How are naturally disadvantaged people supposed to cope with the red pill?

TheGreasyPole · 2015-09-19T18:50:32+00:00

They're not inferior people. They're just less attractive people.

How RP can help them is giving them ways they can still improve, despite any natural handicaps, and a sense of realism where they can expect to achieve success.

To aide in understanding.... RP can make you realise that it's not a good idea to be an SMV2 waiting for that SMV6 to see the goodness of your heart and happily pick you. And it can show you a way to be the SMV4 that SMV2s and SMV3s would happily pick for a LTR.

Given we're very roughly 50:50 by ex, eyeryone has got a shot with someone. RP can help you in fixing your sights at the right level, and improving enough to find what you want if you're aiming your sights right.

RP never promised to be nice. Only to be honest.

There is a way for everyone, but some people have been dealt far shittier hands than others. What RP can show you is how to play a hand well. Maybe with a shitty hand the best you can hope for is a good LTR with an smv2.

We cant help the cards you got, but everyone can get somewhere with the cards they got if they play them right.

That's going to take a lot of effort for some. Multi-year programs of work.

If you don't want the realistic result enough to do it ?

Fine, there is MGTOW.

FleetingWish · 2015-09-19T19:00:27+00:00

Honestly, life isn't fair. It's cruler to some people than others. Not everyone will live happily ever after with the perfect mate. Some people are genetic dead ends, that is how evolution works and removes defects from future generations. No one owes someone a relationship, and not everyone "deserves" one.

That being said, there is more someone can do than ever before to minimize that. Plastic surgery can do wonders for someone in that situation. I would tell them to do everything they can to beat the system, even if they have to "cheat" to do so.

Lonny_zone · 2015-09-19T18:37:25+00:00

What is the point in living for these inferior people?

What is the point of living at all? Many people with painful illnesses still find a way to get out of bed every day. It seems people usually choose life regardless of circumstance.

[deleted] · 2015-09-19T19:27:20+00:00

Even without deformities, there will always be someone better than you; hotter, funnier or more successful.

It's a cliché but it is true: Stop comparing yourself to others. Just be better than you were yesterday.

redmachines · 2015-09-19T18:49:41+00:00

Why do you need coping mechanisms to deal with failure? Accept your inferiority, stop playing the woman's game and start living your own life. You will find that your life is better without pussy chasing.

monkeybeast55 · 2015-09-19T18:28:44+00:00

Life is imperfect and beautiful. Except when lived for some fantastical Internet or movie-defined fantasy. What is the point of living a steriotype?

f3yleaf · 2015-09-19T21:06:41+00:00

Make the best of what they got, take it to the fucking limit.

Alot of less physically attractive people SHOULD reproduce, but as it stands with human nature and society, super intelligent nerds are more likely to pass on their genes by hitting the gym than by reading another book, sad but true, nature does not give a fuck about modern high-tech society or space travel.

I sometimes feel like we are living in the movie 'Idiocracy'.

max_peenor · 2015-09-19T22:05:09+00:00

What is the point in living for these inferior people?

The plan and ugly truth is that someone has to lose the genetic lottery. The universe does not give one fuck about the losers.

ReddishBlack · 2015-09-19T20:24:35+00:00

That person first has to consider the possibility that they are wrong about themselves.

anacrassis · 2015-09-19T22:01:40+00:00

I'm not sure what your question has to do with TRP. It seems like such a person would, if they're honest with themselves, come to the conclusion that their spouse was with them out of necessity regardless of whether they encountered TRP. Indeed if anyone, disadvantaged or not, is honest with themselves, they'll realize that the person with whom they wind up is a reflection of their own value, since no rational actor would choose a mate of lesser value over one of greater.

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cats_or_get_out · 2015-09-19T23:40:58+00:00

Girl, your soul is hungry for answers, and I don't have them. You aren't going to find that solace on PPD.

You need to start taking better care of yourself. Do you like books? Are you reading anything now? I'd be happy to PM you some links for finding good titles based on books you have read and liked.

What little things in your day give you joy? Do you enjoy sunshine? Do you like petting or holding animals? Do you enjoy a cup of tea? I think your depression has robbed you of these pleasures (anhedonia).

Obsessing about TRP is making you crazy. I'm not a therapist or a doctor. I imagine one would say that you're deliberately punishing yourself. This is a type of self-harm. The comments you get directed at you here in PPD are also pretty harmful.

You're an analytical type of person. You're trying to think your way out of this. You may enjoy r/Stoicism. I think at any rate, it is a better place for finding answers than here.

Sending you good thoughts. :-)

redmachines · 2015-09-19T18:31:41+00:00

They take the best they can get when they've improved in any area they can. They live life in a way that fulfills them and makes them happy, even if that doesn't include sex. Maybe they go MGTOW. TRP doesn't claim to be able to make everyone attractive to a 10/10 supermodel. It teaches you to take the hand you've been dealt and use it to the best of your abilities.

prodigy2throw · 2015-09-19T19:00:55+00:00

You won't become Sam Hunt with trp but your situation will be better than it was before.

QQ_L2P · 2015-09-19T19:07:02+00:00

Be the best you can or die like a bitch wishing you'd tried.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2015-09-19T20:56:45+00:00

I got a good choice of waifus/husbandos if they need it, I suppose.

Or they could seek a wife/husband in the second/third world.

Fail that , get money for plastic surgery.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2015-09-19T21:19:09+00:00

I don't get it . Did you need TRP to tell you that men prefer beautiful women ? Maybe improve your appearance , lower your standards and maybe you'll find someone for you.

throwaway1643 · 2015-09-19T21:27:29+00:00

Find meaning and happiness independent of other people.

Learn a hobby, go running, go hiking, join a meetup, join a yoga class, join a knitting class, learn a new subject, read a good book, meet people to talk about that book, etc.

The world is a pretty fantastic place and we've got a finite time to enjoy it before we die. Best we can do is accept the circumstances that fate has dealt, and try to live a fulfilling life within these constraints.

Just remember, if you think you've got it bad, atleast it isn't as shitty as that kid in Syria, or those people who suffocated in a van trying to cross the border.

[deleted] · 2015-09-19T22:51:41+00:00

You can work on most of the above, probably except bone structure or mild autism.

Xemnas81 · 2015-09-19T23:36:10+00:00

Distance yourself as far as you can from the dating game and find happiness in friendships, community service and hobbies.

circlhat · 2015-09-19T23:37:04+00:00

You luck out by being born a man, physical looks are less important(they are still important) , but there are some ugly mother fuckers getting laid like its easy

rulenumber303 · 2015-09-20T00:40:55+00:00

The same thing we all do when we are also-rans... red pill, blue pill, it is all the same the only workable response is to make do. Find a livable situation and get on with living. If you're not in a livable situation, if your situation does not offer enough to provide some contentment to survive on, make a plan and get out.

Also https://youtu.be/CDNkY2yDXO0

caesarfecit · 2015-09-20T01:41:40+00:00

If being good looking and having a good sex life are the only things you live for, then I feel truly sorry for you.

I'm never gonna play in the NFL, but that doesn't mean I didn't have fun and some success playing in high school, or hate the game cause I never made college ball. There's some wasted opportunities in my life I'll never get back, but I'm not dead yet. There are some things I can fix, and some things I can't. I just choose to find other meaning in my life. Just because you or some other things can't meet your ideal doesn't mean you're screwed.

[deleted] · 2015-09-20T01:52:36+00:00

Try to get a decent job, try to build and maintain decent friendships, and hop onto an MMO, where there is fun to be had for everyone regardless of how they look.

Carkudo · 2015-09-20T04:48:21+00:00

If that person is a woman - just lower standards. No woman is so unattractive that no man would go for her. Incel is a male-only thing.

If that person is a man - develop coping mechanisms and either get into a provider relationship or set some overall conditions for suicide if you're going to choose living alone (or can't afford to be a provider). Self-improvement, self-searching, hobbies, an enjoyable job and a good therapist will be a great help in coping, although it's still going to be a damn miserable existence. The suicide is needed because it's better to just kill yourself before you get consumed by misery and\or die a slow death all alone.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2015-09-20T05:40:00+00:00

Sometimes that's life. Some people don't measure up. Reality doesn't care about anyone's feelings. We make the best with the hand we're dealt

[deleted] · 2015-09-20T05:46:37+00:00

I dunno OP, how do you cope with the fact that you are a completely worthless chemical scum flying helplessly through space on some random rock in Universe equivalent of Buttfuck, Nowhere and nothing you ever do will have any effect on anything?

Fortunately(?) for us, our brains are wired to not give it much thought.

winndixie · 2015-09-20T08:05:11+00:00

How are Asian males supposed to bang the hot blonde?

[deleted] · 2015-09-20T12:41:20+00:00

PC games, mind altering substances, dank memes. That sort of thing.

[deleted] · 2015-09-20T15:57:05+00:00

There's more to life than sex.

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2015-09-20T22:09:43+00:00

they can get a book deal for being "an inspiration" and become rich.

[deleted] · 2015-09-21T07:07:32+00:00

You can bring other people down to make yourself feel better.

[deleted] · 2015-09-21T19:17:51+00:00

Less attractive people can wear veils or gimp-masks and/or be third-tier concubines. Even an ugly woman can be desirable from behind.

[deleted] · 2015-09-21T20:39:12+00:00

This reads like a strongalfalfa troll.

Title	How are naturally disadvantaged people supposed to cope with the red pill?
Author	chloe1204
Upvotes	12
Comments	83
Date	September 19, 2015 6:21 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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