Men’s career

Ok-Orange7146 · 2025-10-19T22:54:45+00:00

Thats not why they’re not into you.

You know women sleep with broke, unemployed guys right? Because something about that particular person they find them sexually attractive.

Women don’t find you sexually attractive. It’s as simple as that.

And I’m not just talking about looks. It’s the behavior and how you make them feel as well.

Looks like you probably go around thinking people hate your career so that reflects in how you approach and talk to girls and therefore you come across as insecure, not confident, and not attractive.

You gotta fix your loser mindset first. You think a confident person who loves himself gives a damn what people think of his career?

devonwillis21 · 2025-10-19T22:56:09+00:00

Ik plenty of barbers who get lots of women maybe you're going after the wrong type of women. I'm black so idk if white barbers are treated differently but just go after the type of women your fellow barbers have

New_Banana3858 · 2025-10-19T23:33:38+00:00

you have to do inner work buddy.

Your outer world, is a reflection of your inner beliefs.

This has taken me a very long time, too understand deeply honestly....
still today there's some doubts of it,
But the man who's willing to die for his cause and be delusional about it.
gets his results by a 75-80% accuracy.

It's rare that a person who shows up everyday and cold approaches women won't get a girlfriend.
It just goes against the law of how this world works.
Nature does not permit waste.

Cavsfan724 · 2025-10-19T23:34:17+00:00

I think being a barber is legit.

Dry-Atmosphere3169 · 2025-10-20T01:39:18+00:00

The barbershop I go to those guys have no issues getting women, trust me.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-10-19T23:32:08+00:00

Dont compete based on career.

Your game should reflect your personal qualities. Develop those qualities and have them echo through your social skills.

Pursue the career you want based on what you think works best for you.

TransitionNormal1387 · 2025-10-20T01:08:01+00:00

You’re fine bro, don’t let social media (and even this subreddit sometimes) brainwash you to think you need to be a multi 6 figure hedge fund manager to find a woman 😂. You realize how many people have wives and kids making less than 6 figs a year? Most do have in reality.

Gdefacto · 2025-10-20T00:28:46+00:00

you gotta know how to sell it

“i’m a barber”

“i work to style models for photoshoots, and i think i know the best style for your hair”

EmployFew2509 · 2025-10-20T10:49:52+00:00

That’s odd, most barbers date some of the hottest women I’ve ever seen, those guys always get some type of play lmao

Total_Obligation_371 · 2025-10-20T00:33:16+00:00

How many times has this happened exactly? How did you meet them? What was the convo leading up to you saying you're a barber? Did they straight up ghost after you told them you're a barber?

It's extremely rare for a woman to reject a guy purely because of his job. If you are funny, confident, have good social skills, are in good shape, dress and groom yourself well etc, the very large majority of women are not going to all of the sudden discount all that because of your job.

Shoddy-Lingonberry-4 · 2025-10-20T01:56:42+00:00

Do you own the shop?

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-20T02:02:50+00:00

Don't rely on meeting women through dating apps. Do cold approach. Too many opportunities for them to change their mind when they're ordering off a menu which is essentially what dating apps are for women

Alarmed_Box1198 · 2025-10-20T02:15:56+00:00

It's not about what career you have. It's about your level of drive. Women find a man with a lot of personal drive and ambition very attractive. They always want to be able to picture future growth. A man with goals who's working a dead end job now is often still more attractive than a man with a good job that has totally settled and doesn't want to advance or grow in life. Generally speaking.

neckrocyko · 2025-10-20T02:52:43+00:00

Call yourself a stylist

thai-rhone · 2025-10-20T12:23:46+00:00

If the conversation goes to your work you gotta paint the picture in a much more interesting way..

"I work with sharp blades" or some bullshit, you think of something cool.

Most jobs are boring and require lots of numbers or emails so don't let that hold you back

StopElectingWealthy · 2025-10-20T18:36:26+00:00

Barbers make crazy good money where i’m from

jpderbs27 · 2025-10-20T18:54:55+00:00

If you’re asking what will impress women, anything that makes good money they will be a fan of for obvious reasons. A lot of them think blue collar work is hot like mechanics for example. Best of both worlds is owning a blue collar business imo.

AdventurousTip2880 · 2025-10-20T00:09:27+00:00

Maybe, try not saying you're a barber, until after you slept with her and have attraction. By that point, especially if you're great in bed, she won't care what your job is.

Title	Men’s career
Author	Jandiboy
Upvotes	30
Comments	46
Date	October 19, 2025 10:50 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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