Howdy!

So my husband is currently reading the recommended books from TRP and MRP (i.e.: 'no more mr nice guy'), I can see some good out of it (i.e.: self improvement) but his actions are making him seem like a jerk. He purposefully withhold compliments, acts like I don't exist, when I want to share something with him, he Told me no, want me to go up to kiss him instead of coming down to my level to kiss me, etc. little things like that cause me to remember when he was really red pilled which was just a few weeks ago.

A few weeks ago, he mentioned something about my hamster wheel and how I cheat on him (which I didn't, but I did read a post on TRP teaching them how to accuse their SO to cheat on them to make their SO go crazy), which is a tactic used by TRP. He got up in the middle of the night and left because of previous argument and didn't come back till couple hours later. Treated me like a sex object that doesn't deserve respect. Those extreme red pill crap that he pulled was a few weeks ago, and he had gotten better but he never apologized. And now, although he'd gotten better, he started to be more passive aggressive instead of aggressive aggressive, which to me, it is worst. He is playing mind games with me and I really despises that. He's sneak in comment such as 'I'm the alpha male', etc. and to me, that is a sad attempt to show that you're 'alpha' male.

Before TRP, he used to be such an amazing husband. Compliments were given when it was due, never doubted my ability to do something, always encouraging me, but now, he made sneaky comment about how I can never do what I wanted to do, withholding compliments, ignoring my request, acting like he's the big alpha male and I should obey.

What can I do to help him break this cycle? It is hurting our relationship and making me not wanting to be with him.

Edit: clarification

Edit: I don't want to leave him or get a divorce beaucase I generally believe that he is a great person, he is just being influenced by MRP and TRP. Some of the TRP aspect I really like, ie: self awareness and fitness, but that's about it. I think a healthy dose of TRP is ok just not the extreme like many of MRP and TRP proclaimed.

Edit: We recently (aug 2016) moved from our hometown to another state so he had to get a new job, get adapted to a new place, and the election. We fought and fought because we are both stressed out. In a sense, I feel like he is blaming me for everything, including the reason for our migration. I had to move because I got accepted into a graduate school 2 states away. And I think that is the reason why he is unhappy, although I don't want to assume.

Edit: we talked that night or the day after since he saw my post and posted a responding post on MRP. I told him my concern with MRP and TRP. He told me why he went to MRP and TRP. The self improvement section was very attractive to him, but the treatment of women? Not so much. But then, we're only human. When we read something, we subconsciously act that way. Even though he told me he doesn't agree with everything MRP and TRP has to say, he did act like them and even more discreetly now. But anyway, after a long talk, I begun to understand his resentment. We both need to work on our marriage and communication is key. (Doesn't matter what MRP or TRP say about communication, cause their advices are shit). I'm going to trust him to check himself when he steps into the MRP and TRP traps, although he peruse it everyday. I think it is a good start, hopefully it stay this way.