Modern feminism is either totally insane or a deliberate psy-op

ExtentionBobcat · 2025-03-21T06:21:31+00:00

And. The word you're looking for is "and" not "or"

Joker_01884 · 2025-03-21T12:49:22+00:00

Why do I always feel like these songs are pure projection and gaslighting?

The biggest underreported victims are males compared to females according to US national studies if I'm not wrong.

Akhenath · 2025-03-21T06:33:38+00:00

Women it seems aren't interested in what society will look like in 20 years. What's seems more important to them, is what happens now. So they should skip relationships altogether. That's the best way to ensure you won't become someone else's "slave". As for men, well adjust and thrive, if your country is not suitable, move elsewhere. There are plenty of countries around.

GoldenFutureForUs · 2025-03-21T11:42:28+00:00

I’d like to add, the majority of modern women are absolutely begging to be stay at home mothers! They’re looking for the most stereotypical traditional men: enough income to support a family without the wife working. They’re also looking for traditional masculine traits: tall, strong, authoritative, ambitious etc.

The farce is that they pretend to want a lifelong career, but once a rich enough man settles for them - they stop working. They absolutely do not want to work and be a mother. It’s just lying.

eternal_kvitka1817 · 2025-03-21T11:29:26+00:00

I think it's more psy op

Sintar07 · 2025-03-21T15:20:57+00:00

I almost snorted my drink out my nose when it got to the line "24/7 baby machine," as if vast swathes of feminists don't proudly murder their own children for mere convenience and name them the enemy for threatening a lifestyle change.

AbysmalDescent · 2025-03-21T14:00:27+00:00

What's most damning about this kind of video, besides the blatant overstating of labor that women do and understating of labor that men do, is the level of contempt and hatred that women seem to have towards being of service to men specifically. This is a big difference between the general attitude that men have towards the services they perform for women or even the services that women perform for other women, compared to the services women perform for men.

Most men would not only find a great deal of joy in being of service to women but a great deal of pride and purpose in it as well. You can also see this in culture, or a lot of the music that men create about being of service to women being presented in a positive way, if not something that gives them meaning, purpose and happiness. It's a major contrast between the two, men are still more than happy to be of service to women who openly hate men or who only seem to want to be of service to themselves or other women.

When you consider that women are often also more than happy to be of service to other women, this really speaks to a massive level of prejudice that women hold specifically towards men or even just being kind to men. You will never really see women say that they are happy that they get to have the opportunity to cherish a man in their life, and how much joy and fulfilment they get from being of service to that man. This also demonstrates a massive lack of appreciation for men, compared to the general appreciation that men have for women in their lives and how happy they feel that they even get the opportunity to be of service to a woman they love.

This kind of narrative also fails to take into consideration one major factor as well, in that women generally do have a great deal of power and control over which partner they choose, which means that they could choose men who put in more effort over men who put in less(yet still often do not, specifically because they find men who put in too much effort to be less attractive or less masculine), therefore creating the very dynamic they use to declare themselves victims of expectations.

It's also ignoring the fact that women often play gatekeepers in a lot of these roles, not just by the fact that they are taught skills by other women, which differ from the skills that men are generally taught, but by effectively being unwilling to share those tasks with men within their relationships(often berating those men for trying or not having the skills that women were taught, or for not being able to accomplish those tasks the way they would do it).

walterwallcarpet · 2025-03-21T07:19:41+00:00

"What do these women think society is going to look like in 20 years when the men they've alienated have abandoned them, and they're sitting eggless and psychically ravaged in their apartments..?"

It's gonna look like this. And they'll all be reciting "inspirational quotes" to each other. https://liveonlineradio.blog/inspiring-quotes-by-andrea-dworkin/

We all get one chance at life. Why waste it? Feminists are not your friends, ladies. They hate men for the simple reason that they were too fat & ugly to be able to attract a man, and get him to do their bidding.

And, if you're an attractive, sensuous woman, they hate you, too. Because you could easily attract a man, have him bend to your will through carefully-rationed sex, then go on to have a rich and fulfilled life with a genetic legacy. Instead, they want you to share in their misery. And, you fell for it.

Of course, this is a game with several levels. Feminists aren't smart enough to see the bigger picture. They're being played, too... https://j4mb.org.uk/2024/09/04/warren-perkin-ms-patterning-shes-making-mgtow/

Hubris1998 · 2025-03-21T10:52:47+00:00

I don't think they understand the meaning of the word labour. Everything is labour to them.

AdMotor1654 · 2025-03-21T13:04:11+00:00

I think there’s a difference between feminists and misandrists. Want the right to vote and lobby for other women’s rights to vote? Go for it. Modern feminism is a misandrist movement though. It’s less women=men and more women>>>>>>men. It’s why the term feminist has a negative connotation now.

Shower-of-Pills · 2025-03-21T16:27:06+00:00

Anywhere in the world that is actively at war? No feminism.

If there was a WW3? Even the staunchest of feminists would go underground.

NoSpinach4025 · 2025-03-21T15:24:20+00:00

So she rather do "too much labor" at a soul-sucking job, 24/7 low-wage employee.

SnowOnCinders · 2025-03-21T17:11:35+00:00

I’m a woman and I find this video the lowest kind of propaganda trash. It’s like the screenwriter created the script by asking chatGPT to come up with a short clip that would enrage feminists and throw in as many low level tropes as possible. They just love to subvert everything that is traditional: femininity, traditional gender roles, religion, moral values. It’s always by using the most fringe and exaggerated examples to promote their distorted agendas (e.g. showing abusive men as representatives of all men, incompetent or depraved priests as examples of all priests and holy men, etc). Disingenuous and low effort, designed to emotionally provoke more rage in people who have already succumbed to the agenda and left their critical thinking skills by the sideline.

DJ_Care_Bear · 2025-03-21T11:04:40+00:00

Could be both

KaranDearborn70 · 2025-03-21T16:00:32+00:00

Who else watched this?

Anxious_Data_1709 · 2025-03-21T16:07:20+00:00

That song does point out some valid things, but some people specifically western/american women are using this song and acting like women are the most oppressed group in society, and that any man is above them, including black men. Hello, does racism/colorism not exist? I saw an interesting statistic that white women alone benefit the most from DEI over black people themselves. I saw an insane video with this sound comparing the treatment of women back then to the treatment of the African American SLAVES.

Godskook · 2025-03-22T10:07:26+00:00

The idea that this "men" make "women" do all the labor in America is laughable on so many levels that I just can't even figure out which part to begin with. Let's start that it entirely undermines the at least slightly more accurate feminist position that men are patriarchal bread-winners who want women to just stay home and have babies, instead of joining the workforce. These are mutually exclusive perspectives of "men". Can't have both.

Cheeseratnumber32 · 2025-03-22T03:42:47+00:00

I’m pretty sure Paris Paloma made this song because of the whole abortion thing I COULD BE WRONG this is just my guess because that’s the time frame I first started hearing the song I personally like it bc the sounds and her voice makes my brain happy but that also makes sense with the correlation to the lyrics and the abortion ban forcing women and children to give birth to children they don’t want goes with the “it’s not love if you make her” idk I’m not Paris Paloma and I don’t know the exact date the song came out but this is my guess

CaptainFred246 · 2025-03-22T04:10:57+00:00

Hmmm...Interesting...

I'll be honest, I do like the melody, the slightly shaky shrill is musical, though formulaic and unimagined 'storytelling'...But the message is quite questionable.

I do wonder what is with this phenomenon of some of these women erecting these imagined walls of their own restrictions...Why in general do they not see the bigger picture of how things are not actually extremely bad (In general, and in U.S) for them?

Hmmm...Also, this sisyphean list of tasks seems to be those of a decent person...not 'labour'.

Maybe they were never prompted to? Why critically think when you musn't, yes?

Fascinating.

DistrictMindless7506 · 2025-03-23T17:45:51+00:00

It's just a boring song and a boring music video in general. Almost fell asleep

sorabones · 2025-03-25T20:39:31+00:00

It's a good song. Those are real situations of a lot of women. It's important to know the difference between misandry and women fighting for their issues.

If you are a good person who wants to be in a traditional family structure, good for you. But there are a lot of women who are suffering in this kind of marriage, that's all the song is about from my point of view.

Disastrous_Average91 · 2025-03-27T16:33:23+00:00

“Emotional torture” when men are the ones expected to be a stoic rock for women to lean on and project all their problems and insecurities onto. What a joke

TheFaplessWonder · 2025-03-21T15:19:51+00:00

I think they are still mad that not so long ago, we made them get married to have a checking account and how we could grope them at work without repercussion.

CarryAccomplished777 · 2025-03-23T14:37:44+00:00

I think it's both AND capitalism as well. I currently make 2000€/month working full-time. If someone paid me 2001€/month for screaming "MEN?! BAD!!" once in a while, I'd be a Feminist in a second.

Title	Modern feminism is either totally insane or a deliberate psy-op
Author	the_quivering_wenis
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Date	March 21, 2025 6:08 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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