Sometimes I feel broken. When I say broken, I don't mean broken-hearted or even broken up about my marriage ending. I spent enough time feeling that way in the first few months after I found out my then wife had cheated on me. What I mean by broken is that I feel like I can't love anyone else anymore. Like my heart doesn't work the right way anymore. I spent the first year of separation from my ex-wife in a relationship with someone new and that relationship ended as quickly as my family and friends said it would. And now that I've been single and legally divorced for over a year I just haven't felt connected to any of the women I've slept with over the last year. When I think about the future or try to imagine myself spending my life with someone new it just doesn't feel real to me. I haven't even really liked anyone in over a year now and I just don't see myself falling for anyone again. My heart just feels blocked up I guess, like I can't feel what I used to feel for someone else. It sucks, I'm only 31 years old but there's a real part of me that feels like that part of my life is behind me. That I can't genuinely love anyone the way I loved my ex-wife when I was 22 and we met. Does anyone else feel like this?