Anger phase, does it ever leave?

SorcererKing · 2018-05-18T19:45:11+00:00

I feel like confronting her

No, no, a thousand times, no! You tell her this shit and it's going to get worse.

Look, the secret ~~no one talks about~~ we always talk about with anger is that if you're still angry, you're still giving too many fucks.

You've read my MRP wiki post on Anger Phase, right? And the one below that, with constructive ideas on how to get over it? We tell you to do these things for the same reason that Mr. Miyagi has Daniel wax his car. Because once you're good at going through the motions you'll come to a new realization that none of this shit you're worried about matters, and you'll stop giving so many fucks.

Once you stop pushing that rope things will fall into place for you.

red-sfpplus · 2018-05-18T19:51:03+00:00

I am pissed.

Every night when I go to bed.

Every day I wake up.

I am pissed that any moment of any day I could drop and be dead. Dead motherfucker. Dead.

And it motivates me to make every mother fucking day count as if it is my last.

Which means I live my life my fucking way. Not how they or she or anyone says I should.

Or are you pissed because of some faggot reason, like how women are women?

And you are fat with those lifts and 220#. Just sayin.

TRP_TEX · 2018-05-20T00:49:11+00:00

You only want swallowing and anal because of porn. quit the porn.

you don't need that to be fulfilled.

But do whatever you want.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2018-05-18T23:00:29+00:00

I know you guys are brutal, so let me have it.

Wish granted.

(33m, 5'10 220, 16% bf BP 225, SQ 275, DL 315, OHP 115,)

Hahahahehehohhohohohohooooo <takes breath> hahahehh hoh ohoho ohohoh oheh e heheh e eheheheheheheh.

Ok, no. No, you are not 16% BF at 5'10" and 220lbs. Especially not at those lifts. I have roughly equivalent lifts (your DL is better than mine) and I'm probably 20% at 5'10" and 180lbs.

Look at yourself in the mirror, and cover one eye. It's important to compare 2D to 2D. Then compare to the pictures.

https://www.builtlean.com/2012/09/24/body-fat-percentage-men-women/

You are fat.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-05-19T00:07:27+00:00

What was your weight 13 years ago?

What was the difference in your relative SMV then?

Was the sex any better than it is now?

She doesn’t swallow? No anal?

You picked some pretty small fuckin’ hills to die on.

You diet to lose weight, exercise to look great, and sidebar to fix everything else.

“Anger phase, does it ever leave?”

Yes, mostly, when you GROW the fuck out of it.

ANGER: a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility.

So your feefees are out of whack. You can search the anger phase right in this sub, but you need a lot more sidebar.

How do you get over the anger? By reprogramming your mind through the sidebar. Educate yourself.

Stop acting like a fucking woman. Women, and Beta pussies, operate from their emotions, and she seems to be controlling you with hers. While you are searching Anger Phase, also look into concepts about Frame, Amused Mastery, and Outcome Independence.

As you get fitter you will become more attractive to her physically, but if your mind is fucked up, you’re just the oldest teenage son in the house.

She doesn’t want to fuck her oldest son.

She wants to fuck a man.

So man the fuck up, grow a pair with hair, and become the entire package.

What dread level are you at?

If you want more from her, then become someone worth giving it to.

Fix ALL of your shit.

You might be surprised at what happens next.

mountainbiker178 · 2018-05-18T20:27:58+00:00

Why do you think you're BB? Because she won't swallow? Just looking for extra info. Also there's no way you're 16%bf. What method are you using to check that?

RPWolf · 2018-05-18T20:28:13+00:00

It's like there is this mental block that she has, or she feels compelled to control SOME dynamic of our relationship. Either that, or she truly does not desire me the way that I feel is worthy of my commitment.

The mental block is you doing this for all the wrong reasons. I can smell the covert contract through my monitor. You don't deserve anything. If you want her to fuck you like that then read SMG and DEVI her. If its always been this way since you first met then why the fuck would you think it would be any different now?

Mother fuckers and the grass is always greener bullshit. Fuck your wife, read SMG and implement some shit slowly. The more attractve you get the more responsive she will be. She may not like anal, if thats a deal breaker for you then go fuck a hooker in the ass.

Do you actually like your wife?

PurpleVeteran · 2018-05-19T00:15:16+00:00

It goes away when you realize that the person you're most angry at is yourself... for believing in the Disney fantasy, for being a fat lazy slob, for settling instead of leading, and for taking so long to figure it all out.

Rian_Stone · 2018-05-19T00:54:01+00:00

This is a second hand shrink level of knoweldge.

anger is our way of processing an injustice, or other way of reconsiling how the world works, v how we think it works.

the anger has nothing to do with the world, or how bad it fucks you, only how poorly you process it.

so to answer your question, so long as youre process life like a retard, you'll constantly be angry

broneilbro · 2018-05-18T19:54:32+00:00

I'm going to go out on the limb here...why do you want to do all that? Seems like you need to dominate her physically and that might have to do with something deeper with you. She could also be reluctant to that point because she might had bad shit.

I had a girl while I was fucking her for a couple months and she was good, went to put my hand around her neck, not to choke her or anything, but she went eyes wide open and froze. I saw fear in her eyes and I knew something was wrong. She started crying and told me that she had been raped by a friend and that was why she moved into the city. I just stood there and took that in.

I also don't have my wife swallow. Call it a block or something but she once asked why I wouldn't give her a facial or swallow, which I replied "Because I only do that to girls I don't respect" and went about my ways. She was shocked by that statement.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-05-18T20:44:21+00:00

“Sex is whenever I want. Bj's are basically on command.”

Stopped reading.

2ndal · 2018-05-18T20:54:09+00:00

Why is your self worth so contingent on whether or not she swallows your semen after she gives you a blowjob, or whether she let's you stick your dingus in her stink-hole? Let it go, man.

You stop being angry about this stuff by realizing it is pointless to be angry about it. What does anger do for you in this situation? What value does it bring? Does it get her to swallow your gravy? Does it make her want it in the cheek-stash? No. Women get angry at pointless things they have no control over. Men understand problems and overcome challenges.

Look, it's simple. Is her not swallowing your butter cream or not getting to stick your donglette into her back-willow a deal breaker for you? If so, fine. Go find a woman who will perform these things for you. That is your prerogative. But realize that your anger does nothing for you.

Continue building yourself into the man you need to be. Maybe she'll drink your seed-mallow, maybe she won't. Work on Creating Your Slut (google it). Just stop being angry--that shit is for girls.

alphasixfour · 2018-05-18T21:44:02+00:00

You know when I got here I thought everyone was brutal too. Thought I had to show my teeth when confronted or be stepped on. Do you know why that was? Beta fuck ego. Like a chihuahua acting tough to stare down the other dogs. Didn’t work for shit but hey. Then when I decided to kill my ego and actually learn everything I can here two things happened: I unlocked more of the Alpha me as I put in the work and started to develop frame -alpha me has fun shit talking in the locker room. Beta me hides in a locker. Two, I realized that almost everyone here cares about the men who find their way here and prove they are willing to learn.

First we are going to shit test you to make sure you are worth the investment. That’s human dynamics. Gotta figure out where everyone fits. We are not going to invest in the trolls or terminal betas that won’t listen.

Once you start to kill your ego you come to appreciate those shit tests as strengthening your frame, good fun, and opportunities to learn.

I didn’t read anything in your post about your dynamics outside of sex with your wife. Does she shit test you? How do you handle it? For the sex read sex god method and learn DEVI.

If your wife isn’t shit testing you it means you are her total beta and she has given up.

simbarlion · 2018-05-19T06:36:53+00:00

I am Compelled to comment on the anal / swallow. Mine does both, occasionally.

It's definitely a submission thing. No doubt in my mind. Biological, I don't know. Both are total domination and more importantly a physical display / acceptance of that fact.

BobbyPeru · 2018-05-18T20:21:11+00:00

You didn’t say when you swallowed the pill. It takes a while to get some acceptance.

In the meantime, STFU, sidebar, and lift

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-05-18T21:01:09+00:00

You had a baby at 15?

Troll.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-05-18T21:31:14+00:00

Yes.

screechhater · 2018-05-18T23:28:33+00:00

Wait until the I couldn't give ten fucks stage

470_2_700_nm · 2018-05-19T14:48:29+00:00

5”10 and 220 lbs? With those lifts?

In my eyes you are a fat fuck. OHP needs a lot of work.

Fix that then let’s talk. Get your head out of your ass regarding your body fat percentage.

Achieve true BF of 12% mother fucker. It’s a target we all should achieve at one point or another IMO.

cholomite · 2018-05-19T18:04:03+00:00

The situation you are in is entirely your fault. You wouldn't get mad at the sun for giving you a sunburn, right?

Your wife is a reflection of the kind of man you are, I just think you don't like looking at your own reflection.

oneredguy · 2018-05-20T05:58:17+00:00

Ah yes she has not fully submitted to you. Very frustrating. Lose more weight and further looks max, of course. You have another 40 pounds to lose here and keep lifting.

The only way I know of to get her to submit sexually is to pass more shit tests, and expect nuclear ones, and implement a standard routine of dread game. Even to the point where you let her discover that you not only have other girls phone numbers, and not only talk to them (they're just friends bitch relax), but that they are better looking than her as well. Juice up that hamster and then pass the nuclear shit tests that will undoubtedly follow

rocknrollchuck · 2018-05-20T14:43:19+00:00

Anger: Your Best Diagnostic Tool

Title	Anger phase, does it ever leave?
Author	tsqared34
Upvotes	6
Comments	70
Date	May 18, 2018 7:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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