Who has to work harder in dating... a really tall woman or a really short man?

Tedesche · 2018-10-13T06:33:51+00:00

Men always have to work harder in dating. Tall women are still approached, while short men are expected to approach, even if they’re going to be rejected.

Monkey_Jerk · 2018-10-13T07:56:21+00:00

Short men are almost universally unattractive to women shorter, taller or the same height as themselves. Tall women can find a guy of any height with the limiting factor being how picky she is about the man's height.

reluctantly_red · 2018-10-13T10:45:27+00:00

I dated a 6'4" woman (former college basketball player). She had no problem getting dates in her 20s. She's having some problems now that she's a divorced woman in her late 30s with three kids but its not because of her height.

[deleted] · 2018-10-13T15:19:14+00:00

The really short man. Hands down. No contest. All men always have to work harder for anything and everything they get in the dating/sex marketplace. Always, all the time, everywhere, in all contexts, for all men. I'm extremely comfortable saying that.

Very tall women (over 6') still get approached, still have options, even if they have to settle on height. And you'll still see women taller than their men. But they still got men.

handklap · 2018-10-13T06:52:10+00:00

I am not that tall, only 5'9.5". But it has never been a problem for me. Short men have it much worse.

torreto17 · 2018-10-13T12:10:56+00:00

yeah dated a girl who the same height as me,about 6"2.....she was maybe 5/10. She never had any issues getting dates. Heck even after we stopped seeing each other she had a new bf within 2 days. Below average women will always have better luck then the average male... always

Currycell92 · 2018-10-13T06:47:59+00:00

Short men.

DemonConsulting · 2018-10-13T08:19:30+00:00

Men are the “active“ ones in dating, the ones who have to approach and impress with action, so they're (almost) always working harder.

The tall woman on the other hand can only do so much to increase her SMV to attract (better) men. If she's freakishly tall or genetically ugly to the point where it turns men off, then she may be shit out of luck in terms of who she can get - she'll still get someone interested in her if she cleans up and maybe initiates herself, but the quality of man she can get may well be below average or below her personal minimum threshold of who she finds attractive. Though in most cases, just being tall isn't that much of an issue for men so she'll probably be fine if that is truly her only physical “flaw“, it's just more unlikely that she will find an even taller guy than herself.

Daffan · 2018-10-13T07:04:02+00:00

A really short man, is this even a real question? Tall women are models, even taller ones go into Amazon porn and have huge fetish communities lol.

[deleted] · 2018-10-13T14:30:50+00:00

The tall woman probably has it hard because she's embarrassed to go out with shorter men, despite there being loads of takers. Boo hoo.

throwinout · 2018-10-13T18:32:37+00:00

Women always have it easier in dating, period. It doesn't matter if she's a paraplegic, she will have an easier time dating.

theambivalentrooster · 2018-10-13T13:27:21+00:00

Oh cool this an oppression olympics question.

Very useful!

Pope_Lucious · 2018-10-13T19:48:59+00:00

Men.... short or tall

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hammerhaunts · 2018-10-13T15:11:40+00:00

Short man

RoyalAugur92 · 2018-10-13T16:51:20+00:00

I won't dignify this with an answer.

abaxeron · 2018-10-14T01:12:55+00:00

"Tall woman" is probably in the list of 10 most common fetishes. If I was a little bit more of an asshole, I'd point out to entire forums dedicated to fetish art with giantesses.

killallthenarcs · 2018-10-13T14:38:05+00:00

Neither. No-one has to date. Finding a sexual partner is optional.

Title	Who has to work harder in dating... a really tall woman or a really short man?
Author	handklap
Upvotes	3
Comments	56
Date	October 13, 2018 6:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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