Most female dating advice, yet not all of it, is useless because women do not experience lust and sexual desire from an abstract point of view. They do not deconstruct men into physical segments, like women due to men. With men there are a billion fixations, the most common are " a boob guy or ass guy". But there is no such thing as a "bicep or lats girl".

This is why women might say something like "big muscles are a turn off", but have the image of ronnie stuck in her head. In reality, when a woman is approached by a guy like this, the idea of muscles being gross flys out the window.

Some forms of female advice are useful. I have encountered women who are more articulate about what they find appealing in men, that matches the type of men they are actually dating.

But a lot of women have lust dependent on experiencing scenarios. JFK once took the virginity of a white house intern If you asked most women, they would say things like "I would never lose my virginity to someone who didn't care about me". But those women have never experienced being in the white house, let alone spending time together with a president.