When men “apologize” they be like

gretchenlowell · 2020-08-23T21:10:59+00:00

Or the usual “I’m sorry you feel that way”

talldrankofH2O · 2020-08-23T23:38:39+00:00

I have an ex that used to just turn the tables “Well I’m sorry I’m not as perfect as you. You want to talk about an issue? insert weird thing he’s never mentioned before that’s apparently huge “

Ketolove604 · 2020-08-24T00:11:19+00:00

HAHAHA. Men who make no effort to change and say "that's just the way I am" gets a hard pass from me.

Sage_Planter · 2020-08-23T22:43:53+00:00

"I'm sorry I'm not perfect! I try so hard."

heythereitsemily · 2020-08-24T02:01:21+00:00

They’ll explain something toxic about themselves and then say “I know, but that’s just how I am.” Well okay buddy, my time in therapy and soul searching to improve myself wasn’t all for some loser that just accepts their bad qualities as “who they are.”

bbch2019 · 2020-08-24T05:09:14+00:00

I just looked into a thought today it was: do men work on their psychology and spiritual development as much as women do. The answer, no, this was not a surprise to me but it was discouraging. The pandemic has stirred up a lot within me, I have made it a goal to prioritize my own mental health and my spirituality. I am healing from childhood wounds that have in the past made me self destructive and codependent. It's a lot of work but I know it's so worth it and the best thing I have ever done in my life. On a whole I feel so good, there are some tough battles I am fighting too. I am feeling everything and some of the emotions are hard but again it's worth it. That being said knowing that men are not putting in this kind of work with themselves is so disappointing. I would like to get to a point where I date again when I know I am healthy enough for it but if men aren't healthy why should I date? Is it really worth it to fall down that rabbit hole? Will there be anyone out there that deserves me as a healthy, financially stable, spiritual, goal oriented person? I will not get involved with someone that needs to be fixed. I will not support a man financially. I will not allow abusive behavior. I will not allow myself to get caught up with someone that is codependent. I will not allow someone to manipulate me. I will not allow someone to objectify me. There is no way in hell that I am going to put all this work into myself then allow an unhealthy man to destroy the work I have done because he doesn't work on his BS. Do healthy men exist? Will dating even be worth it or do I just not bother at all? I don't know, this is something I think about as I go on this journey. I guess when it's time and I am 100% ready I will have to consider it. If I had to answer the question today the answer would be no.

djfrankenjuice · 2020-08-23T23:05:22+00:00

Ahahahahaha love it

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-08-23T23:48:19+00:00

Sorry I slapped myself but I thought you wanted me to leave and I wanted to show you how much that hurt ME.

nothingtoseehere70 · 2020-08-24T04:36:26+00:00

ole "SoRrY iM nOt PeRfEcT" headasses. No one asked for perfection, that's not even possible. anything to deflect tho.

sashimi_girl · 2020-08-24T07:04:42+00:00

Or they text you the word “sorry” and that’s IT

Buckley92 · 2020-08-24T04:59:55+00:00

When even the other men look intimidated by him, you know this guy is low value.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-08-24T13:16:09+00:00

😂 accurate

bootyinspector9000 · 2020-08-24T05:22:43+00:00

God I used to love the simpsons. (Only got Disney+ to watch it. ) Now it's so hard to watch. Just the gross relationship dynamic. "Marge, grab me a beer" ugh

Title	When men “apologize” they be like
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	1196
Comments	31
Date	August 23, 2020 8:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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