I'm very jealous, how do I handle having a girlfriend?

kruxofthemimed · 2017-03-30T03:32:09+00:00

The answer is very simple: women are for fucking, not for long term exclusively sexual codependent relationships. Our culture has lied to you in thinking you can find security in the opposite sex. Accept that. Learn to live by yourself, get some friends, have goals, and spin plates.

shitwiththatass · 2017-03-30T03:12:52+00:00

Don't get married.

DadOnDabs · 2017-03-30T03:31:23+00:00

Move to the middle east, become Muslim, buy a wife and make sure you give at least two camels for the dowery.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-03-30T03:21:31+00:00

I can't imagine dating a girl that enjoyed having sweaty hot sex with another man, sucking his dick, drinking his cum.

On the contrary, you are imagining it. You have a choice, get that shit out of your head, or become yet another with some weird fetish about seeing his woman with another man.

DonElDoug · 2017-03-30T04:51:10+00:00

Damn, when I read the red pill the first time, I was just as jealous as you and uncomfortable if the girl has any contact with a guy beside me. Then I figured out, that I was the one who wasn't calm and rational. It's totally stupid to forbid her from talking or hugging others. I was the one who was insecure. Besides that,..its kinda hypocritical if you forbid her from thinking of other girls but in the other hand you are allowed to imagine fucking a HB10. Just relax, at the end of the day, if she comes back to you, that's the win. If she talks with others, doesn't mean she Fuck s them. Go lifting, go meditating and chill.

E_mail_7114 · 2017-03-30T07:08:24+00:00

Lol, you'll never get one with that mindset. How old are you? That's pretty childish in every aspect. What adult female hasn't fucked at least a handful of guys? You talk like you expect a virgin and you'll be her only lay for life. Lol okay.

Archwinger · 2017-03-30T12:13:13+00:00

You aren't qualified to judge girls until you've fucked a few dozen. After you've bedded lots of women and seen how non-special and non-unique they all are, then you can laugh about how you thought one day you'll find this good girl who's different.

That sweet, virginal good girl is wearing a mask. Dancing for approval. For the right man, she'll change her dance.

You need to learn how to be complete and fulfilled without women. Build yourself a great life. That's the goal.

Then, you can add in women in an appropriate context: for fucking.

Nergaal · 2017-03-30T11:52:20+00:00

She was never yours, and will never be yours

Merwebb · 2017-03-30T03:18:56+00:00

You man up and stop being so insecure. Really.

Are you Latino? This sounds very latino. Nothing wrong with it though (i am latino), is just that is what an hyper macho would say and in the end those are the biggest losers.

Chill dude, a woman is yours for the moment she is with you and then she isnt no more. Relationships are not meant to be forever, ando those who are is because of frame and abudance.

You cant have abundance mentality thinking like that.

If today in this age you want a woman who havend sucked her fair share of dick (experienced) you will be deceived many times.

pridebrah · 2017-03-30T08:09:50+00:00

Out of curiosity, how old are you?

Tommy_407 · 2017-03-30T10:13:17+00:00

You're being naive and a bit childish. Any sexy attractive woman this day and age is going to have a handful of sexual partners before she had you. There's no getting around this.

What you can get around is your uncontrollable jealousy issues. If you can't stand it when your girlfriend even hugs or kisses another guy you've got a problem dude. There is likely something about yourself that you hate that is exacerbated that jealous feeling in you.

Either that or you're very inexperienced with women. Read the sidebar please.

bhouse114 · 2017-03-30T14:04:04+00:00

Fucking grow up. Seriously. This won't be a popular comment here but just live in the real world. Humans have sex. And unless you specifically want a girl with no sexual you'll find someone that has been with someone and done everything with someone else before they met you. And it'll be the same for you.

nomadglobetrotter · 2017-03-30T03:28:59+00:00

I am on the same page with you on that. On the sidebar, there is a mentioning that all women decrease their n-count when confessing. So, unless you start a relationship at her early age, chances are even higher that she had some interactions with other men.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-03-30T04:18:27+00:00

Zero-Sum fallacy. Scarcity mentality.

The supply of hugs, smiles, and flirtation is unlimited. Who cares if she hugs someone else? There are lots more where that came from. You think you're competing for you one dwindling slice of the pie. In reality, there are many different pies, so you can have as much or as little as you want. If one pie is running short, there are plenty more to choose from.

What you see as liabilities, are really opportunities.

Mudpielol · 2017-03-30T09:11:57+00:00

Body parts are washed and cleaned. Your expectations are unrealistic to say the least, but if that's what you want, good luck finding that unicorn.

I can't imagine dating a girl that enjoyed having sweaty hot sex with another man, sucking his dick, drinking his cum.

You can't control other people, and most importantly, you cannot control the past. What you can do is be the best version of yourself.

adam_varg · 2017-03-30T12:11:06+00:00

Its insecurity ridden jelaousy.

Get rid of most of your insecurities and your problem will be solved.

Scrubpuppy · 2017-03-30T12:20:23+00:00

Wait a few years and mature. Then you'll look back on this post and cringe.

TryhardPantiesON · 2017-03-30T15:19:30+00:00

Luckily, my ex was a virgin.

From my experience, most girls that feel proud to claim to be virgin are not really virgin. First off, most women consider virginity tied to PIV sex, when they say they are virgin, that doesn't mean they haven't had anal sex, it is known as the poophole loophole for a reason, oral sex is the other loophole women use to rationalize they are not really virgins and not feel bad about it, second, according to the bible virginity means sexual purity, in other words NO ENGAGING in sexual activities with other people before marriage. So when a woman tells you she is virgin, you might want to take it with a grain of salt.

I can't imagine dating a girl that enjoyed having sweaty hot sex with another man, sucking his dick, drinking his cum.

I think you imagined while you were typing it.

flatox · 2017-03-31T04:29:55+00:00

Grow some balls, Get used to, dont marry

mrpthrowa · 2017-03-31T14:17:50+00:00

Madonna whore complex before you've even met her? she's made for sex and children.

Save those disgust feelings for your mom and sisters.

the_chilean · 2017-03-30T04:02:59+00:00

ex gf was 100% virgin. she still loves me, current gf was technically a virgin too but did oral sex and obviously drink cum of his ex, It took me a while to overcome this but i will never love her as much as i did to my ex. I still can go back to my ex though. You might not believe but I live in another society

TattedGuyser · 2017-03-30T05:42:41+00:00

So you're ok with her kissing your children with a mouth that's only sucked your dick? Sicko.

Title	I'm very jealous, how do I handle having a girlfriend?
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Date	March 30, 2017 2:55 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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