If you don't wanna get falsely accused of sexual assault, just don't have sex

redmachines · 2016-09-10T15:20:50+00:00

Men shouldn't have to be worried about being falsely accused. However, women who falsely accuse men of sexual assault are not held accountable by the law so it is a zero risk maneuver. And the allegation itself is enough to ruin a man's life.

drok007 · 2016-09-10T15:05:09+00:00

Or just kill them and do a good job of getting rid of the body.

Sandralees · 2016-09-10T15:26:41+00:00

How is this different than saying if you're afraid of being raped, don't dress or act in ways that elicit male sexual interest, ie "slutty"??

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-09-10T15:47:22+00:00

If you're scared of being raped, just don't leave the house.

If you don't want to get pregnant, just don't have sex.

If you're worried about not getting equal pay, just don't work.

If you're worried about TRP, just don't go online.

....hey OP you're right! This logic works great. =)

Heathcliff-- · 2016-09-10T15:56:08+00:00

You're actually correct.

If you're going to have sex in our modern world with the current standard of woman, it's best to have evidence of consent.

Send her a text afterwards asking if she had a good time, delete the saved name on your phone and screenshot the text when she replies so that her phone number is shown at the top. Back up these screenshots on a cloud server.

Keep her happy and tiptoe around her feelings so that she has no incentive to fuck you over. As long as you make her "feel" good, she won't try and ruin your life for petty reasons.

Take it to the next level and have CCTV cameras set up in your bedroom/living room recording all sexual encounters; or maybe just sound, depending on what's legal in your country.

This is the only way a modern man can save himself from some crazy bitch pointing a finger and ruining his life with the power the government has given her.

If I ever got into any major public position of power, fame, politics, whatever; having sex with the average woman and not documenting it would be a HUGE mistake. That's just opening yourself up to some crazy woman accusing you to try and milk a settlement out of you. Best to stick to high class hookers.

Carkudo · 2016-09-10T16:38:36+00:00

If women don't want to be paid less than men, they should just not gets jobs.

kragshot · 2016-09-10T19:11:26+00:00

You know...that's funny.

I wasn't having sex when I was falsely accused of rape. I was buying comic books.

Brian Banks wasn't having sex when Wanetta Gibson falsely accused him of rape. He was playing football and working on a massively successful career at it.

The Scottsboro Boys weren't having sex with those two white girls when they falsely accused them of rape. Emmitt Till wasn't having sex when he was falsely accused of rape. The two men who were respectively in their own locations, falsely accused of rape sparked off the 1922 Rosewood FL massacre and the 1920 Tulsa OK race riot were not having sex.

Nobody was having sex when NYC weather-caster Heidi Jones claimed that she was raped so she didn't get in trouble for being late for work.

On second thought...no it is not funny at all.

It's just victim blaming...the same thing that you folks get all worked up about when it's done to women.

TL;DR

Your statement is completely baseless. That dog don't hunt. The center does not hold. You can put water in that colander all day but it won't hold any inside.

[deleted] · 2016-09-10T17:36:54+00:00

Read Devil in the Grove. You can be falsely accused for no reason.

[deleted] · 2016-09-10T15:08:04+00:00

Yes. Also pregnancy. If you're a male who is afraid of pregnancy, don't have sex. Even if she takes the pill every day, there is a small risk of pill-failure and pregnancy.

Also, if seeing hot women makes you have sexual thoughts (but these women won't have sex with you and make you feel hateful) don't go where there are hot women. Try to hide yourself away more.

Truecelacct · 2016-09-10T17:19:55+00:00

This isn't my personal belief, but society could collectively harbor a deep-seated skepticism to all rape claims, even legitimate ones. That's where we're headed.

You and all defenders of the "Rape Culture" narrative must ask yourself whether or not over-complicating the already idiotic experience of 21st century dating while demonizing male sexuality on the way to so-called female "empowerment" isn't going to face a serious reaction.

3rd-wave feminists are - slowly but assuredly - creating the very patriarchy they fear.

[deleted] · 2016-09-10T18:51:42+00:00

That is true. But I don't see what it has to do with my thread

DarkLord0chinChin · 2016-09-10T20:49:27+00:00

If you don't wanna get raped, don't wear revealing clothes, don't walk alone at night, don't go to clubs or bars

Pathfinder24 · 2016-09-10T22:33:55+00:00

If you don't wanna get raped, just don't get in a relationship.

How far you wanna go? With this logic, we don't have to stop here.

ifelsedowhile · 2016-09-10T16:39:39+00:00

you can be falsely accused even if you don't have sex as it's already happened. feminist logic fail #∞

[deleted] · 2016-09-11T13:17:34+00:00

You can levy a false accusation against someone even if they never touched you, that's why it's a false accusation.

BeyondTheLight · 2016-09-10T15:08:54+00:00

But what about the Maslows hierarchy of needs! We need sex to function normally! More than water and food obviously!

darksoldierk · 2016-09-10T23:03:45+00:00

Those risks are natural, we all have to live with them. The risk of being accused of rape is not. It's something that is made by society.

Let me put it this way, if you could control those risks, wouldn't you want to make them non existent? Wouldn't you want to remove the risk that comes with going outside? or with eating and breathing? There are scientists and researchers being paid a lot of money and spending their lives working on how to reduce those risks. The risk of losing your entire life because some woman woke up one day and decided that she regrets having sex with you is not natural. it's going way too far. It isn't about if I personally get accused of it, it's about a system that is inherently unfair towards men. There's too many laws that are skewed towards women. For a gender that spent half a century fighting for "equality", it's baffles my mind how little that gender knows about the definition of equality.

For some, sex is a necessity, no different than eating. Saying "just don't have sex" is like saying "just don't go outside", "just don't eat" or "just don't breathe". If all it takes is a woman accusing a man of rape for his life to be destroyed, then that is simply unfair. I'm not saying take rights away from women, I'm saying treat rape accusations like all other criminal accusations. "Innocent until proven guilty". The person who is accused should still be given some protection until he is convicted. No one should know his name, and it should be illegal to identify him in the media until he convicted.

Just a few months ago I remember reading a newspaper article where a woman accused of a man of rape. The judge decided to "make an example out of him" (using the judges own words). The newspapers nailed him to the wall, made him seem like he was the spawn of Satan. Yet, when I read the actual case, I saw that the entire case was a "he said" vs "She said" situation. There was literally no proof on either side. There was proof that the woman deleted text messages that were so clearly vital to the case because she "didn't think they mattered". There was proof that the woman consented to sex prior many times prior to that specific occurrence. And, there were even witnesses that claim that they heard her telling him that she wants to have sex with him that night (they were at a bar with friends that night). There was also proof that she liked kinky and sometimes violent sex. Despite the fact that all of facts were argued in the court of law, the judge still took her word over the proof, and the man was sentenced to jail.

Throughout the trial, prior to the conviction, the papers went all out on this guy. I mean, he wasn't a saint, but the things they reported were personal and irrelevant. Even if the judge was fair and let him go, his reputation would have been ruined. He was an MBA student, and he likely would have never been able to find employment.

With other natural risks, the cards are purposeful stacked against you. A man shouldn't be risking his entire life every time he has sex. It's ridiculous.

Sunshine12e · Mon Sep 12 2:12:39 2016 UTC

Why not simply get consent before penetration? Is is that difficult to Sexily look at woman while making out and ask "Do you want me?". Is there any reason NOT to ask for consent, other than the fact that she may say no? And also don't have sex with a drunk woman, unless she is your girlfriend who you regularly have to sex with.

[deleted] · 2016-09-12T17:58:08+00:00

What kind of fucking retard wrote this post??

I wrote it. Don't talk to me like that, thanks. Post something constructive.

Casshern1973 · 2016-09-10T15:07:43+00:00

1)It's not that common. I have only seen ONE case of a teenage girl falsely accusing someone and it's not like she went to the police, she was just bullshitting to us, her friends. Most women are not so heartless and yes, women do mature, that's why it's almost always very young, teenage or college age girls falsely accusing someone.

2)I have said it in the past. If a woman says no, stop AT LEAST for a while and let her feel comfortable before continuing. If she says no and you continue anyway because you "think" it's a shit test, you're giving her a reason to justify falsely accusing you of rape.I bet a lot of false date rape accusations happen because of this.

wynterpetals · 2016-09-10T19:20:09+00:00

that's a pretty good suggestion. they are terrified of it. so you know what, don't have sex. after all you can only control yourself. :0

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Title	If you don't wanna get falsely accused of sexual assault, just don't have sex
Author	SipsSparklingWater
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Comments	108
Date	September 10, 2016 3:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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