So this just happened...

SBIII · 2019-11-21T23:10:53+00:00

LOL

,I am a seer, I can see things in the spirit realm and I know how they operate. I've helped people rid themselves of demons. I get them in my house sometimes when I have guests over or I help deliver people's demons.

If you were a clairvoyant, you'd have seen this coming.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2019-11-21T23:12:04+00:00

In crisis, there is opportunity. Or not, if you don't get with the program.

screechhater · 2019-11-21T23:13:31+00:00

Ya need to lead your family.

When kids are a spaz, they are just replicating the gross chaos the parents feel of being overwhelmed.

Lift. Sidebar.

Get your tubes clipped and tied

RPWolf · 2019-11-22T20:41:53+00:00

Everything in this post disgusts me. I can tell just from this post without looking at your post history that you are a fat, immature, fuck up who couldn't own his own shit if his life depended on it because it does.

I can handle some pretty serious levels of fucking retardedness around here but when faggots like you make kids and then regret them I literally want to curb stomp you.

Quit your fucking bellyaching and realize that this is all your fault. Your sexless marriage, the "stress" of having kids, and most of all this gem:

The last baby really did a number on the marriage. He has not been a laid back kid at all.

Fuck you, man. Blaming your kid on your marriage being a trash pile. Yeah kids are hard but maybe if you lead your family it wouldn't be. Your kids had exactly zero fucking say about being brought into this world by your malformed sperm so own your shit and be the type of man your kids can emulate, not the retarded sperg you are now!!

RedPillGlasses · 2019-11-22T14:12:39+00:00

I’m not a bunch of kids in a minivan kind of a guy

I got bad news for you faggot

OptimusRP · 2019-11-22T01:01:41+00:00

Congratulations!

hack3ge · 2019-11-22T02:54:17+00:00

Bang up job Colombo....

As for this little nugget:

I don't even know if my marriage can take another sexless, stressful hiatus so soon.

You clearly don’t get it all - this shit was never about your marriage faggot.

SeeTheFence · 2019-11-22T00:10:35+00:00

You’re a lucky man. One mans trash...

PillUpAss · 2019-11-21T23:02:28+00:00

Get fixed, dummy. Do it now.

mrbadassmotherfucker · 2019-11-22T06:19:40+00:00

I have 2 and I wouldn't want another one. As you say, 2 more years of bringing up a baby until they can actually do things on their own properly. It's a lot of work and you know this.

Having said this, GET WITH IT NOW. ITS HAPPENING.

Look at the positives NOT the negatives. You've had your little cry about it, now sort out your shit and get planning. Do things better than you did before. Learn from past mistakes with your other children and make sure you have a slightly easier ride this time.

You'll be OK brother. That's what you want to hear isn't it.

NOW GET YOURSELF UP FAGGOT AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!

wkndatbernardus · 2019-11-22T03:13:07+00:00

Dog, I'd be doing cartwheels if I were you. Like Louis CK said, "everything is awesome, but no one is happy."

TRT_Maybe_Deca · 2019-11-22T03:55:10+00:00

Thanks for the reminder that I need to schedule my vasectomy

So it's not all bad, your helping to remind the rest of us to stay on our toes.

That flair is dreamy as fuck too

Also marriages can handle 3 kids, sounds like you can't manage 2. Man the fuck up

fannyfire · 2019-11-22T14:00:26+00:00

How the fuck are you this irresponsible? I’ve been tracking my wife’s cycle for two years now. I know when she’ll have her period before she does.

What else are you fucking clueless about?

redwall92 · 2019-11-22T14:24:29+00:00

There were two questions in life I thought I'd never be able to answer.

1) Am I ready to have kids?

2) Am I ready to be done having kids?

Number 1 gets answered by nature unless you're really on the top of your frame game (which no 21yo is IMO).

And five kids later ... I was ready to answer number 2. Weirdest thing ... never thought I'd be able to answer it, but the answer was staring me in the face :: 5.

TL;DR - 2 more to go bro. Magic number's 5.

lololasaurus · 2019-11-22T03:51:18+00:00

I think that's awesome. Your tribe increases. You will get out of this what you put into it. Sadly it doesn't sound like you're really up to the challenge of leading yourself, much less others such as a family. Hopefully you can come to some good perspective there.

2ndal · 2019-11-22T15:29:12+00:00

But damn, now I feel like my life is on hault for another two years.

Who's in control here, you or an unborn fetus?

OptimusRP · 2019-11-23T00:28:46+00:00

I got a vasectomy but they must not have done it right because my wife still got pregnant and the baby was half black. Weird...

tap0988534 · 2019-11-25T22:07:59+00:00

Before Mrp, babies meant little to no sex while pregs and little to no sex while nursing (2 yrs). With our last kid, she was still eager to bang one out hours before we went in for the c-section.

After the post-op greenlight she's been an eager Beaver. She's even nursed the baby during sex to shut him up. I've gotten home at 6 while she's serving dinner, led her to the bedroom, and she's spent 90 minutes banging it out while toddlers try to break off the doorknob, and the older kids slide art projects under the door. And this while she's still in pain from surgery.

Her hamster even imagines that she is completely silent the whole time and seems unaware of her cries of pleasure.

The difference between getting your wife to fuck you, and being someone your wife wants to fuck is night and day.

And for me this is beginner marginal MRP dread level 0, not Mrp success. I'm a little stronger, but still 40 lbs overweight. It primarily rides on two things, constantly improving, and not being a butthurt bitch.

Drivinga1486 · 2019-11-26T16:50:30+00:00

Change your fucking perspective, now! The more you look at this as a negative the more it will become one. This is a blessing. Focus on the possitve and being positve and the more your wife will fill that shape of your container. This is your opportunity to step up be the oak and lead your family. Stop focusing on the negatives and quit letting fear run your life. Time to step up and be a man. We've given you the tools now do it.

AlohaMaui808 · 2019-11-30T06:12:47+00:00

It's my fault for being irresponsible.

Literally the only part of your post that has anything to do with

I still have to own my shit.

I don't know your situation, but maybe you should take a look at the OYS Header text in r/MarriedRedPill , rewrite this pile of shit into an actual OYS based on what OYS actually is, and post it this coming Tuesday so you can start to actually OYS in a way that will allow you to progress out of this extremely pathetic, loser mindset you have going right now.

All the rest of your post is you trying to DEER to us about your failings as a leader of your clan, and cry for sympathy in the same breath as well.

Your victim puke makes me want to... puke.

adeptintact · 2019-11-23T18:05:02+00:00

From some of the comments on this thread, don't get a vasectomy and emasculate yourself. Your SMV would instantly go down. Instead, get your wife to do a tubal ligation.

Rollo touches on vasectomies among other things in his latest post:

https://therationalmale.com/2019/11/15/unconscious-contempt/

Title	So this just happened...
Author	DeanMaverick13
Upvotes	19
Comments	47
Date	November 21, 2019 10:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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