In order to be really successful with women, you have to like and love women first and foremost

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where, I love you simply, without problems or pride. --Pablo Neruda

Hallo everybody. New to the forum but I have spent over ten years in seduction. I just wanted to share some of my insights and experiences to get your opinions. No one is 100% right and its great to argue and debate ideas. My hope is to get to the truth, see and learn from the experiences of others and improve my seduction skills.

In order to be successful with women, you have to like and love women first and foremost.

When I say love, I do not mean simping. Simping is people-pleasing and a form of manipulation. Has nothing to do with love.

So what is love?

Love is not a feeling. Love is an intentional action and decision. Every human being has what they want, their stàndards, preferences and desires. To love is to temporarily set aside those preferences, standards, desires and wants to do everything in one's power for the wellbeing of the person loved.

In my experience, you can learn all of the strategies in the world -- and these are important --but unless actually like and love women first and foremost, you both will never actually achieve the satisfaction that you are looking for. Because that is what we are really trying to achieve with seduction and sex -- love. Love is the point in my opinion. Not just mindless pleasure.

If she wants to talk for two hours, listen to her for two hours. Have witty comebacks like James Bond. Be flirty and fun. Women eat that stuff up.

If she wants to go out on dates, take her out on dates without expecting anything in return. Know what you want but in there to have fun, get to know her and have a good time.

I am not saying simp. Do not destroy yourself trying to love another person -- that is not love. Only that you have to love her the way you love yourself. That is love.

The greatest seducers embodied this.

Read Casanova's Memoir. He is far from a simp and he understands feminine nature but he loved women nonetheless. The thing women loved about Casanova were the lengths he would go to in order to seduce a woman. It was very flattering and they adored him for it. Women love an active man -- a man who makes an effort in his own life (Casanova lived an extraordinary life) and with women. Can the women in your life say the same thing? Are you loving an extraordinary life?

Watch Craig Ferguson as a host of a late night talk show. This is a man who genuinely enjoys the company of women and having conversations with them. He genuinely enjoys their love and attention unabashedly. He is fun and light-hearted -- he does not take himself seriously. Women are reactive to the frame of the man. And they react to Craig Ferguson like flowers to sunlight. He makes them feel wanted, desired, adored, feminine, safe and comfortable. They have permission to open up (pun intended) to him without bad consequences. Furthermore, even though Craig Ferguson does not take himself seriously, he is incredibly well read, wise and knowledgeable. Can the women in your life say any of the above about you?

Look at early Russell Brand. He was an unhinged maniac back in the day 😂. I am not telling you to be unhinged only that the one thing that Russell Brand got right was his genuine love for women. Women will forgive alot of your craziness as long as they feel that you genuinely love and care for them. Dame Helen Mirren, a baddie in her early years who had her own fair share of lovers, went out of her way to say that the reason why women love Russell is because he genuinely loves women. Can the women in your life say the same thing about you?

Everything has a price in order to successfully do it.

To be a king, you have to be willing to constantly fight to keep your power and love/serve your country and your people in order to have a modicum of success.

To be a great filmmaker, you have to love movies. Watch the good the bad. Dedicate hours if your time to ubderstanding the craft. You cannot have any success in that medium if you do not love film.

In the same, the price you pay for being a good seducer is going all in and loving women.

At least that is what I believe.

Love to read your comments.