Vasectomy and Hypergamy

DanG3 · 2018-03-24T16:54:39+00:00

Apparently she doesn’t think you are of sufficient caliber to get pussy elsewhere.

JoATMoN9 · 2018-03-24T15:22:55+00:00

If it did...would you change your mind to suit hypergamy?

hystericalbonding · 2018-03-24T19:37:40+00:00

Here, and here, and all over the main sub.

My wife wants a 4th child. I don't.

You don't want more kids with her, or at all? If you don't want more kids, then get a vasectomy. She might divorce you, but it's better than having an unwanted child, which would lead to an even worse divorce.

You're solidly in her frame. This post is fear and insecurity masquerading as a theoretical discussion.

she'd have sex, but only if I didn't wear a condom

I'd be out the fucking door if my wife tried to manipulate me into something as serious as having a child. If you see her as your only option for sex, then you've given her all the cards.

Vasectomy seems redundant when you've already given her your balls.

Halfway through WISNIFG, which is awesome but tough to internalize.

No shit. Your answer to her demand is the title of the fucking book. Practice the skills everywhere.

_WhatTheFrack_ · 2018-03-24T18:00:55+00:00

Women can't see your vasectomy.

InChargeMan · 2018-03-24T22:13:19+00:00

Shoot it on her tits like god intended.

470_2_700_nm · 2018-03-26T12:11:56+00:00

Get a vasectomy but don’t tell her about it. Then tell her you want a 4rh and “try and try and try”.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-03-24T17:38:09+00:00

Why are you wearing a condom to fuck your wife?

BobbyPeru · 2018-03-25T06:09:08+00:00

If you’re sure you don’t want another one, tell her you are done and plan the vasectomy. This is one situation where you need to be overt. If she wants to end it over that... well, that’s called a deal breaker— better to find out sooner than later. But, if she wants to end it over that, I’d question her motivations and willingness to make your relationship work... in which case, you just need to accept it.

If you’re done, you’re done. Period.

Triadis3 · 2018-03-24T18:30:02+00:00

The theory you're obliquely and probably unconsciously referencing is that when dating, telling a woman you're sterile (for whatever reason) could check a box into her "unmanly" column. So don't do that.

You are three crotchfruit deep already with this woman. Doesn't apply to you. You trying to create some sort of team?

It boils down to the fact that you should not add any weight to either side of the sale based on what a coincidental outcome factor may be.

I want motorcycles. Love them. Addicted. I bought motorcycles. Coincidentally my neighbor likes motorcycles too. Should that fact even enter my decisionmaking process?

red-sfpplus · 2018-03-24T23:03:32+00:00

The fact that she only wants to fuck you to have babies is a bigger issue and the one worth addressing.

I am snipped. Bothered me more than it ever did her.

Never been a problem with any one else I have fucked other than her as well.

Iammrp2 · 2018-03-25T12:03:42+00:00

I wondered the same thing before my vasectomy.

She will probably grieve the idea of not having a fourth because a vasectomy is so permanent. It will effect her. You need to try and get her on board before you do it. It's not about being alpha or not because it involves your literal balls. In her mind it's about you making a decision that effects her without her input. But it's your body and you obviously have that right to snip without her input. But the decision is what she would be upset about, not about you being less of a man.

On the other hand, you will be able to fuck her without a condom and some testosterone and other hormones will be given to her from your cum so doing so may put her in a better mood in the long run.

AlphadustBeta · 2018-03-26T03:27:10+00:00

I had a vasectomy after kid 4... all of them were planned and happy about it. No noticeable difference in sex or ejaculate before or after. Maybe even more enjoyable sex, since there is no concern about potential pregnancies, or having to use condoms, or timing of the month, or interruptus.

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2018-03-26T23:04:03+00:00

If you don’t want another kid and you already have 3, why don’t you just schedule the damn operation? I’m 46 with 2 kids and a new relationship w/ a a great girl, but even I would have a hard time with having a kid win her. Also, I’m a no condom kind of guy, so I can’t imagine how you’re managing in a relationship.

electric_dragon1 · 2018-03-24T15:28:44+00:00

There’s no apparent difference in your cum before vasectomy or after... so the only difference would be psychological. FYI getting a vasectomy without spousal consent is grounds for divorce in some states. Or so I heard.

Edit, reread your question more closely. Of course that you can’t n make more humans is another huge difference- but I don’t think masculinity is perceived to be lower- not in my experience anyways. That’s more dependent on everything else you do

Title	Vasectomy and Hypergamy
Author	becoming_alpha
Upvotes	2
Comments	35
Date	March 24, 2018 3:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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