so we are "red pill" by default anyway). It would for sure cause a better relationship that's for sure.

The transactional nature would have turned both people more likely to actually cooperate and be happy at the end instead of all this infantile blue pill shtick that just turned my father sadder and sicker, and my mom more disconnected from reality.

Also, polygamy is not polygyny, please consider reading the wiki.

PlainTundra · 2025-02-05T16:33:54+00:00

men should be plate-spinning,

Plate-spinning just means dating casually. It is not a life goal but a suggestion for those who need it to avoid becoming overly invested or needy while improving social skills and confidence. It allows a man to make better choices in relationships without desperation clouding his judgment. Nobody says you have to do this until the day you die.

always have options.

If you're attractive enough, you'll always have options, whether you want them or not.

abaxeron · 2025-02-05T20:47:34+00:00

Would you support your parents having the same views on romance and sex as you, and also to act on those views?

No, because if either of my parents had any above-zero level of red in their pill, they would find someone else to have children with, therefore "I" as I am now would have never existed.

Red pill and red pill-adjacent users, how would you feel if your dad had the same views as you, and acted on those views. What about your mom? How would you feel if your mom had those views and acted on those views?

Do you care, and how is this (my feelings) in any way relevant to anything? What kind of playground-level nonsense is this? "How would you feel if he took your toys without asking?"

I would not exist. Would probably feel great, not dealing with playground gotchas on Reddit.

Okay, let's even assume that by some divine providence, both of my parents diluted their blue pills with just enough of red that they would become fitting partners to each other, and "I" would exist.

I would have grown up in the environment where pill knowledge is as common as curvature of the Earth is everywhere else. I would see it as the only norm that I ever knew. I would see my parents as the default normal, and everyone with different views as sick weirdos. Thus, I would feel nothing in particular.

Okay, last scenario. Parallel timeline mumbo-jumbo. At, say, my 16th birthday I get magically swapped with the version of myself from parallel reality whose parents are redpill, and somehow no-one around notices. What would have been my impressions. Well... First of all, I would probably have several extra siblings; my dad would have not been 60 pounds overweight, my parents would actually talk to each other more often than once a couple months, and it would not escalate into a scandal every other time. I would feel absolutely devastated. The poor bastard who hopped into my reality is about to end himself if I don't immediately find a way to pull him back to his real parents.

saywhatitis11 · 2025-02-06T03:52:10+00:00

Redpill is very healthy for lasting loving relationships because it’s reality. You don’t learn about hypergamy and automatically become a manipulative selfish cheating asshole. Redpilled men women make wonderful life partners when they want to have that. The man feels this is the love of his life and the woman feels this is the most masculine man she’s ever met. And they want to fuck a lot. When their goals of wanting a family and being in it for the long haul align, redpill allowed them to navigate that journey with much few surprises regarding their mate. Probably would save a lot of marriages.

My parents were too young then they married. Don’t think redpill would have helped them.

Title	Would you support your parents having the same views on romance and sex as you, and also to act on those views?
Author	aerodynamicsofacow04
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Comments	35
Date	February 5, 2025 4:22 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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