I am married, and my marriage was not doing too well. So a few months ago I started an affair with a single woman, great woman. Then a couple of months ago during an argument with my wife I told her about my lover and told her that I had no intention of ending the affair.

It didn't go too well, she's still not too keen on the idea, but I do spend time with both of them and nobody else, and they are both exclusive to me. I always thought that my marriage would end at some point in time, or that my affair would end, or both; however the relationship with my lover keeps getting better and better and stronger and stronger; and my marriage is actually in much better shape that it has been in quite a while.

So I just realized that I am in a polyamory relationship, more specifically a Polygyny relationship https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygyny.

I am fine, I am happy, I am enjoying myself, so is my lover, and my wife is also doing better and better, I don't think she likes the arrangement but we do have good times together and we are working effectively to fix things between us.

That's my Red Pill story and realization.