Would you date/marry a virgin?

trpobserver · 2017-04-19T14:08:19+00:00

I would not marry a virgin. Sexual compatibility is huge for marriage. Very huge for me.

IamTheWalkingMenu · 2017-04-19T18:49:06+00:00

Only if that virginity was lost, to me, before the wedding cuz I cant be with a guy I don't want to have sex with so we'd have to make sure we were compatible before we got married.

exit_sandman · 2017-04-19T15:40:09+00:00

On principle: Date yes, marry no (my objections towards marriage aside, I wouldn't marry a woman I haven't slept with before).

That said, it's extremely unlikely that I'll ever meet a woman who is still a virgin but doesn't have a dealbreaker of any kind (including, but not limited to: psych issues, age, extreme religiousness etc.).

BPremium · 2017-04-19T13:31:19+00:00

yes. yes all day long

rreliable · 2017-04-19T14:03:58+00:00

IIRC even the damn Puritans weren't dumb enough to demand virgins marry for life before having sex.

These people, who were such morons that they literally executed people for witchcraft, still had the rudimentary intelligence to have young people have sex with each other before forming a lifelong legal bond.

If they had sex and found they didn't like it, the couple were no longer required to stay together and were free to pursue other people.

The only exception was if the girl became pregnant.

GaiusScaevolus · 2017-04-19T14:30:57+00:00

Date yes, I'd be more hesitant to marry only because I believe a couple should know if they're sexually compatible prior to marriage.

OurThrownAwayDreams · 2017-04-19T16:50:56+00:00

By the time we walk the altar she will not be a virgin.

But I'm not gonna let her save it for "wedding night", no, we need to figure that part out before I sign my name on the dotted line.

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vezokpiraka · 2017-04-19T13:31:01+00:00

I don't get this question. Why would anyone have a problem with this?

LewisCross · 2017-04-19T13:41:29+00:00

rpwthrowaway2016 · 2017-04-19T13:44:03+00:00

Bf was a virgin when I started dating him. So yes.

grendalor · 2017-04-19T14:15:20+00:00

Yes.

prodigy2throw · 2017-04-19T14:17:54+00:00

Ivelurkedfortoolong · 2017-04-19T14:23:34+00:00

Yes, I'd accept nothing else.

PieceBringer · 2017-04-19T14:38:12+00:00

No, I had to know if were sexually compatible.

theozoph · 2017-04-19T16:51:21+00:00

Of course, anyone not wholly lost to the slut culture is a precious pearl beyond compare, where virginity hints at excellent parenting, strong self-discipline, and a wholesome worldview.

Unless, of course, we're talking about an ugly man-hating lesbian no one would touch. ;)

Wallstreet3 · 2017-04-19T17:45:25+00:00

My advice to any young man is vasectomy and never marry.

With that in mind, you do not know the virgin's mind state so you got no clue what the script flip will be like.

Whores for sex, pine for 'good' women from afar.

HNTI · 2017-04-19T19:06:55+00:00

Date - sure as long as she's sexy in my eyes. As for marriage - nope.

cxj · 2017-04-19T20:55:40+00:00

sure?

washington_breadstix · 2017-04-19T22:14:01+00:00

I would date a virgin, sure. But we would need to get busy before marriage so that I know I'm committing to someone I'm compatible with.

Boobear3 · 2017-04-20T13:34:10+00:00

I'll be one for someone who wants that. I'll just cry a little the first time we have sex and then put some blood stains on the bed when he's not looking.

despisedlove2 · 2017-04-20T15:08:42+00:00

Yes.

Title	Would you date/marry a virgin?
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Date	April 19, 2017 1:12 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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