Why do men over 40 not commit to my 40+ divorced ass?

leartistoflife · 2020-09-17T14:15:43+00:00

Because we can get good looking 18 year olds without all that shitload of baggage. Bye felicia

loneliness-inc · 2020-09-17T16:17:50+00:00

tick tock tick tock, you're getting older too.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oh silly lady, you will come to learn that women need men but men want women. Men may be getting older, but they really don't need your 50 year old ass, 50 years worth of entitlement to live up to, 50 years worth of nagging, criticizing, cajoling, manipulating etc etc etc to be dumped on their heads.

No, they just want one thing from you. Because at 50 years old, you are thinner and better looking than most plump, short haired mummies your age.

You're also easy because you're desperate.

So they'll keep tapping that pussy of yours and you'll keep giving away that sweet milk, hoping that someone will buy the cow.

HornsOfApathy · 2020-09-17T14:20:46+00:00

The classic "Men you're getting hold, stop wasting time" is such a projection of the female condition. They're the ones worried about being alone, unattractive and old. Men can still remain attractive nearly indefinitely.

reputationruiner · 2020-09-17T14:20:46+00:00

First, "undecisive" isn't a word.

Second, note that she never explains what these "games" are, nor does she give any hint beyond "fucking with me".

Third, this tattooed thing is in her fifties and she talks like a teenager who was raised by TV shows exclusively filmed in the Valley. "Like, gawd, like guyyyyssss".

Finally, the entitlement that there should be someone out there waiting for her after her 18 year marriage after her 'good' or at least fertile years. Although to her credit, this may be the only woman I've seen on any forum in the last three years not explicitly call her ex "abusive".

TerpsMakeMeDrink · 2020-09-17T14:24:19+00:00

"WHY WONT CHAD COMMIT TO ME NOW THAT I'M A QUINQUAGENARIAN?!"

"WHY WON'T MEN GIVE ME THEIR RESOURCES 15 YEARS AFTER I HIT THE WALL?!"

Listen, lady. No sane man is going to want anything to do with a woman that is half a century old and trying to "date." You're not bearing him children at that point (definitely not healthy ones), he has money to afford hookers if he needs pussy (yours probably looks like a punched-in Stouffer's lasagna, unless you've had extensive vaginal rejuvenation surgery), and he should know you're only interested in gathering resources from him (i.e. LEECHING WHAT HE'S WORKED HIS WHOLE LIFE FOR).

It's not pLaYiNg GaMeS, lady. He's using you for a pump-n-dump. That is literally all your dilapidated, dried-up snatch is worth at this point. Accept it, pour yourself some Sauv Blanc, go feed Mittens his dinner, and go fuck yourself.

Honest_Solution · 2020-09-17T14:33:43+00:00

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Randallsixx13 · 2020-09-17T15:36:32+00:00

Pitiful.

You wanted sexual liberation, there you have it. Now you can compete with the younger women, enjoy.

me_grimmlock · 2020-09-17T15:38:50+00:00

Just get another tattoo, that will make you more desirable 😃

RunawayGrain · 2020-09-17T16:17:17+00:00

Fake eyebrows: Check.
Tats: Check.
Entitlement: Check.
Despondant about her poor choices, but blames men: Check.
Pissed at men with better options: Check.
Misinterprets her bitching as weighty insight: Check.

I just hit angry old internet feminist bingo.

redmanmonk · 2020-09-17T14:55:44+00:00

Don't worry gentlemen. By men she means "Chad Thundercocks" and not us. We're in the clear.

guynpdx · 2020-09-17T15:42:52+00:00

Because I'm still fucking teenagers and early 20-somethings who don't have bad tatts and bad attitudes. Tick tock tick tock.

AstroPixelCollector · 2020-09-17T14:22:48+00:00

Why do men meet with her in the first place?

teh_pope82 · 2020-09-17T15:44:48+00:00

Fact: Men are getting older

Fact: Older men in the dating scene for the most part also age better and have their shit together.

Fact: Older women for the most part have emotional and physical baggage they can’t let go of.

Fact: Younger Women go for older men.

You chose to fuck around in your youth, we didn’t. What you eat doesn’t make me shit.

Honest_Solution · 2020-09-17T14:38:56+00:00

Because the older women get the worse their standards get and the more superficial they become. I can get less bullshit from a woman in her 20’s than I can from a woman in her 30’s and 40’s.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2020-09-17T19:14:16+00:00

Woman at 20: Plays games while laughing and partying hard, rewards players and fuckbois with sex and attention, rides the CC, and teaches men around her to play games.

Woman at 50: WTF! Like honestly, I just cannot figure out why men play games?

make_reddit_great · 2020-09-17T16:10:19+00:00

Angry, foul-mouthed, and tatted up is no way to go through life.

Fun_Issue_9709 · 2020-09-17T16:35:06+00:00

Remember when these hoes tried to cancel leo di caprio and henry cavil for dating 18 year olds in their 30’s. Old hoes are pathetic

guynpdx · 2020-09-17T16:19:42+00:00

Women have their fun (cock carousel) in their 20s and treat men like shit then. They don't realize that they all have short shelf lives.....tick fucking tock.

Men have their fun in their 30s 40s 50s (if they are doing it right) and beyond and treat women accordingly. Long shelf life.

Ketsa · 2020-09-17T15:13:27+00:00

Few seconds of her ranting was already too much.

Ibeprasin · 2020-09-17T16:23:45+00:00

Wow this women is 50 and still doesn’t understand the difference in what men and women value in a partner.

Who cares if those men are getting older? As long as they’re wealthy they’ll have no problem getting beautiful women much younger than them.

While she loses SMV by the day.

GayyFieri · 2020-09-17T19:13:35+00:00

In all the years I've dated women I've tried to understand them. I realize that men and women are very, very different, much more different than any marriage counselor or matchmaker will really tell you but it fucking astonishes me that this woman can be dating men for more than forty years and still not have a fucking clue.

Men do not date at her age. They've been through it all and put in a real effort, maybe they've even been in love and then they meet women like her and they're done. You don't date like teenagers when you're elderly. Men will go out with you but they'll never be serious.

Why? That time in a man's life has passed. She herself even said she was married and left her husband. Somewhere out there she has made one more man tired of the bullshit that will never date again. I'm sure he'll see women and he'll fuck a lot but he won't 'date' them because of this type of bullshit.

You don't get unlimited chances on this ride and she's all out of tickets. You don't get to just give everything up and go back to the goo goo eyes of dating. You're old. You had your chance.

The big difference between men and women is men realize this and women are always WHAT IS WRONG WITH MEN????? I don'T uNdErStanD??

Men don't get fucked over, lose the house, lose the kids, fight allegations against them and then just turn around and just start all over again.

martellthacool · 2020-09-17T15:43:40+00:00

Eww old bag of bones that's heading for retirement home 🏡 🐈🤣

psychotropy · 2020-09-17T16:47:43+00:00

That's a shame. Women like this suffer from not having a man (be that a brother, cousin, friend, etc.) willing to tell them the truth. My younger sister knows the damn truth, because I made sure she did.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-09-17T17:37:08+00:00

Tik Tok, Tik Tok, You're getting fucking older too you know

Yes and those of us in our 50's have seen enough shit from you ladies to have damn good reasons for avoiding you. They were not really indecisive they just didn't want to directly tell you that they are only interested in pump and dump with you.

And they probably play those games because they have learned that committing is way too dangerous and women at her age are almost always looking for a commitment, whereas a lot of men that age want nothing to do with a LTR as they feel that is a losing game with shitty prizes.

evergreen35 · 2020-09-17T15:54:40+00:00

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washerelastweek · 2020-09-17T19:44:21+00:00

When I was 40 I had a fwb relation with a 20 year old girl. And I'm not even tall or reach. Just self confident, in shape and lifting , TRP-aware, and I also could make her laugh.

The clock is ticking, yes, but now I'm 52 and have a girlfriend aged 35. So I think in case of the lady from the clip -- it won't be me.

cyrusol · 2020-09-17T17:43:36+00:00

Tattoo.

She who beareth the mark of the streets, she belongeth to the streets!

Melanjoly · 2020-09-17T15:46:28+00:00

Not even banter, she has serial killer vibes, something is off !

FuckTheTTC · 2020-09-17T15:58:23+00:00

Ok these filters need to end.

apexelevn · 2020-09-17T17:04:32+00:00

I’m 25 right now , if this is how women are now in there 40’s 50’s I really really really wanna see how my age group will be at that age .

Adventurous_Bandit · 2020-09-17T19:11:27+00:00

Poor lady, she doesn't understand that men on their 40s who are successful don't need to deal with old bitter ranting tattoed single moms in their 50s.

They are ~~banging~~ dating their 25 year old daughters👌😎

Thor-Loki-1 · 2020-09-17T20:01:59+00:00

*Indecisive.

That big ass tattoo you got as a celebration of leaving your marriage isn't a positive, honey.

jws755 · 2020-09-19T04:44:59+00:00

I am in her dating pool, and between her attitude and her tatts, I want nothing to do with her. She does look good for her age, but what she does not realize is that no one wants to buy what she offers anymore. She is too much work for too little pussy.

Now I gotta go to your kids soccer game/piano recital before I get any time alone with you?

No thanks. We share no history or emotional investment. I have no attachment to you.

PorkSoda1999 · 2020-09-17T17:53:31+00:00

Lol our biological clock doesn't tic, bitch

kikomarinko · 2020-09-17T16:22:29+00:00

Wooow wait now there partner. "Stop with these games that your playing" Now listen here ive been getting played with your games for almost 15 years now when you are in your prime years,but whats that u hate it when the games are played against you,so when we do it wowowow im getting tired bs..

Sub-Sero · 2020-09-19T08:37:11+00:00

Where i live 55 to 80 year old western men are slamming 18 to 30 year old pussy and have prolonged relationships with these women.

I think this women is seriously delusional.

moriarty_056 · 2020-09-17T17:03:07+00:00

She was scooped up in her prime and now she’s alone & in denial. That truth pill is going to be hard for her to swallow.

SylvestorTalone · 2020-09-17T21:39:42+00:00

''I expected it to get easier as I got older''

I honestly just have nothing to add to that.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-09-18T15:07:19+00:00

"I would have expected it to be easier as I got older."

"Tired of men f'ing with me."

"Men are so indecisive."

"Don't play games."

Oh how the tide has turned. Bwa ha ha. You hit the wall, cupcake. Game over. Single successful men at your age prefer to date younger.

prelude12342000 · 2020-09-20T16:47:41+00:00

Divorced women just can’t understand why men don’t want to commit to them....ur damaged goods after divorcing your husband of 20+ years.

WDGHr · 2020-09-17T16:18:16+00:00

I wish I could have described my mid 30s to my mid 20s self. "You can date her or her daughter so just focus on you dude."

ransay3277 · 2020-09-17T21:34:42+00:00

Old guy here. My friends and I get these types just throwing themselves at us on a regular basis. Sad really.

GayyFieri · 2020-09-17T22:43:18+00:00

Can I just say how much I love this video? I've watched it over and over again and it's better than most porn.

We should have a term for a second wall. Maybe a cliff because this one's fallen off it

You hit the wall when you get old at thirty and then fucking fall right off the cliff after you hit the wall.

laptopdragon · 2020-09-18T01:04:17+00:00

lol, another tatted up used leather bag with attitude expecting to be treated as a princess.

Too late mam, you have one shot with one guy who can view you as young and beautiful forever. Leave him and all the rest will see you as the disloyal hag you are.

fuckersgonnafuck · 2020-09-18T01:39:49+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣the tables have turn MF!!! I bet you played a lot of games on your 20’s sooooo, what it goes around comes around!!!

Buchwild · 2020-09-19T00:31:52+00:00

It does get easier as you get older........for men

Alturius · 2020-09-20T02:37:18+00:00

SOUR GRAPES! Double Standard! Entitlement!

Note she said "I separated", implying she triggered the divorce and did the dumping. Now she complains that the few men that she dated are the ones ending the relationship. She doesn't like being on the receiving end, and getting a dose of her own medicine.

2020-09-20T05:08:02+00:00

"listen up"

I read this, and without even having listened to the video, my first response is "bitch, shut up."

and that's it. I don't have any desire or need to listen to this horseshit.

wormholewanderer1 · 2020-09-20T10:08:23+00:00

She looks really good for 50

Sernametry · 2020-09-20T10:31:20+00:00

She looks good for 50

SuperstitiousSpiders · 2020-09-17T23:57:02+00:00

It’s what I like to call the 20/20 rule. Women are only interested in the top 20% of men and men are only interested in women for about 20% of their life (20-40). It’s not kind to anybody but I do feel for women who find themselves on the other side of that number dumbfounded that their phone is no longer ringing. Ladies, welcome to the life of 80% of men; your phone isn’t ringing now but our phone was never ringing... The truth is women have about two, two and half, decades to put together a life with a decent guy who will commit. If they don’t work it out in that frame the odds of them ever doing so are basically nonexistent.

isthisthelasttime34 · 2020-09-18T00:06:02+00:00

"I thought it would get easier"

She's been watching too much Hallmark Channel.

Ishabaka · 2020-09-18T11:37:00+00:00

This is a classic: woman dumps her long-term husband in her 40s, expecting men to line up to worship her like they did when she was courted/got married in her 20s - and they don't, and her reaction is ANGER!!!

Here she is, boys, the woman of your dreams - a tattooed 50-something who is overflowing with anger and entitlement - get in line!

DrDog09 · 2020-09-18T23:20:46+00:00

Heck with the age thing....

Is your idea of cooking, 'reservations' or 'Uber Eats'? Hell I can do that.
Is your your idea of meaning your career? Pass.
Your mind does not understand the concept of supporting rather than competing? Pass.
You think divorce is your ticket to freedom? Good luck with that.

Your problems have nothing to do with age. Every problem you have is in your mind and self-inflicted. Have a great life. WalMart has a special on cat food this week.

Enough-Staff-2976 · 2020-09-19T23:34:12+00:00

Men don't owe women anything. Especially not a post wall-stale smelling, bag of bones.

taoofmojo · 2020-09-17T17:47:53+00:00

Men play games in there 50s? Bro most be so funny in your 50s! He doesn't care if he in his 40s or 50s! Vale has been lifted at that point.She might as well go after a guy in his 20s

kingcobra315 · 2020-09-17T19:06:31+00:00

Commitment = bearing and raising my offspring, what other value is there after you smash a few times and get bored?

lovetheduns · 2020-09-17T20:10:24+00:00

I can’t handle the fact that with all of the Botox her forehead and eyebrows do not move. At all.

2020-09-17T22:25:13+00:00

Tick tock tick tock....you surpassed the wall miss Karen eyebrows

NoFaithInThisSub · 2020-09-18T00:10:03+00:00

today is too nice a day to listen to yet another messed up feminist. tooda loo bitch.

Hawaiian_Poi_Dog · 2020-09-18T03:56:03+00:00

Am I seeing a older version of Taylor Swift....

2020-09-18T09:00:37+00:00

Tic-Tok, Tic-Tok... apparently YOU didn't think you were ever going to be "Getting Older," as evidenced by that GAWDY-ASS "TATTOO" that you thought was so Hip, Cute & Clever in your Youth! Every time I see one a woman sporting one of those, IMMEDIATE "SWIPE LEFT"... especially on you "Older" has-beens!

I-am-the-lul · 2020-09-18T10:53:26+00:00

I expected it to get easier as I got older

That is more likely to be true for men who have done what it takes to build themselves up, for women, it is the opposite, they start their adulthood at their peak and at best, they can only slow down their continuous drop in their SMV/MMV after they past their mid twenties.

I_abhor_redditors · 2020-09-18T14:55:30+00:00

Of course she is in her 50s and with those ugly asf tattoos.

MRMRising · 2020-09-20T13:08:49+00:00

Yeah, she wants another beta provider to replace the one she lost in the divorce. But men in that age bracket have been through a divorce themselves and refuse to get married again.

Tough shit for her, women's problems are not men's concern.

LilSicilian69 · 2020-09-22T06:46:02+00:00

well,(as for the good men go anyways) mostly all of the good men have been married and divorced to a woman that treated them badly or extremly badly by the time they reach there 40s. So because of there previous marriage to a shitty partner they have a secret fear of going thru that again, which is understandable, so they just need time to see that it wouldn't be that way with the next woman, I know this is 100% true cuz my man is 40 and his previous marriage sucked ass cuz his ex wife fucked him mentally/made his life LEGIT miserable and id marry him ANY DAY OF THE WEEK, but i just sit and wait patiently and enjoy having him until that happens (we been dating almost 3 years now). So for alot of men over 40 im sure thats a huge part of why they ain't thrilled at the idea of marriage, and sure that really sucks for us good woman, cuz we have to pay the price for the shitty woman, but when you have a man worth loving then the wait is worth it. :)

2020-09-27T14:34:00+00:00

Can't speak English

Acts like a teenager

Destroys things she helped create but won't take responsibility.

Tries to speak from a place of authority and fails.

Bitch! Wake up! YOU ARE THE PROBLEM!

Your husband tried to please you, gives you space to be a teammate and make a decision and you call him "UN decisive".

Really bitch?

Know what I'm really tired of? The idiot clones like you ruining society because you feel like you aren't getting what you deserve.

Women: SHIT THE FUCK UP ALREADY

defiance211 · 2020-09-17T18:51:45+00:00

I believe the word she was looking for was “indecisive”

Brucebruce90 · 2020-09-17T20:33:35+00:00

*indecisive

Thanks for sharing, this was hilarious...

Ratatouille2000 · 2020-09-17T20:47:03+00:00

I can't be a man over 40 and listen up cause I'm 26 and single HAHA.

buttabecan · 2020-09-17T22:03:42+00:00

Nah, you can keep those dusty ovaries and your other depreciating assets of yours to yourself, lady. She’ll be a good pump and dump for some young guy or older Chad, but they won’t put a ring on it, especially with that entitlement attitude.

TheDongerNeedsFood · 2020-09-17T22:31:19+00:00

So when you were young it was ok for you to play games, but men who are now older aren’t allowed to play games.

brianmcg321 · 2020-09-17T22:38:19+00:00

LOL at that sleeve. Now she knows what it's like to be a dude in their 20s.

Notamayata · 2020-09-17T23:03:43+00:00

TL:dr Because they've learned

iman_313 · 2020-09-17T23:25:11+00:00

love the use of "undecisive." gonna have to start using that great new word.

Kinjikijoji · 2020-09-17T23:47:41+00:00

Is that house even hers?

SafeBendyStraw · 2020-09-18T00:25:42+00:00

Men that aren't married at 40-50 are indecisive? How ever did they get to that age being single AND indecisive?

XSasuken22X · 2020-09-18T01:57:24+00:00

Indecisive *

tux_pirata · 2020-09-18T09:38:01+00:00

better to get old than divorce-broke like your ex

thedepressedfailure · 2020-09-28T00:13:30+00:00

I bet she refused guys her age when she was in her 20s because "they weren't mature enough" (aka didn't have enough money)

asdf333aza · 2020-09-28T01:38:06+00:00

She had to take this video in a near blinding light to hide the wrinkles.

LordBogus · 2020-10-15T12:48:30+00:00

Lol its ok for woman to play games when young but suddenly when she hits the wall it has to be serious

LMAO

adminflakes · 2020-09-25T17:31:14+00:00

What happened when we were 20s and you didn't want us... We were busling in school.... Yet you never let us saw the light of day with you... In fact a vampire got more sunlightb then you going ever give us..... So we went our way..... No long term relationships no marriage no cohabitation...... Just fuck friends that's it...... Good luck we prefer firtle women.

2020-09-17T20:20:30+00:00

What trash. Lmfao. Entitled pieces of shit just pushes us to more fit and better women to smash and pass. We don’t want your used up gloryhole.

Revolutionary-Tap-82 · 2020-09-27T10:50:05+00:00

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

me-dgaf · 2020-10-09T03:28:22+00:00

used rotten roastbeef. Pass.

hush1235 · 2021-02-15T02:22:58+00:00

What’s her tik tok? ? I wanna shot my shot.

RatingsOutOfTen · 2020-09-17T15:10:35+00:00

Yeah. It's tough these days for women, because it's tough these days for men.

This woman doesn't get it. A fit man in his 40s with a good job who is single isn't going to commit because he doesn't have to. Sex isn't valuable to men anymore because it is everywhere. Men have always asked women out and women have always been the ones to decide.

Back in the day, a woman like her could reasonably expect to find a man after a divorce at her age. Now, women her age are invisible.

There is a reasonably attractive woman that I work with in her late 40s that drops hints and stuff all the time that she is into me. I'm in my early 30s. I offered to stop in during the cold winter months if she needed some warming up. She's not interested because of the age gap. She is probably going to cave and agree to it eventually. I actually like her as a friend. We have a lot of the same hobbies and we get along well. Best case scenario is that I get her pregnant and then, since she is older, she needs my young, fit self to help raise the kid, which I would do. Then she gets too fat to cheat and dies prematurely and leaves me and her new kid all of her inheritance, which I can use to buy a younger woman to impregnate as well. I'll become friends with kid number 1 and we'll team up and conquer the world as father and son... or maybe daughter. Either way. Thats my general pipe-dream, at least.

Why do men over 40 not commit to my 40+ divorced ass?

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Title	Why do men over 40 not commit to my 40+ divorced ass?
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Date	September 17, 2020 2:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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