Hey Guys. I just wanted to offer some encouragement and advice to guys who hope to some day raise a family. There are some misconceptions about the limits of TRP thinking, mainly that TRP is merely a system for PUA. TRP enables a man to understand that, through self-development, he can improve himself and reap life-long rewards. These rewards go way beyond pickup artistry. The real purpose of manhood is to become a husband and father, and to inhabit those roles in a satisfying, valuable way. Its easy for young men, especially guys from broken families, to miss this point. They get discouraged by the havoc wreaked by feminism. Often, they lack the lessons that are best taught by a loving father; lessons that teach a boy to be tough, to work hard, to value that which is truly earned. These lessons run counter to what society wants us to believe. This problem is exacerbated by the fact that most young men start out without wealth and status. Society has taught them to desire all sorts of material possessions, mocks them for not being able to afford them, and tricks them into incurring debt in a hopeless masquerade of phoney status. Attractive, young women want nothing to do with immature, silly young men, which can be demoralizing. And, if a young man desires a good wife and a family, he is derided from all quarters.

This is where TRP offers solutions: Get better. Work harder. Learn patience. Learn to go without. Save money. Avoid debt. And, above all else, don't get trapped by pregnancy or marriage that you're not ready for. It takes time and effort to build a manly life. Society isn't going to encourage the right behavior. Inhabiting your destiny doesn't happen overnight. It happens one good decision at a time. One attained goal at a time. One obstacle overcome at a time.

In the mean time, you've got to put your desire for a wife and family on hold. Sure, you can chase women, but don't confuse good game with real maturity. Don't talk about what you really want. Cunning women can sense the desperation of your longing. It takes big-time self control to avoid being taken advantage of.

Real maturity is an advanced state of being. It only comes to those who are patient, hardworking, disciplined, and discerning. You're not going to have this figured out at age 23. And, even if/when you're ready, you still have to find and attract the right woman. With the way society is training women to be whores, finding a decent woman is a tall order.

Be a man! Put down that XBox controller and lift some weights, or go for a run. Get to work. Spend time figuring our what really matters to you. And stop seeking validation from our culture. Real men go out and get it for themselves.