Stats: 5' 6" / 158Lb / Bf 21% / 35yo
So I do own my shit, I am a busy blur moving target. I fucked up and i want to redeem myself.
I have been asking my wife to do more stuff in an attempt to lead, on my way out to work i asked the wife to put the laundry away please. I washed it ironed it and ran out of baskets so it needed to be put away.
I get home and the house is a shit state she is out with the kids and the laundry isnt away various kid pants on the living room floor, not going to be butthurt so as the captain I roll up my sleeves and start clearing up the mess putting clothes away and getting dinner ready.
wife rocks up with kids but im smiles and say nothing just carry on sorting shit out. I start getting the kids to bed and start to head out to the gym. Wife starts putting washing away and asks me if i can put my own washing away (Shit test) as i haddnt finished. I was going out so dumped it in a basket and said laters... off i trot and have a great lifting session.
Next day my eldest son exclaims... "you're a bad dad"
Me: "whys that"
Son: "mummy said you didnt help put the washing away"
Me: "do you think im a bad dad?"
Son: "but mummy says you didnt help"
.... I left it at that got angry and here i am.
Options please gents: