CMV: Women have no incentive to NOT have as much sex as they can before marriage.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2016-11-06T17:27:18+00:00

i have come around to this position. i can no longer advise women to not ride the CC and have the most possible fun in their youths before settling for some husband material they have the slight upper hand with to make babies to take care of her in old age. all woman get today for foregoing their options young is a man who is rising in status as shes aging who will cheat on her when hes 40 and shes 35 and has had 2 kids, or demand threesomes or just divorce her. there is no incentive, and no reward for being chaste, if anythign you just end up a weird virgin in youre 20s who ends up with some other weird socially abnormal man. all the hot normal peopel are havign the times of their lives ridign their local CC and then marry people who rode OTHER ccs so they didnt WITNESS each others cc activity. that is all that matters. i can only say this for white people, since the obsession with virginity and n count and the CC is patently a non anglo/scandinavian, non US black phenomenon

Princeso_Bubblegum · 2016-11-06T16:46:13+00:00

Let's say a woman doesn't have sex in her 20s. The chances of her marrying a top 10% ideal man are slim to none anyway, so why the fuck shouldn't she sleep around and have fun?

Because people aren't mindless sex robots looking for the most raw hedonistic pleasure.

questioningwoman · 2016-11-06T19:05:00+00:00

Only what age a woman LOOKS like matters. Technology can keep people looking super young if you have enough money to buy it. I know some men are put off by the numbers but a woman could hide her age from a guy until they get super close and pair bonded. Then he will swallow his distaste for her age but still get with her or leave because of "dishonesty". It's an all or nothing bet but it's an all or nothing bet that can work.

despisedlove2 · 2016-11-06T16:40:48+00:00

Women who ride the CC and have N counts beyond 4 (puny figure for most women) are known to find it harder to emotionally bond with the man they end up with. Their divorce rates are higher.

As an additional gift, many pick up plenty of diseases and other fertility threatening infections along the way.

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EsauTheRed · 2016-11-06T18:31:26+00:00

I know my girlfriend has a high N-count for her age, so I know that she has little restraint when it comes to casual sex. Does that mean she's going to cheat on me? Maybe, maybe not, but it means that if she wanted to then not much would stop her.

So what's the result? Well fuck if I'm going to be the chump who remains faithful until he's eventually cheated on. I would be willing to be monogamous, or at least be much more invested in the idea, if I knew that she didn't have that attitude towards sex. I'm a simple guy, and I could be pretty happy just having sex with her, but I have to protect my dignity. Sounds stupid but it's true. I refuse to be that guy.

These girls are going to find it almost impossible to marry a good man. I don't mean a Chad, and I don't mean a beta bucks, I mean a high value guy who wants to commit to having a family, and places more emphasis on what he makes than on his sex life. Guys like this will marry a bit down if it means they can achieve this, but they will never marry a slut, it won't happen. A good personality goes a long long way in finding lots of guys, and a high N-count is a massive red flag. Most of these women could do much better if they actually tried, but instead they wait until they find just a decent guy.

Women don't realise how a high N-count affects men's perceptions of them, probably because they project how they feel about high N-counts in guys (not great but not the worst thing). They're just less trustworthy and less attractive for it.

EsauTheRed · 2016-11-06T18:34:07+00:00

The alternative is for her to find her "Alpha Bucks" as young as possible and try to lock him down. It's not a coincidence that this is ultimately what the biological feminine imperative is. If he's Alpha Fucks, she will fail at locking him down. If he's too beta, she won't be happy in the long run.

Very rarely are these guys the pure betas red pillers fantasize about them being

Except according to TRP theory, there is no such thing as a "pure" beta. Every man is a combination of alpha/beta behaviors and genetics. When we say a guy is "beta", what we really mean is that he's "too beta".

Falkner1992 · 2016-11-06T18:34:13+00:00

Except for the fact most of them don't actually want to, you mean.

darkmoon09 · 2016-11-06T19:44:51+00:00

Would you be honest about your promiscuous past to your potential future husband?

EsauTheRed · 2016-11-06T17:14:40+00:00

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kamwren · 2016-11-06T17:28:01+00:00

Let's say a woman doesn't have sex in her 20s. The chances of her marrying a top 10% ideal man are slim to none anyway

No talking about fairy-tale bullshit "ideals" like you suggest, but realistically any high-value woman has a very good chance to find a high-value man if she doesn't compromise and whore away her best years. Seems like you're just trying to hamster about your own failure of attracting a good man. If you couldn't, doesn't mean 99% of women can't. Not everyone can get the most alpha guy on the planet, but there's still a world of difference between a reasonably above average man, and Chuck the Cuck or Beta Bill you'd have to settle for.

12isLimited · 2016-11-06T17:29:51+00:00

What is this logic? If she doesn't have sex in her 20s she may even have higher chance to find her ideal man lol.

What women don't understand that yes, men need sluts, but we need them as objects, just to satisfy our pleasure, nothing more, being a slut is not gonna get you the perfect guy

mistixs · 2016-11-06T17:55:51+00:00

Yes, they do.

Women have incentive to not have "as much sex as they can" in general.

The less sex we give to men, the more they'll want it, & the more things they'll give us, in order to get it.

Title	CMV: Women have no incentive to NOT have as much sex as they can before marriage.
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Date	November 6, 2016 4:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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