Q4men: what if she's a virgin and won't do anything sexual with you until you commit to a relationship...but she's done sexual stuff with other guys without commitment?

TheColdestHand · 2020-01-18T03:07:18+00:00

That’s an easy no. What you’ve said is ‘Chads & Tyrones’, get all the ‘privileges’ while not having to commit. I.e.”You’re not that attractive, so you have to do more for the same results”

Imagine being so mentally deprived, that you say yes to that. Embarrassing.

blackedoutfast · 2020-01-18T02:41:05+00:00

done sexual stuff with other guys

virgin

nope

2020-01-18T03:39:02+00:00

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mechanical_elves · 2020-01-18T02:45:20+00:00

I'd by "other sexual stuff" I'd assume she's let some guy plow her in the anus but still considers herself a virgin because it's not PIV.

Nope.

2020-01-18T02:43:13+00:00

No go.

Having done sexual stuff but maintaining your virginity is a Christian-slut-hack, but I count it all together

v1cgt · 2020-01-18T03:50:05+00:00

I'll pass.shes playing games. Personally I'm cool with no vag, but ima need something in return.

Million-Suns · 2020-01-18T04:08:06+00:00

Someday, somehow, you 're gonna have to explain me that obsession with commitment. Particularly when it does not mean jack, even more if obtained after some pressure or bargain.

I think it's borderline autistic. I picture a horde of zombie women rampaging the street screaming "co..mmit...ment... marr...iage...co...mmit...ment..."

smoke_mardeljano · 2020-01-18T06:30:10+00:00

no. anybody who'd say otherwise is a massive fool.

MrHerbSherman · 2020-01-18T02:53:54+00:00

She’s a Virgin?

What am I, 15

Why am I bothering with this shit

No

clindh · 2020-01-18T03:58:42+00:00

Females don't think objectively, they think subjectively.

seabeeaj · 2020-01-18T04:53:15+00:00

Usually the sex is not worth waiting for and it is usually ho hum at best.

binkerfluid · 2020-01-18T05:56:12+00:00

yeah, id wait for a virgin as well. I think if thats something thats important for her you have to respect that if you are into her. Obviously this is assuming we were both younger or whatever.

That said I would feel a bit odd if someone was willing to do stuff with other people and not me in the sense of "whats wrong with me?" or "why them and not me?"

if she is into doing those things with people but not with me it signals she really isnt that interested in me and I dont want to be with someone thats not into me.

Chrchgrl85 · 2020-01-18T10:17:48+00:00

It should be considered that maybe she came to the realization that she wanted something different and that happened to be when you showed up. I tried to just have casual sex a few times....and I just couldn’t do it without hurting my heart. So I set the boundary of no sex without a long term committed relationship or marriage.

Whiteliesmatter1 · 2020-01-18T13:39:30+00:00

No go.

wekacuck · 2020-01-18T02:55:40+00:00

I don't think I should care but I don't think it would ever even matter. I wouldn't be committing to a girl unless she was fun and energized me.

I don't know I just sort of feel like I can figure out if someone's playing games. And if they're playing games it sure as hell better be more interesting that watching a calendar for paint to dry.

Go or no go?

It's irrelevant.

But at my age and the women I'd find age-appropriate she'd have to be pretty weirdo to still be a virgin.

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diffdedbed · 2020-01-18T04:54:09+00:00

How hot is she?

vicistvic · 2020-01-18T08:19:05+00:00

Sexual interaction outside the confines of the marital union ought to be strictly forbidden.

2020-01-18T02:44:50+00:00

Yea sounds like she's being dishonest with herself, so you know for damn sure she's gonna be dishonest with you.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-01-18T09:05:29+00:00

I would try for a bit and if I can't get her to be sexual with me I would leave. Remember you have to be her alpha for it to work. If she doesn't see you as alpha another girl would.

Also if a girl over 17 starts talking that virgin shit to you, it probably #1 bullshit. That just means she takes it in the ass instead.

Title	Q4men: what if she's a virgin and won't do anything sexual with you until you commit to a relationship...but she's done sexual stuff with other guys without commitment?
Author	Validationation
Upvotes	1
Comments	61
Date	January 18, 2020 2:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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