Indian men, do you feel like white women treat you unfairly?

prodigy2throw · 2015-08-05T14:11:19+00:00

I'm Pakistani. Yes it is more difficult and at times it doesn't seem fair but such is life. I don't take it personally.

My opinion has always been that while a white man needs to only be in the top 20% to be successful with women, ethnic men need to be in the top 1-5%.

You kind of start at the bottom of the mountain with white women just because we get screwed by the media portrayal plus the absurd amount of horniness and thirst of 99% of indian guys.

Ballllll · 2015-08-05T17:39:10+00:00

Black guy and I think all minorities get the shaft, but Indians seem to have it worse than blacks. Most white women want to date a white man so the rest of us end up competing for a smaller portion of women. Most women who date minorities also date white guys, but a lot of women date white exclusively.

I don't take it personally, just the breaks in life. In other situations it can be a benefit, just not when dating white women.

Xemnas81 · 2015-08-05T14:08:53+00:00

OK so from what I understand these are some of the defining traits of Indian men who suck with women

Out of shape
Scarcity mentality, regularly appeal to either Foreveralone land or the Nice Guy pity party for validation as you have done here
Totally plugged into the Feminine Imperative: attempt to White Knight, LJBF, Captain Save a Ho' etc. more on these here http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ 'Plugged-In'
Disregard for the fact that Indian women are both

i) hypergamous and proud (India is much more openly patriarchal than the West despite having developed Americanised pop-culture),

ii) and some of the most high SMV women in the world, i.e. possibly out of the league of most betas

Think that most of attraction is to do with having a good job (sorry dude those days are over)
Very needy for sex and girl's approval, esp. in high school
Generally socially awkward/sub-par social skills to begin with
Try too hard to be a specific artificial form of 'Alpha' rather than working on inner game

If you can change any or all of this you might be onto a winner :)

Also, it totally sucks that white women treat you as lower SMV than a guy who would be in your league were you both the same race. Such is racism. The SMP is brutal. Develop internal locus of control and breathe deeply.

cvcv1991 · 2015-08-05T14:30:23+00:00

Attraction is not obligatory. White women (or women in general) don't need to give anyone the time of day.

Look at it this way: you can't be interested in a woman because of her looks, and feel shocked that she's not interested in you because of your looks.

DevilishRogue · 2015-08-05T18:44:16+00:00

"used-goods."... is hurtful and I think you shouldn't use it.

What term would you prefer for women that have spent their prime on others whilst ignoring a guy and then come to him only when they are no longer sufficiently attractive to said others?

40Watts · 2015-08-05T19:07:58+00:00

White women in the US generally do not view Indian men as attractive. I believe this is because Indian men are generally unattractive with beta tendencies. Based off my experience, it is fairly easy to stick out as an attractive Indian male if you raise your SMV and cultivate alpha qualities.

I believe if a western white woman started living in India she would become accustomed to Indian men in a heartbeat. I'm currently dating an American white girl, but I'm pretty sure she has a brown fetish since she's an Asian Studies major who has visited India before.

[deleted] · 2015-08-05T20:17:19+00:00

I think its only natural for an in-race preference, but whats truly interesting is that not only do white women prefer white dudes, women of other races (other than black) seem to also prefer white guys. I suppose this is due to the cultural perception of white guys being higher status, and women crave a guy with a higher status than them. Also I don't know why, but asian/indian guys just seem to be more shy, awkward, and less socially charismatic, which does not do them any favors.

Nazrath2112 · 2015-08-05T14:09:55+00:00

As a white dude I think that Indian men get the shaft. Thats not true for all of them but for the most part, especially in the west, Indian men are screwed.

autoNFA · 2015-08-05T16:17:57+00:00

The Western media is incredibly racist towards Indian men. The claim that "there are no attractive Indian male leads in Western media because there are practically no attractive Indian male actors" is bullshit. There are loads of attractive Indian male actors, and not just in Bollywood, but producers and casting directors don't put them in any roles that aren't ethnic-clown sidekick or scientist-guy. Sometimes it's due to the (self-fulfilling) prophecy that they're "not marketable", sometimes it's because white men are threatened by the sexuality of minority men.
I can't count the number of times I've heard the bullshit claim "I don't date Indian men because of their culture", claiming that Indian men as a rule are backwards, controlling, and sexually repressive. These women, instead of just admitting that they don't find Indian men attractive on a physical level (a preference which I'm fine with, even if I wholeheartedly disagree), don't want to sound "shallow", so they ascribe extremely negative traits to Indian men to justify their preferences as enlightened.

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SirNemesis · 2015-08-05T15:43:15+00:00

I've noticed the blatant racial AFBB by Indian-American girls mentioned in the previous thread. I haven't however noticed much bias from white girls.

thereddespair · 2015-08-05T15:34:47+00:00

if they really do, then dont go for white women

SmurfESmurferson · 2015-08-05T15:11:33+00:00

Maybe I'm reading something into these questions that isn't there (so if my premise is incorrect, please disregard everything else I write), but they always read to me as the OP complaining about how they aren't looked at b/c of their race ... When they don't even want to look at women whose races are anything other than white themselves.

Honestly, the guys who ask this question might be radiating internalized self-hate, or at least internalized racism.

Women are intuitive. We may not be able to put our finger on it, but we do pick up on those subtle clues that someone has some major malfunctions - especially when it involves a dangerous combination of insecurity and anger. That's why these groups tend to create their own self-fulfilling prophecies:

Women who "don't like other women"
Men who blame their romantic failings on race, income, car, etc
Men whose friends are concerned that they'll snap and shoot up a women's gym one day due to an unhealthy level of misogynistic rage (and yes, I actually have known one of these guys. Couldn't get a date, and it couldn't have been more clear why)
Men with mommy issues

Etc, etc.

gaylooboil · 2015-08-05T19:37:31+00:00

Reading the responses here, it seems its OK for Indian men to put white women on a pedestal, declaring their preference for this particular race, but if white women do the same, its unfair. They're shallow.

taiboworks · 2015-08-05T14:02:40+00:00

interracial marriage is rare for all races - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

Title	Indian men, do you feel like white women treat you unfairly?
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Date	August 5, 2015 1:50 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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