30+ dating

dnavi · 2025-05-18T00:23:41+00:00

Not really. I noticed as I got older i only got more attractive to younger women and older women alike.

Amazing-Weakness1246 · 2025-05-17T23:31:00+00:00

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-05-18T00:50:55+00:00

Will be harder with the 20yr olds yes. I’m 36. But not impossible just have to be creative

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2025-05-18T00:04:55+00:00

Hell no, if anything its like both sides of the age range unlocked after 30. Like i could suddenly go from ten years younger to ten years older no issue.

HOWEVER, the other side of things is that eventually the amount of bs people play can get exhausting.

Furthermore, different things can happen to your body as you get older that youre kinda not fully cognizant of until its kinda happened. Like your back is more sore or you gas out of oxygen faster or its more easy to feel bloated or such.

Nonetheless, for the most part the first few years after turning 30 were some of my best....but this also happened before the pandemic hit and I feel like dating has just been dogshit for the last almost three year or so like a light just switched or some bs.

Gaydame · 2025-05-17T23:34:05+00:00

It's much easier

GarugasRevenge · 2025-05-18T00:13:55+00:00

Yea but dating apps are trash, but when you go out everyone is early 20s or early 40s. There's nobody around my age out and about. I'm finding it very difficult.

Leading-Ad-4085 · 2025-05-18T12:12:51+00:00

I know a 45 years old bald guy on the shorter side who goes to Ibiza , mingles and had sex with girls 20+ years younger than him. Not only does he bang younger girls regularly, they are also top notch. On his last trip he banged one flight attendant on 3 of his flights.

Saying this to say: age is an excuse. We often laugh about this because we both learned from the same source. The amount of excuses most guys have : age, money, status. I'm young but I was dirt broke when I started learning proper game. Game allowed me to get a better job and make more money, as it should. Age shouldn't stop you. You should design your game in such a way that age becomes a plus .

kreddit007 · 2025-05-18T08:40:26+00:00

No, met a 25 year old woman last night and a 28 year old last week.

Zestyclose_Show438 · 2025-05-18T02:26:40+00:00

For men our peak attractiveness window is—in general—from our early 30s to late 40s

TakeAChillPill99 · 2025-05-18T05:29:45+00:00

My dating life improved quite a bit in my thirties (I’m 33). I’ve dated as old as late 30s and as young as early 20s during this time. The availability is there, but I’ve found that dating like exactly my age ends up working out the best. A few years younger has been good too. Older has been very challenging and unrewarding weirdly. Way younger is deeply annoying.

WachanIII · 2025-05-18T12:14:51+00:00

No but you would need to signal a little more resources.

Capital-Story8150 · 2025-05-18T21:15:16+00:00

Best age ever, you can date mid 20s and older women are also interested

sole21000 · 2025-05-19T00:24:30+00:00

Nah, attractiveness vs age curve is way different for men than for women. With women it's a linear curve down from early 20s, with men it's more of a hill that peaks around early to mid 30s but slopes down fairly gradually.

Attitude & fitness matter more. A fit 40 yr old would do better than an overweight 25 yr old a priori, but even then attitude difference could re-flip this back. Compare with women where a thicc 25 yr old might be more attractive then a thin 40 yr old.

PeterLamb87 · 2025-05-18T17:49:35+00:00

It will limit the pool of candidates, most early 20 year old women are not interested in older dudes, real life is not the internet. Still, there is a decent minority of 20 year olds that will date older men. Though in all honesty, it can get pretty tiring, dating 25+ is easier, and they are still pretty hot and are actual relationship prospects.

HPsauce3 · 2025-05-18T02:52:24+00:00

Specifically targeting younger women to go after is a bit weird. What's wrong with women your age?

AromaticPlant8504 · 2025-05-18T03:53:24+00:00

Just say 29 on the app if your worried. Try to keep the age gap 10 years max if possible though imo.

Title	30+ dating
Author	Puzzleheaded_Gain493
Upvotes	54
Comments	66
Date	May 17, 2025 11:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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