Going on 9 months cohabitating. She’s been awful the whole time. She got an apartment but she comes back at odd times just to harass me. Unplugged my fish tank and pond. Took the thermostat off the wall. I’ve called the police and filed harassment reports. All they say is she can do that. The breaking point for me is she put a bag of garages in my bed and dirty dishes. Called my lawyer he finally did something. He called her lawyer and told her enough of the bs. Lasted about a week until she tried to break into my locked bedroom door. She’ll be good for a week or so then try something new. I’ve done the gray rock method for a month now. I don’t respond to her messages or look at her. I don’t acknowledge her existence. The laws don’t work in a man’s favor. If this was reversed I’d be arrested. Lawyer said it would be 2k for a restraining order. Really debating it if it keeps up. Can’t go to family court to file for free because divorce is pending. Anyone else experience this?