whats our current thoughts on monogamy

poorbatman243 · 2025-08-03T14:08:07+00:00

Yes, everyone around me has been in long monogamous relationships of more than 20-30 years

esdebah · 2025-08-04T08:24:02+00:00

Never seen a poly situation create anything but drama and bitterness.

coolfunkDJ · 2025-08-03T18:12:21+00:00

100% monogamous. the red pill/poly shit never works and attract the worse people imo, and the "men are naturally hypergamous" shit isn't convincing at all

Den_the_God-King · 2025-08-03T17:12:36+00:00

Im kinda sick of relationshits tbh

hearyoume14 · 2025-08-03T19:16:23+00:00

So, do we want to get into the honeymoon phase, women's drop in desire after 1-3 years, and unrealistic expectations? If he enters it with his eyes wide open, has realistic expectations, and is willing to put in effort, then he can be happy. Honestly, our current societal setup doesn't support monogamy as well as it did in the past.

I view marriage as a means to raise children, so love and fidelity aren't high on the list for me.

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Illustrious_Wish_383 · 2025-08-03T15:37:41+00:00

I think that depends on the individual man.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-08-03T18:51:08+00:00

Obviously or they wouldn’t do it

CandidMatch4547 · 2025-08-03T20:28:13+00:00

from what ive seen absolutely. it takes effort but its possible.

spacechicken1990 · 2025-08-04T12:26:49+00:00

Bad. Personally can't see it for myself and think it will eventually disappear along with a lot of romantic relationships. Ppl are hyper individualistic nowadays

Dowhatiwant123 · 2025-08-06T20:44:58+00:00

Not biologically, but can socially remain content to some extent.

kvakerok_v2 · 2025-08-03T20:43:09+00:00

With an ancient tradwife from the 80ies? Maybe. With a modern western woman that carries Western culture, thoroughly steeped in whoredom and narcissism? Not at all.

Lemon_gecko · 2025-08-03T14:14:50+00:00

I'm poly so i don't know if i'm biased, but i guess same could be said about monogamous people. I have yet to see monogamous couple who are together for long time and are happy. To me all of their relationships look miserable. I'm not trying to preach about poly, everyone just should do what they want, but my opinion i don't think so.

Emotional_Meal748 · 2025-08-04T04:44:50+00:00

Yes but until the ick. Yes the ick is real for men too but men get it subconsciously and can’t really pin point what is (unless they are very conscious) and sort of just start focusing on other women. Until the ick, it’s like all other women disappear into the periphery.

Charming_Review_735 · 2025-08-03T14:21:43+00:00

Yes, though the ideal situation is to have a harem of bisexual women lol.

Title	whats our current thoughts on monogamy
Author	nofappp
Upvotes	1
Comments	47
Date	August 3, 2025 1:35 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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