And that’s on periodt

ilostitireallylostit · 2020-08-29T17:08:39+00:00

No but he cheats like you wouldn’t believe. So many LVM fathers.

lionessbutthole · 2020-08-29T17:25:40+00:00

Yeah actually and she's the woman he cheated on my mom with. My parents split then he left her to get back with my mom lol then my mom left him after convincing him to move back to the place her family was. I know he still talks on the phone with this woman a couple times a month. I don't know if his current wife even knows the history with his "bff".

My dad called me a "hard woman" last time I saw him and it's my favorite compliment I've ever received.

potato5601 · 2020-08-29T17:31:34+00:00

I am so grateful to have a HVM for a dad, he treats my mom like a queen. Thanks to him I know how I should be treated by a man and will never settle for less.

ragetimethrowaway · 2020-08-29T17:11:12+00:00

Oof stomach turned. Luckily my bio dad isn't like that. His wife is his best girl friend 🤲🏻❤

n0way0ut1 · 2020-08-30T00:54:24+00:00

To be fair, my dad doesn't have any friends. 😂😂

MyNameIsNotMia · 2020-08-30T02:25:17+00:00

My dad is definitely a LVM. Cheated on my mom, still has tinder, my sister found him searching for a sex doll on amazon, has apparently been cheating for years with different women, and admitted to not loving her for years. Sad thing they’re still married because my mom can’t afford a divorce and wants him to be the one to do it. He lives in a camper in our backyard and doesn’t understand why, he even thinks he hasn’t done anything wrong. So traumatic for me, I’m so glad I’m finally seeing a therapist.

nymphaetamine · 2020-08-30T12:49:11+00:00

My dad was the ultimate HVM and he never had a single female friend unless you count the little old ladies he played checkers with when he was in assisted living before his death. He always understood the impropriety of sharing emotional intimacy and 1x1 time with other women as a married man. The thought of "hanging out" with another woman without my mom would have never even crossed his mind. I have yet to meet any other man with that level of loyalty and it's depressing.

illusion_believe · 2020-08-30T12:36:45+00:00

I was watching the IG story of a dating coach and a girl is asking him what to do because her boyfriend kisses his female best friend on the neck. She told him that she was not a jealous person and she’s wondering what to do .

eru378 · 2020-08-30T11:04:56+00:00

That's it. I used to be such a doormat on this topic, feeling shitty about then-boyfriend's close female friends and also feeling like it was just something I had to suffer in silence over and not a legitimate reason to just end the relationship. At one point it hit me: it is completely inconceivable that my father would have close women friends who he hung out with without my mother. So fucking weird to even think about. Then I asked myself, why do I think men my age are exempt from this? Why do I think I need to put up with it now? I cannot see myself accepting this shit from my hypothetical husband, so why am I dating men with female friends who they prioritise over me, their girlfriend? The cultural pressure to never question this is so strong and I'm glad I broke out eventually. Propriety and perception matter.

greenshadownymph · 2020-08-29T22:46:14+00:00

.....What dad?

Sage_Planter · 2020-08-29T22:21:40+00:00

The only female friends my HVM dad has are my mom's friends. I can't imagine a world where they'd ever hang out 1:1, though.

samarsharqi · 2020-08-30T06:47:09+00:00

Lmao my dad is the LowestValueMale but he certainly taught me that men and women can’t be friends

Whateverbabe2 · 2020-08-30T05:38:31+00:00

I have no idea what this means

greenshadownymph · 2020-08-29T22:31:42+00:00

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Title	And that’s on periodt
Author	ragetimethrowaway
Upvotes	519
Comments	37
Date	August 29, 2020 4:51 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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