Q4men: N-Count enthusiasts, how many times have you turned down sex.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2019-11-26T09:05:20+00:00

Bait aside, I have rejected about 4-5 women out of the 20 or so I have dated due to this.

>Whatever a womans N-Count is, its the number of rejection she makes that show self control.

That makes no sense. A ratio between rejections and opportunities would be if anything a more suitable metric.

wtknight · 2019-11-26T12:20:05+00:00

I’ve rejected four women who were friends and who were hinting at but did not directly ask for sex. I’ve rejected another two who were not friends but who wanted dates that may or may not have eventually become sexual situations. I don’t date or have sex with women unless I have feelings for them, and I expect the women who I’m attracted to to be exactly the same way.

MGTOW_IN_JAPAN · 2019-11-26T10:59:08+00:00

Actually a lot. My old fraternity brothers would give me massive shit. "Who cares if she's a ho, just fuck her and ghost" But still wouldn't . Had 3 LTR. 4 year, 2 year, 4 year. All virgins before me. I WISH I wasn't off-put but n-count, and I'd say, but I used to be hella picky. Now I just don't bother

lonelinessmademecave · 2019-11-26T11:14:00+00:00

You have to understand, that for guys, they reject girls by not pursuing them. So rejection looks a little different from the model you’re thinking of. And it happens all of the time, by every dude, including - in fact, most especially - the incels,

Guys are physically attracted to pretty much anything, due to our relatively ridiculous sex drive. We subconsciously are discerning tho, even if most guys lack the intellectual capacity to be self aware about this fact. And that discernment manifests itself in who they actually try to pursue, if anyone at all.

I really hate using the loser shut-in lingo commonplace here, but I’ll just say that most dudes don’t respect a girl they perceive as loose. A girl who has racked up a huge number prompts in me an involuntary response of “ick,” whether I intellectually agree or not.

But, intellectually, I get where my lizard brain is coming from. I don’t want to stick my dick in a disease factory and join the ranks of those filthy folk that justify HPV as, like, totally “””normal”””.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-11-26T12:31:33+00:00

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diffdedbed · 2019-11-26T14:12:13+00:00

Whatever a womans N-Count is, its the number of rejection she makes that show self control.

As a swinger I've rejected a lot of women, I couldn't begin to count.

Its not self control though, its just that I don't have sex with women I find unattractive due to looks (mostly) and circumstance (now and then).

Basic attraction I wouldn't put into self control.

abaxeron · 2019-11-26T23:04:00+00:00

"Yo wanna fuck?" - "No." - zero cases. No woman ever straightforwardly asked me to have sex with her. It's always mind games and plausible deniability.

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Barely-moral · 2019-11-26T12:42:05+00:00

Lets ignore the obvious possibilities here:

Of course, lets ignore the things you write though they should be completely ignored. Makes perfect sense.

You are insecure she is comparing your penis to other penises in the way you compare her to other girls.

Yes. I am insecure. No shit.

You think she is fantasizing over other dudes.

I suspect that. And since it is a possibility it is a something I would rather reduce the risk of. Even if it is useless. As I said above, insecure.

You are jelous of the sexual power a woman has.

Of course. No point denying it.

Anyway my question is

Ok. Now to the point.

how many times have you rejected sex.

Men don't get asked for sex, men are the pursuers. This question is wrong from the get go.

A woman will have rejected a hell of a lot more than her n-count.

Sure, because every man she knows wants to fuck her.

Especially if we take the joke about every time a man speaks he is basically asking for sex.

So you do get it.

Whatever a womans N-Count is, its the number of rejection she makes that show self control.

It doesn't work that way. For women, "no" is the default state (If that were not the case, men wouldn't complain). It is the opposite for men.

I want to answer your question but how do you define a situation in which a man turns down sex?

Usually the man is the one who initiates.

Are you asking how many times I backed out after I got a yes?

Are you asking how many times a woman asked me for sex and I turned it down? Again, that is rare for men, even for chad.

Are you asking me how many dates/relationships I backed down when I tought sex was a possibility?

At which point in an interaction with a woman can I say I turned down sex for it to be an appropiate answer to your question?

Prodigy5 · 2019-11-26T14:27:28+00:00

The n count obsessed guys are losers. It’s unfortunate the TRP doesn’t acknowledge this. Yes high n count is not a good sign but anybody who wants a virgin is an idiot

M4sterDis4ster · 2019-11-26T15:37:41+00:00

It really depends what kind of men are trying to date her for long term relationship.

N-count matters.

Emervila · 2019-11-26T18:01:02+00:00

I don't freak out for N-count but I have rejected 5-7 girls bc their number is way too high. I just can't trust my health to a female who fucks anything she crosses path with.

Workaholiconew · 2019-11-26T18:27:52+00:00

9 times, mostly because of hygienic and safety reasons.

How much one rejects something and how much one self control has are 2 different variables

My grandfather who rejected uncountable jobs because he prefered to have his nights spent on a bar(he was a famous drunkyard), is the proof that they are unrelated variables.

Just because you consider the lack of sex more valuable than sex with 80% of men, does not mean you have self control, just that you are a woman.

FatmanSlim93 · 2019-11-26T22:10:10+00:00

I don’t remember the amount of situations but if it’s women I’d say 5? I might be forgetting one or didn’t notice someone was flirting with me cause I’m apparently an anime protagonist.

The-Gorillioner · 2019-11-27T02:59:09+00:00

Men... when feminism started a lot of mentally retarded men jump on the ship when they heard the word “the beginning of the sexual liberations of women” in the 60s which the sociologist really went full retard with it because at the time better tv in color, HD and 3D picture to spread their religion half truth and half garbage theory was only beginning to sound and look better better in tv which is where it became tsunami at mass scale. 😆Today there are millions of these morons in the present who think women had to be “sexually liberated” because it was males who were “oppressing” them sexually because that is what the mentally I’ll sociologist told them about women. In reality women biologically just don’t have sex the same way as men. In the present women have prove that if some god comes to earth and say to women: I will sustain you without you doing anything to existen women will just dump men all together. Why? Because GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN.😆Women don’t want sex as much as men do and once the government told them there is “free money” for all of you and affirmative action for your “independence” because you don’t need a men or nobody else to exist, women don’t really have anything else to bring them to lose to men. Now all you have is just women proving the truth. No body oppressed them sexually, the feminist religion theory was always bs from retarded sociologists. Women just don’t want sex as much as men. In the present you have feminist who are “liberated sexually active” but that is just to “prove” the rest of people are “wrong” and that their religion is still “true”. The majority of women DON’T have sex unless if they have to. Men have sex even when they Don’t have to. There are men who have sex even when it will end up killing them.😂being humans sucks. Now,obviously there are women who like sex to point where sex becomes something fun for these women but it is a tiny number of women. So small that is not worth mentioning because what count is what the majority are, in this case.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2019-11-28T08:21:52+00:00

I dont really count but if I had to guess? 5-10 times?

TheJim66 · 2019-11-26T09:33:43+00:00

I have turned down a few fatties and some REALLY ugly chicks.

I'll take the bait.

You are insecure she is comparing your penis to other penises in the way you compare her to other girls.

You think she is fantasizing over other dudes.

You are jelous of the sexual power a woman has.

Men and women are different.Men are disgusted by the thought of investing in a slut.Women are attracted to high n men.It originated from the time you couldn't be sure you were the father of the child.

And of course there are the more rational reasons like relationship instability and investing in a woman everyone has gotten anyway.But these are just the cherry on the top of the slutty cake.

Title	Q4men: N-Count enthusiasts, how many times have you turned down sex.
Author	x86_virtual_kernel
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Date	November 26, 2019 8:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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