All properties of RP essentially come down to one truth. The guys you had a relationship with in high school and college don’t have my back and I don’t have theirs, don’t wish me the best, aren’t my friends, and will never be my friends. Evolutionary paternal certainty, relationship trauma and even the dreaded single motherhood are all just symptomatic expressions. The cause is RP’s lack of love for another man’s saved game. There is no brotherhood.

Whereas BP revolves around the fact that apart from maybe my kids and my spouse, I equally wish all humans prosperity and expect them to wish me the same in return, I will do my part to better humanity, I ultimately see evil/cynicism as a condition rather than an ever-present reality.

This is what all criticism of the RP on modern women comes down to, and all the criticism of BP on “patriarchal” men. Do you try your best to give your love to everyone? Or do you only invest your love in your close circle where you know it counts.

This is the rationale behind:

I want a wife to cook clean home school kids and only have and ever have had eyes for me vs she’s an individual person amongst a sea of people with her own individual aspirations and dreams for this world.

All I’ve ever wanted was Prince Charming vs imma experiment, socialise and travel throughout my teens and 20s until I land my prestigious international boss bade associates and then find a man who still stimulates my mental-socioeconomical growth and maybe have half a child who I’ll then ship off as a baby to minimum wage daycare.

For BP the human race has become your tribe. For RP civilisation is a means to sustain and protect your own. Compromise is tough to be found since fundamentally, we are fighting for our way of life. Our tribe over the other. We are at each others throats.

(Disclaimer: I don’t care about political correctness or feelings. I don’t go out of my way to insult anybody *I just say it as it is. If you feel I’m witch-hunting or whatever just remember, sometimes truth entails making certain demographics look bad. Denying this isn’t empathy, it’s cognitive dissonance. Stop reporting and grow a pair.*)