I had been hooking up with a girl for a few months, she was really hot and cold and an all around pain in the ass, we'll call her Tiffany. She made the excuse that we could never go any father because she had a friend who liked me and they both agreed because of this, I was off limits to both of them.

She would always text me, use me as a boyfriend without reciprocating and give me just enough to keep me around, every once in a while. Fast forward to this past weekend, she is leaving to go abroad for a few weeks and has a going away party at a favorite bar of hers. I had a few friends over before hand. My buddy ended up bringing over a few girls, and I hit it off with a very good looking coed.

We ended up being late to my friends Tiffany's party, and at this point I'm pretty boozed up and me and this college girl are sucking face every chance we get. My friend Tiffany see's me, I say hi and introduce her to the girl I'm hooking up with. She instantly becomes hostile. The college girl notices and agrees to do anything in her power to make Tiffany jealous, and the night continues with us going back to my place. Before leaving the bar I go to say goodbye to Tiffany and she completely blows me off.

I wake up next to the college girl who looked even better the next morning, with a text from Tiffany about how she needs to talk, or see me right away blah blah blah. I say ill see what I can do. I let her marinate for a few hours before seeing her, and when I get to her place, she says she was not happy with me for hooking up with another girl in front of her at her party. I don't take it too seriously and say that she made it clear we weren't going to be a thing, and I'm free to pursue other women.

She apologizes for sending mixed signals all the time, and says how she wanted to break the pact she had with her friend to not hook up with me for sometime now. I say prove it and BLAM she wants me in her bedroom. I gave her the business and she took off for Europe, I said we'll see what happens when she get back.

To be honest, I want to keep seeing the college girl now instead of Tiffany, she is better looking and an all around nicer girl. Getting something better opened my eyes to how I have been dragged around on a leash, with a carrot in front of me this whole time. I now really have no interest in Tiffany and couldn't care less what happens when she gets back home.

It was extremely gratifying finally getting what I wanted and then some. I see now playing the "I don't give a fuck, I'm not playing games" kinda attitude works. I had an epiphany that I'm going to act how I want, not how a girl expects me to act and to take what I want from now on. It may not work 100% of the time, but when it does, it is what I want not what I'll settle for.

Edit: Forgot to mention the coed that I was with has a boyfriend, and we're planning on meeting up at my place again soon.